Asking for a friend :)

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#1

You have helped me a lot and I would like to ask for help for a person who is important to me. :slight_smile:

So, my friend (female) would like to try SubClub.

She would start with 1 or 2 subs.

This is what she needs to work on:

  • Healing childhood trauma
  • Healing relationship with her parents and
  • Healing traumas from past love relationships

My friend drags with her a lot of bad memories from the past that she doesn’t know how to get rid of, doesn’t know how to let go of, doesn’t know how to forgive and forget some things, but exhausts herself by thinking about it every day. She has been having a lot of trouble in her life in the last couple of years and now she feels trapped in everyday life, she feels depressed and lonely and has no will for anything, if she didn’t have to go to work, she would probably never leave the house.

Sometimes she reacts quite aggressively in some harmless situations and she is aware of it but she just doesn’t know how to control herself at that moment. Has no self-love, no self-confidence. She wants to change her life for the better, but he has no motivation at all and she doesn’t even know where to start, whenever she starts some small task, she quickly gives up and then becomes even more disappointed in herself. She also recently started having psychotherapy, subs would be of great help to her.

What do you recommend she start with?

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#2

Love Bomb and Sanguine definitely come to mind.

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#3

Thank you, I was also thinking about Love Bomb because it helps me a lot with self love. Which Sanguine? The Elixir?

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#4

Good question.

Both would work IMO, Saguine is already updated with lasted tech.

#5

sounds good! I second this

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#6

I would primarily use LB and maybe another sub later. However, I would only recommend LB as the only sub to start with.
I personally don’t find Sanguine as easy as is generally assumed. At least for me.
LB alone for the first one or two cycles should give the best results in this case.

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#7

I fully support LB and Sanguine.

Only keep in mind, that both titles can hit very hard.

So starting slow with LB, like 1 minute, second listening day 2 minutes, 3rd listening day 3 minutes and then slowly increase until she notices recon.
If she notices recon earlier, of course she should stop earlier.

For family healing she could run Lineage: Mandate Eternal.

For relationship healing Heartsong as well.

But that has time. Number one priority should be her selflove. 2 months of only LB.
Then adding Sanguine.
After another 2 months, she could add a third title. Or she takes even more time for her own healing.

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#8

Thank you all for your help, this morning she started listening to LB for one minute, if there is no recon, the day after tomorrow she increases it by 30 seconds. I look forward to her results. :slight_smile:

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#9

Great. But don’t forget to be patient, it could take a while (2 to 3 months) for the first good feelings. I experienced this myself. If her self-love is very low, here subconscious will try to reject the new idea of self-love and self-worth. To begin with short cycles like she does is an excellent idea, so it could go quicker.