Approachable AND nonchalant?

I’m running a custom with WB/RotNW/Inner Circle cores, but also have Total Nonchalance and Approachability Aura in it.

My question: Is it possible to be both approachable and nonchalant at the same time? Maybe I should’ve kept only one of them? Or maybe it is possible, and can actually create a coquette effect. Thoughts? @AnswerGroup

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Why wouldn’t you? You’re supposed to be approachable on everything, especially on WB.

WB is the epitome of Nonchalant; its post post post beyond total nonchalantness-ness. You are now getting extra scripting of total nonchalant from different angles. You could’ve used the spot for something else instead of Total Nonchalant, but its not the end of the world nor is it going to make your custom any less powerful, nor would it make you miss out on this or that.

You are already getting the coquette effect on WB.

Approach-ability Aura is a good choice to add with your custom.

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Thanks for the answer. Yeah I wish I’d used a result enhancer instead like Yggdrasil, Subconscious Flow, Overdrive etc. I also have Temptation in the custom, which also probably could’ve been replaced with something else like Ethereal Presence. Here’s my current custom:

WB core
RotNW core
Inner Circle core
Approachability Aura
King’s Radiance
NAE: Women
Handsomeness Improver
Seducer’s Gaze
Temptation
Edge of Falling
Earthshaker: Sexuality
Total Nonchalance
Enchanting Smile
Panther
Song of Joy
Iron Frame
Inner Gasoline
Synergy: Perfection Manifestation
Omnidimensional
Pragya

If I rebuild it it’ll be more like:

WB core
RotNW core
Inner Circle core
Approachability Aura
King’s Radiance
NAE: Women
Handsomeness Improver
Ethereal Presence
Overdrive
Edge of Falling
Earthshaker: Sexuality
Subconscious Flow
You Are Not Alone
Panther
Song of Joy
Alexander’s Play (or Instant Spark/Beyond Seduction)
Inner Gasoline
Synergy: Perfection Manifestation
Omnidimensional
Pragya

But I’ll run the current custom for 2-3 cycles. Right now I’m about two thirds through the first cycle.

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Absolutely possible and I would even argue that it would be a good thing to have both benefits since when women approach you (or vice-versa), it would be very handy to be nonchalant and non-needy when you talk with them.

It makes you confident, witty, in the moment and attractive.

Whether you remake your custom or not (since WB already has the nonchalance scripting), you will be good to go.

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Nonchalance imo is just a spice to add in if you add to much they just think you are an asshole and not in a charming good way.

I prefer the term carefree, You don’t care at all if she goes home with you likes you or whatever, And you are fully relaxed, Seriously relaxation is the single most crucial thing.
But you are still curious about getting to know her

I was on a date all I did was get to know her without really escalating physically, Just letting the date unfold as it wants too, A few hours go we are having fun but not any super big iois from girls. Except the most important one she does not want to leave,

Then she ask so can I come home with you?

Also be sure wanted is your style of seduction, Read through the wanted and primal seduction copy and really think about what resonate with you the most,

I got way more results with primal seduction, since it matches my being more, I even got approached more, which was a bit of a confusing thing.

Even though I liked the copy of wanted black more it looked more grand and cool, it did not match me

Best of luck on your journey.

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@Realitysmith if approachability and nonchalance each shape others’ impressions of you, what do you believe each trait says about who you are?

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Honestly pretty much what @Lion and @SwedishBuddha said: being approachable/friendly and at the same time carefree/non-needy.

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@Realitysmith

How long are you running your custom???

All the responses are right & nonchalance makes one approachable IMO.

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Just started, about halfway through first cycle.

Just proceed

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