A title for young men who were coddled, overly protected and trained to be afraid of everything from childhood. Who are riddled with anxieties, depression, fear and an inability to face real life off of their phones. Who have no real world confidence in themselves or in others. The generation who HAVE to constantly be listening to headphones and glued to their screens every waking hour. Who never put their phones down and go outside, who never have real face-to-face relationships, who have no real, physical friends. Those who have a worldview of Victimhood, were everyone is a victim including themselves and nothing is safe (except their phones and their little bubble of existence).
A title for these trapped souls.
It would have to start with foundational, gentle healing similar to DR Regeneration but geared for them. Gentle healing, slowly releasing anxieties, salve for emotions, to feel seen and heard, and even gentle anti-technology scripting to ween oneself off of their screens and start experiencing the real world (maybe geared towards nature). Dopamine scripting to help start receiving dopamine from healthy sources / experiences.
Maybe a four stager because there would need to be so much scripting to help rescue them from Victimhood mindset and to gain real confidence in themselves and off of their phones. As their phones are like surogate parents who never let their children grow up, thoroughly addicted to their technology. Scripting to gently combat this.
These are just ideas. I’ve seen so many kids today who are utterly enslaved to their phones and literally cannot be without them for any period of time. They have no ambition, no hope, no desire to have a different kind of life experience.
All of this is covered in Genesis: Ascension. Some stage 1, some stage 2. The Stabilizer specifically has the following feature:
Dopamine Mismanagement
Helps you address the modern epidemic of hijacked reward systems: the nightly scroll, the passive entertainment that consumes hours, the quick dopamine that asks nothing and gives just enough to keep you reaching for more. With this feature at work, you begin the slow recalibration the brain needs after a steady diet of fast, cheap satisfaction — the kind that made the slow burn of meaningful work stop competing and made discipline feel impossible, not because you lacked willpower but because the neurological deck was stacked against you.
In daily life, this shows as the gradual return of your ability to choose what deserves your attention rather than having it stolen. You sit with boredom instead of immediately filling it. You reintroduce activities that require patience, focus, and presence. The things that once felt impossibly heavy regain their natural weight. You can focus longer, tolerate the slow middle of a project, and engage with meaningful work without your mind constantly reaching for something brighter.
@SaintSovereign tagging u just because the stabilizer is such a beautiful title and I would love to express my gratitude.
The little boy that was coddled, addicted to his phone/computer, afraid of real life, hides to his virtual-reality-bubble any time he gets stressed out… you’re describing me to a T.
Until I found subliminals, I was that person through and through. Perhaps, in some ways, different than the young man you’re thinking of… but certainly the same in all the core elements.
I was raised in an extremely neglectful home environment.
No abuse, no connection, no hate, no love, just… nothing. A mother who loved me very very much but worked 6-7 days a week 10+ hours a day, and a father who loved me very much but never wanted to be a father, never wanted to be a stay-at-home-house-husband, and never wanted to be trapped in a house babysitting all day instead of loving life and seeing the world.
So what did he demand?
Just a simple request for silence… don’t bug him, don’t talk to him, don’t ask him for too much, don’t interrupt his TV time, don’t have loud hobbies, don’t have friends over, don’t ask for rides…. “Let’s just pretend each other doesn’t exist until your mom gets home, OK?”
That was my existence 6 days a week from age 5 to age 15…
At age 5 I discovered the internet, as a way to fulfill my father’s request for silence and still be intellectually and socially engaged with people I met on online games like RuneScape.
at age 15 I no longer even wanted to connect with my family in any way shape or form, and would emotionally-violently reject them if they tried, and I preferred to spend all my time either online gaming or drinking/smoking/partying/gaming with friends. That turned into drugs. I “got out” of that life, and my ex-best friend died of an overdose a few years later.
My life devolved to nothingness until I discovered the Vipassana retreats, which were the biggest help ever. I was a socially extroverted guy, had big dreams, but in reality I was the kid that you’re describing, I just also loved high-dopamine-thrill-seeking socializing. Nothing normal, stable, or healthy though.
Right after I did a few Vipassana retreats, having lived there for a while, I felt like I started to get my mind healed, and I decided to start a business. That’s when someone referred me to subclub and I started listening to these subliminals.
The first one I ever listened to, for almost 1.5 years, was Ascended Mogul. And it really really helped. I built a very successful business, and squashed a lot of those tendencies, but they always had the risk of coming back up. The business grew and I became less and less that person addicted to technology and more and more the person that I wanted to become - but I NEVER worked on my folllow through, my organization, my balance, the things that the new ST1 Ascension - Stabilizer covers.
The business tanked because it was built on shaky foundations, my finances tanked because I didn’t track, organize, or file ANYTHING, and then I got into a sales job and burned my 50k savings in 6 months, then racked up 10k+ credit card debt when I lost that sales job.
Then followed a 2 year period of barely being able to work because of such a deep dark depression and I became that tech addicted person again. I could go to a Vipassana retreat for a month, never need my phone for a day, but then the moment I went back to real life, I went right back to my 12-hr/day screen addiction to avoid the pain of not knowing how to organize my taxes, fix my life, and clean my proverbial and literal room.
I only just started the stabilizer but even just reading the copy, I can see how important it is for me. I hit the highest highs, made a biz with 700k rev, 50% profit, my first 2 years in biz, and then my first year in sales after that made almost 250k.
But the bigger the climb, the harder the fall, and I had no foundations so I fell HARD.
I wish I had the foundation/stabilizer back then. There’s a reason I’m committing to it so intensely as my main sub. I’ll be listening to ST2 and ST2 for a loooooooooong time with the confidence that they’ll be all the subliminal input I really need for a very long time.
The Stabilizer addresses every single piece I struggle with. The avoidance, of every domain. I use my phone to avoid my life. I use my phone because when it comes time to do my taxes or file a form or organize my life, my adhd is so bad that I feel broken and a sense of panic arises and I don’t know what to do so I use my phone “for 5 minutes first” to self soothe… and then that turns into 12 hours.
I can feel the stabilizer working already and can recommend it wholeheartedly as the only sub you should ever give that boy. ST1, and maybe 2 one day if he’s interested, is all he needs, and you can skip the constantly recommending new subliminals and monitoring his progress and assessing what he needs, comfortable that they cover everything needed for a good life.
@Jouissance thank you so much for this. After thoroughly reading the sales copy for new Ascension I totally agree and THANK YOU for sharing your story and experience. You are an inspiration!
Bloody hell @Jouissance you are an absolute Dan for sharing your success story and overcoming hurdles in such a positive, frank way
I think for @Ravenscout this Stabiliser is also great for releasing toxic self shame, as I’m feeling safe enough to express myself without the “shoe to drop” dread feeling even coming online. Along with the other benefits, this should reinforce pride and okayness in oneself
