Advice for a young fella?

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#64

last time I heard someone say exactly this, didnt turn out well. Biased here but just hearing those words again sounds really bad to me because of that. For context the guy who said that had some wealth from his daddy and wanted to spend it on women on the internet. At first doesnt seem significant but very soon after I realized that this guy was absolutely ignorant to the world of proper behavior and understanding of human nature/game etc. He acted like an 8 year old and every time youd tell him to go away, hed try to offer money and assume youll stick around and bare that bullshit because he can pay his subscription to stick around instead of being honest with himself and you know… learning how to interact properly and understand what other people feel and want and such. He didnt care and then said “I just show my love through giving money to people.” In fact, he was just paying others to bear his painful ignorance. He thought he sounded so good and pure like “aww this guy is just a little boy and hes so pure he wants to give to people” but in fact he was just a spoiled ass who never had to look inside himself and change because he could stuff dollars into other peoples hands and some of them would stick around to lick his ass for it. Quite disgusting. Give in better ways than money, Give in understanding, true love/care and insight. Give through being a good human being and dont hide behind money. It wont hide anything.

Not to say this is anyone here but IF IT IS ANYONE HERE

I dont care I just wanted to share the story go have a nice day

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#65

@Malkuth yeah I guess more along the lines of love language. A transactional relationship solely based on financial stuff is doomed to fail though, I agree. I guess my point was there are people out there that like that form of love language and people who like receiving. Wouldn’t that count as selection criteria?

@IRON I could see why that would be a problem. But I’m sure there are some relationships that giving money occurs in a healthy manner. What you outlined here is a good example of giving with some expectations in return.

Shouldn’t wealth beliefs extend to relationships as well if someone was inclined to explore that?

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#66

Nothing wrong with sharing riches. Just gotta check yourself and check them too. Good things are built with mindful intent and dirty work put in.

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#67

You said you had more goals than that, though. Money.

Another matter is why haven’t you jumped on those opportunities already in the first place? No guts? Primal would help.

On top of that, WB is for advance “players” who have their lives in check.

Diamond? For a 25 y.o. guy? You must be joking. I would run it at that age only to keep HER satisfied to th highest degree. But there’s no HER in your life yet.

Edit:
Mind that the most important matter for pretty much every man, unless the’ve done that already (or they were born into riches and are “natural seducdrs”), is working on the most essentials skills for making money and getting women.

:snowflake:

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#68

whoever believes you need money to get women is just sad

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#69

There are.

The problem is trying to use money (giving or receiving) as the FOUNDATION of a relationship.

That’s doomed to fail.

Not because a focus on money and wealth is bad, but because it can’t substitute for a commitment to understanding humanity.

Someone who doesn’t want to love and understand humans is not going to do very well in relationships. Just like someone who doesn’t want to love and understand cooking is not going to do very well in the kitchen.

That’s not a criticism or a punishment. It’s just cause and effect.

Every situation has its own appropriate foundations and knowledge. Money does nothing to change that fact.

If your foundations are strong, money will help to make things more beautiful. If your foundations are weak, money will not fix the problem.

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#70

I think that skill and success with money and wealth are signs that a person has learned how to work with Value (and the negotiation of value) in their society.

They have some understanding of how Value is determined in society and they have developed some form of a winning strategy for navigating and dealing with that.

That’s an important and impressive aspect of social/societal competence.

It can be cultivated and admired just like any other form of competence.

It is also limited; just like almost every other form of competence.

Being good in one area does not automatically make you good in others. We need to be really vigilant about falling for that illusion.

See things for what they are.

Appreciate things for what they are.

And deal with things as they are.

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#71

I didn’t pull the trigger on WB + Divine Dominion.

Just did DRR St1 + ME, I think I made the right choice, hope I can stick with it.

#72

Now there are many pretty rich girls in tears :frowning:

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#73

The picture in your avatar looks like someone who has run (or is running) Dragon Reborn Red.

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#74

I have been thinking about it, always imagining that Ragnar Lothbrok ran Stark Black + Khan + Wanted Black or some other crazy stack and maybe he did, but he must have started with Dragon Reborn.

Also most definitely he ran Ascension when he was younger.

#75

And Spartan of course. You totally forget to include the physical part.
You do not want to be alpha without good physical attributes.

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#76

Definitely, he started with Ascension + Spartan.

#77

that’s more like it

#78

This will be your next stack?

#79

Maybe after DR + ME, can’t know for sure.

#80

I was you 3 years ago. And I made a choice, I focused entirely on women. I got to the point where I was sleeping with 4 7s at the same time and earned a reputation that I kinda hate these days…I was also a waiter lol.

Now I’m broke af and the clock is ticking. For me to keep getting girls I gotta make money or else…well at 29 if I don’t make money it’ll become sad.

For the record, I think I made the right choice for me. I had to become a seducer in order to chill the hell out and be able to focus on money, and other things however, if there is even a point here, the point is that focus is king.

So yeah, no wrong answers man. I had to do what I did. I had to prove to myself that I could win with women even as a broke dude.

What i learned is that women are abundant. Men and women love each other and are drawn to each other is beyond attraction, it’s spiritual.

So…my point, if I could just get to it, is that there will ALWAYS be a woman to meet you at whatever level you’re at.

No wrong answers, but focus on yourself and you’ll find girls to meet you whereever you’re at. There is no scarcity.

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#81

Am I reading this right, you were sleeping with 47 women?
Youre a beast

#83

Do you feel like any of those skills can translate into helping you get money? Or has it benefited you in any way?

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#84

I guess from an evolution standpoint he did good having sex with beautiful women, I mean it was a good achievement

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