Advice for a young fella?

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#1

Hello, I’m 24 almost 25 and I have 2 major areas in my life that I want to focus on and I don’t know which one is more important.

On one hand I want to focus on building wealth and using EoG St 1 + RoW + Mind’s Eye.

On the other hand I want to build my seduction skills and use Primal + Sex and Seduction and maybe KB or RotNW.

Now I’m afraid that if I focus on money first because I’m concerned that I might lose my opportunity to meet a girlfriend, I currently work as a waiter and I have opportunities to meet beautiful woman but maybe in the future I won’t have such opportunity.

I do how ever want to focus on money first because I want to be wealthy so I won’t have to work a job and I want to retire my mom and be financially secure, I also want to build something great, I’m afraid that by focusing on that I will lose the opportunity to meet girls as I said above.

Can someone give me advice, I’m young and confused and don’t know how to proceed.

Thanks.

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#2

You are the only one who can answer yourself. A longer washout could maybe help. 15 days maybe? I sense you might be too heavy sub wise and youre reconed half the time.

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#3

I’m actually now on my 7th washout day

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#4

continue youre doing good. Adjust your schedule when you get back on. Maybe add in extra rest day bewetween loops

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#5

I’m 42. I say get that bag!

Or you could add Limit Destroyer or Alchemist Singularity to either destroy limits or resolve them in such a way that there’s no conflict between your desires. Like money and women.

You’ll have time to meet the woman. If I had to do it all over again, I wouldn’t worry about that one woman. I’d date the women who wanted me, at least I’d learn and grow a lot more.

I think if you have lots of attractive women, you really are better off just dating and not worrying about finding a relationship.

It seems like a long time but something like DRLD or Alchemist Singularity for 3-4 cycles will really help you clarify things. I’m finding having the clarity is priceless.

Just my two cents. The bottom line is it comes down to you. What do you really want? What’s most important now? That could change too. 3-4 cycles on wealth, and 3-4 cycles on seduction. Or combine the two for long term.

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#6

What do you want exactly?
Sleep around? A harem of FWB?
Or a Queen that rules at your side?

If it’s the later, focus on yourself and build an empire. Even if it’s “just” a solid job with a great income that gives you joy everyday.

As a man there’s no biological clock ticking. You can find THE Woman now, with 30, 40 or sixty and still have kids.

But one thing is sure. With a decent income Life is much easier. Also finding your passion makes you more attractive.

I’m ten years your senior. For me it was the other way round. I found my soulmate while recovering from burnout and depression. Still no real income today. That makes life difficult.

Knowing what I know now, if I would have had the luxury to have access to these subs ten years ago, I would have put my focus on building something first. Or at least started to build something. The woman would have come automatically.

What do you fear will happen if you stop working as a waiter? That women will vanish from your life? If you earn good money, you’ll have lots of possibilities to meet women. Perhaps not as much as now, but rising in social circles will give you access to different women while making you more attractive at the same time.
Not necessarily because you have the money, but because you became the person to have this kind of money.

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#7

When you’re older getting jobs may not be so easy, but getting the woman may be easier. It seems like that sometimes.

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#8

Young man, you got it backwards. Here is how it works:

  1. Find money and women will find you.

  2. You’ll run out of money chasing women but you’ll never run out of women if you’re chasing money.

  3. “Don’t worry about women, worry about making money. When you have money, women will always find you.”

Number 3 is almost verbatim something one of my highschool teachers explained to us, and she was a very attractive woman herself.

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#9

I can give you advice, but I need more information.

How much are you currently making as a waiter? Is that your only job? Are you living independently? Are you paying rent? What is your financial status, and how is your quality of life?

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#10

any wealth subs + heartsong long term
if you get it you get it

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#11

Focusing on making money in a way that truly fulfill you will amp your game to higher levels even if it means not going out as often or missing out on few dates. Do that and try to go out once or twice a week, by loving what you do and doing what you love, your game in going out once a week will be far better than a man who goes out 3, 5 or 7 times a week.

Outer game is far easier compared to true inner game which takes years if not decades of honing your emotional, mental and spiritual aspects. You are a dominant and fierce man! I can only assume the women of your dreams are feminine, caring and intelligent. Would those women truly be happy with a man true purpose in life is to get a GF or love? No, they would want a man with a purpose and passion that radiates from him and to join him on his already amazing life. Purpose first forever

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#12

Here is vague advice, lol.

Generally, focus on wealth and self-development. The #1 biggest problem with men in your age group (18-30), is that their priorities are completely fucked. You can ask any men’s coach. I’ve done coaching in the past, and I’ve seen this a countless amount of times. Below a certain level of income and financial stability - men should absolutely not be dating and fooling around with women. If a man doesn’t have his shit together, then he shouldn’t be fucking around.

I’ve encountered people who are barely getting by, and they spend all of their time and energy in toxic relationships, video games, screwing around, memeing, doing nothing productive, and chasing women. They take women out to restaurants and realistically can’t even afford that shit, lol. They refuse to have any accountability as men. It’s the same thing with people who run these subliminals and don’t want to take action or put in any work. The #2 biggest problem with men in your age group, is that they don’t workout. So get in the gym if you aren’t already. Figure out those routines and programs early on, the same goes for your diet. Always be networking and on the lookout for like-minded individuals.

Building something great sounds like entrepreneurship, and Emperor is a great subliminal for that. It depends on what your ideas are, and how you’re going to implement them. Figure out your skills/interests, and what route you want to take. Have clear financial goals. I usually say that if someone resides in the United States, then 6 figures is a reasonable goal. I tell my younger and impressionable family members “make a respectable income, and then start going on dates and shit”.

Don’t underestimate sexual transmutation. It’s mentioned in books like “Think and Grow Rich” by Napoleon Hill.

Whatever you decide to do though, good luck. I wish you success, lol.

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#13

@RagnarLothbrok, pick one sub that most vibes with the archetype of the person you see yourself as in the future, the archetype you’re already living into at your own pace.

Run that sub for a really long time. I’m talking six months to a year plus. You may add complimentary subs here and there, but keep one sub for as long as possible.

Money and women…

As for these two, I could pontificate about forever. Kanye West once rapped about them saying, “I just know when I’m chasing one, the other’s getting away.”

This is an illusion.

Chase your purpose because it will give you the drive to push through the life’s challenges.

Chase your passion because it will infuse you with passion and that will permeate many areas of your life.

Find a way for your purpose and passion to create economic value or value others are willing to pay you for.

When you can make money doing what you’re passionate about and fulfilling your life purpose, you have reached the trifecta and are operating at a completely different vibration.

People will notice.

Women will notice. They will notice they’re not the center of your world, that there’s something more important to you than them, and in the process you’ll filter out those unwilling to take the journey with you.

That’s what we want at the end of the day. A beautiful person willing to take the journey with us and all that comes with it. The ups, the downs, and everything in between.

Choose wisely. Life is short, but it’s the longest thing you’ll ever do.

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#14

I agree with this advice, though I’d recommend AM/Stark/SB/Emperor as they seem to be more money focused than Primal or Khan, for example. And I’m also all for the NSE

I’d honestly even recommend just going 1 sub for a while without anything else aside from maybe something like Limit Destroyer once a week. Whenever I run just 1 sub, I get MUCH better results than 2 or 3

Also, @RagnarLothbrok, if you wish to have long term relationships and not just some short relationships/one night stands, I’d just do the archetype sub + heartsong, with more focus on archetype sub. Maybe add after 6-12 months of exposure to the archetype sub. Not like those 6-12 months are the only time where you’ll be able to find a girlfriend in this life lol (also all archetype subs have some romance in them anyway)

Both money and relationships don’t have to be mutually exclusive in the young age and if you use it right, you can even greatly boost each of those with the help of the other (relationships are boosted with the help of money, and money is boosted through additional motivation/positive reinforcing from your relationships - that is, leaving aside spiritual stuff and so forth)

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#15

Congratulations on reaching out to us! That takes some courage with such a question.

There are certainly good insights in this thread. I’m going to answer this question, but not in the way you expect.

First:

Whoever put that fear in your head should be turned with their backside facing you, bent over, and kicked in the ass with a steel toe boot. Okay, I’m joking. Basically, that is bullshit.

At any age, it’s possible to find a girlfriend who rings your chimes.

Now for some generic advice that is popular in the man-o-sphere:

It’s reference to the movie “Scarface”.

Yes, it can work like that.

But remember that there are subliminals that can help with both things you want, so you may not be entirely on the horns of a dilemma. There is Khan and Stark, for example.

In terms of which is more important: they are probably both important to you.

Now I’m going to give you another priority to think about that I think supersedes both: get on excellent terms with your subconscious mind to be guided to the best course of action at any given moment. In other words, why are you limiting your self to thinking it’s either women or money? What if it was simultaneously both and neither?

How do you get on good terms with your subconscious? If you are listening to SC programs, you are already on the journey to do so. Are you journaling? Are you taking action?

Please list here the programs you are considering.

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#16

You can do 2 goals at a time. 3 will be too many and 1 can be boring so you can do 2 to keep it both simple and exciting.

Wealth and Seduction can be done togerher but I would advice you to only get into a serious relationship after you have your finances in order and can provide for her.

So yes, build your empire while you date casually. And then when you have an empire, do some long term dating and relationships.

So many titles here focusing on both so pick the one (or ones) that resonate with you.

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#17

I also encourage you to go for the money. Your gf will be glad that you did.

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#18

Khan + EOG,
women, ambitions, money

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#19

Low self-esteem, your having an overall poor sense of self-value, a poor opinion of yourself - it affects your sense of identity, self-confidence, feelings of competence, and feelings of belonging.

When you have this self esteem which is about more than just liking yourself - it also means believing that you deserve love and valuing your own thoughts, feelings, opinions, interest, and the goals that you mentioned.

You didn’t mentioned the titles your listening so I may guess if your with DR that could mean emotions coming into the surface. When I had my journey with Khan (I have not abandoned Khan, I’m still with Khan) It helps reminds me with my mistakes in life. It didn’t erase the inevitable but It makes me become even stronger to face on whatever obstacle life had with me.

For the titles, everything there works but I would strongly suggest find the ones that resonates with you.

You will know this because you will float on the air.

Hesitation will delay the manifestation. But it is normal to fear. . .

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#20

I’m making 3k a month, it’s my only job, I live with my mom