For healing these types of issues or if there has been patterns in life that leave you feeling this way, what subs are best to deal with it and overcome?
Feeling deserted, empty and alone, or unwanted?
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Hi,
That’s a tough question, as abandonment and loneliness have more than one possible root. Can you give a bit more background?
As it is, I would say Ascension is one solid starting point.
Regeneration is another decent choice.
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I’d start with LBFH
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Yeah judgement and rejection are part of this to.
When abandonment and aloneness occur to me, I often go into a kind of self loath mode and act out with some unwholesome behaviours.
I suspect I have a deep Father wound. I never received that masculine positive affirmation or embrace of acceptance and validation to install a secure sense of identification or self.
Results in lots of restlessness, wandering and searching for love and happiness.
How to find true satisfaction and fulfilment?
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These would be perfect
This would help aswell… Which is great bc the max limit is 3 subs and there they are 
You can’t go wrong with Ascension as a starting subliminal plus Regeneration for some deep overall healing
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I’m guilty of this too
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I came here with this background in 2018, and I ran Ascension for a number of months. The biggest shock I experienced on it was that I had power in my life. I felt hostage to constant fear and its pain, so that was shocking…but exciting as I stayed on it. People treated me with respect. Women eyed me. I wasn’t used to it, but it felt better than my normal mental reality. To this day, admitting to and facing the pain of abandonment is terrifying, as it’s the core of all my fears and poor reactions in life.
I’ve sampled almost every sub here at SC, and the most comforting healing sub I’ve utilized is Dragon Reborn. DR goes slow and steady, but you know stuff’s being worked on since normal fearful reactions tone down relatively quickly. I ended up making customs with DR since my mascuiinity felt weak, but now DR has elements which build up your masculinity. It enforces beliefs that you have power over your life, and that’s a major draw for anyone who’s been in the recovery rat race. DR reminds you you can live and choose new experiences. That’s hope.
Presently I’m using Love Bomb For Humanity, Limit Destroyer, and Emperor. LBFH is relatively new, but I’m liking how it opens up my heart to me loving myself, a skill not taught much growing up. Saint said it has the most self-love scripting of any SC sub, so that’s why I’m using it. I’m making new choices every day, much like I did on Ascension.
I’d recommend you starting with Ascension, pick up the free LBFH, and see how it goes. You’ll be pleasantly surprised. Start slow, listen to others here, and you’ll experience some major changes. Good luck!
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This, tbh.
And honestly, Love Bomb is an amazing sub and LBFH is currently free, so definitely check it out. Ascension is considered the go-to starter sub for a healing journey. Dragon Reborn is the Extreme Home Makeover as it digs deep and heals deep, so make sure to check out people’s DR journals here on the forum
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I’m not sure how I missed that key part of what you said the first time I read this.
Any of the healing titles, in Regeneration, Rebirth or Limit Destroyer can serve you.
If you’re seeing patterns, then you’re on a good track already. You recognize something. If you can see it, you can change it.
That being said, I would like to shift my initial suggestions.
I recommend you start with Ascension solo for a solid month. Revaluate from there.
Edit: I also just noticed you added this. This confirms for me my suggestion.
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Dragon Reborn and A Love Bomb for Humanity will take care of this. If you want to dig deeper add in Emperor Black. It made me crave solitude and independence. I used to be so needy.
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You need healing subs, you’re traumatized.
Check out Regeneration, Dragon Reborn, Sanguine, LBFH and them.
I’d recommend Regeneration +LBFH lol
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My girlfriend suffers from this. Running chosen really helped her. Saved our relationship in fact. You can’t be in a relationship if you’re constantly perceiving being abandoned and alone.
Chosen mixes the alpha vibes of ascension with the light, healing, loving energy of healing titles you’ve mentioned.
It’s not technically a healing sub, however, that level of pure positivity (that you seem to have been missing in your life) has a healing effect, and it’s also considered an emotional healing sub by category in the store.
I feel like this blends all the tips here in an easy to start, easy to get quick results with, and easy to sustain long term way for you.
Plus, I know from practice, not just theory, that it works for those new to subliminal club products dealing with your exact issue.
Combining it with ascension or LBFH could be a powerful option, depending on what you resonate with more. But I’d avoid a 3 title stack, even though the maximum recommendation is 3. Get your bearings with the subs first before adding a third
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Did you run it or did she run it?
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She ran it
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Love Bomb for Humanity. Free title. Has A LOT of scripting about self-love and developing an internal sense of love from within. Will help overcome these feelings and begin manifesting positive individuals that will show you the love you desire.
It all starts with inner work.
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Bout time someone said it 
I couldn’t agree more.
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Hey Saint, thanks for the comment.
I would like to ask if LBfH also has self acceptance scripting? I know some here believe self love must include that, but there is a distinction.
One cannot love themselves until first there is inner acceptance. I could keep being given messages of love, but if there is a barrier of self rejection that exists will that message even be received, let alone sink in?
And how about forgiveness for past mistakes and regrets? As that is an essential step toward self-acceptance.
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I didn’t even think about Chosen. That’s a great suggestion.
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I’ll leave the official answer regarding LBFH scripting to Saint, but…
My own experience with the original Love Bomb is that I started to feel good about myself “despite everything”. I noticed a significant increase of empathy towards myself, including self-acceptance and self-forgiveness. And then I started to get bouts of just liking myself.
And as far as I can tell LBFH does that too, and then some
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This is so true. The neediness and desperation will become incredibly unattractive