And also what kind of business?
I am inclined towards tech startup. Still finding my special skill and niche tho.
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Very big difference in nuance there.
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My advice is try getting into a strong long term relationship before starting a company. You donât want your attention being pulled in many different directions while your core focus needs to be on building.
If youâre chasing pussy then your attention wonât be where it needs to be and you will fail.
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If itâs tech startup then 100% what @ksub said and me is valid. Thereâs no time to fool around in that same. Everyone I know who is a startup founder, have all been in a long term relationship or single and focusing on their startup then again they didnât want to fool around with girls anyway. Itâs valuable time that they can spend focusing on what matters, the startup.
Your too wise.
Exactly what you said, I agree.
Theyâre just nerds. Weâre talking about a Wingliss-Stark here.
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You have to be a nerd to make a good tech startup. Also Iâm a nerd and weâre cool okay
If itâs a normal business then thatâs different.
I havenât even had a proper relationship, I ran dating subs(and yes, I got good attraction ) for a year but my fear to approach and make a move as well as my inconsistency and sub hopping prevented something tangible to happen. Now, I want to earn some money (as I am still living on my parentâs money). But, not having even one proper relationship kills me from inside. I just canât, I canât. I just feel like a frickin loser. I want to start-up but then the relation side pops up, and if I go the relation side, money side pops up. Its confusing and exhausting as hell. I really donât know what to do !
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It sounds like you have things to work on outside of just business then.
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You have to chose one or the other at the start. I always chose networking and wealth so I can use that money to travel with my social circle where Iâd be able to develop relationships with people I truly connect with and would date long term. Your priorities would be different. Everyone is different.
I originally planned to spend my second year on focussing on dating and romantic side. But I could achieve nothing at that time. Now, I am getting closer to job side of the things, my grades are not good and its crushing me.
How old are you, if you donât mind me asking?
Honestly, if you think itâs crushing you, you should deal with it.
Do you have a job?
You have to decide on what you really want⌠sounds like youâre just going through the motions without really knowing
One thing I always tell young folks is, if you want to chase women , then do that!!! Once youâve wasted enough time, money and energy on it, draw your own conclusions and move on. Trying to chase 
and focus on another important endeavor at the same time is hard, not impossible though. Go ahead! Plow through girls!!! Then when you found the right one, stay there and start thinking doing constructive things in life.
I am 19, sir, and will turn 20 this month.
I donât have a job yet.
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Maybe try focusing on networking and building your social circle first. I can guarantee you if you have a successful social circle both your dating life and career life will be successful. Itâs like the foundation no one talks about for some reason but is critical to most successes (unless your a genius and builds his own startup but even then you still need a network where people will buy it and invest in it).
You are still young. Youâll have plenty of time to build your startup.
When I was young, I was extremely shy. I had to deal with that first, before I could even think about building a business. And yes, dealing with it included getting laid 
Once I had come to the same conclusion as @ksub mentioned, I was ready to start concentrating on business.
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Also, try to get a job. It helps you to be responsible for yourself.
Important part of growing up is to understand that you are responsible for your own life. No one else.
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I know you only through this thread, but IMHO youâd do best with building a solid base.
Most lottery millionaires loose their money pretty fast, because they didnât evolve into being rich. They didnât build a subconscious base and so theyâre loosing it pretty fast.
Same with attraction subs. Without a solid base gaining attraction is pointless because you canât execute.
Same with business. If you donât have the cochones to talk to people, sell your product etc, itâs pointless to be a genius because youâll stay penniless. Even if itâs just to sell yourself to your boss and get a decent raise once a while.
But what I wanted to tell you primarily is, that if you chose a partner, she needs to understand that you donât have the same time to spend with her as a typical 9-5 guy. She needs to be reliable and mature enough to know that you love her, even though youâre spending much time working instead of Netflix and chill with her.
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