I know it’s meant to install self love but does that help translate to self respect or is that something for status subs or both?
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Self Love and Self Respect goes hand in hand.
So yes, LBFH will build that too for you.
Status is also dependant on your level of self love / self esteem / self respect, however being a social attribute your status is always to be considered in relation to others.
Or in other words, you can have self love and self respect independent of other people, but in order to experience “status”, you need to bring other people into the equation and compare your status to their status.
Status is something you have relative to others (a hierarchy).
Self Love is something you have for yourself and independent of others.
This is how I see it.
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@James : With all due respect, I noticed that sometimes you like playing with words too much.
Whether it’s self-love, self-esteem, self-appreciation, self-respect, self-[insert any positive feeling], the energy behind those is the same. In some languages other than English, all those words are translated by the same one or two concepts.
By the way, status, wealth and all those desirable things you want in life only come to you when you genuinely like yourself and want the best for yourself. Emphasis on genuinely like yourself and want the best for yourself. That’s the energy behind any true improvement in life, that’s what LBFH promotes and that’s what you’re trying to describe in way too many words.
Stop playing with words, run the damn sub, be consistent and you’ll see change.
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Yeeaaaa Bro on all areas of your life
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I think the closer one gets to mastering the LBFH objectives, the more in touch one is with that place from which the answers arise. Though ROM is probably great for that as well and we must remember Sage Immortal. But in many of the mystical or philosophical traditions, true knowing seems to be closer to not knowing and still being okay with that. One of the sayings is before enlightenment chop wood, carry water. After enlightenment, chop wood, carry water.
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@4LESS @ksub It was a simple question. I have a stack that I have actually stuck with for over a month. Not changing it anytime in the future. The only modification I will make is when EOG is updated with the NWE
OK hold on a minute! You usually didn’t stick with your stacks longer than a month? 
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Yeah I know. No idea what’s changed but here we go.
Somehow I got myself to stick with this. Maybe it’s something in the subs
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Come on now @James ! When you were talking about switching your stack often, I thought it was after 2 or 3 rounds. I had no idea you didn’t even finish a month with a stack. How do you expect to gain traction and see results? 
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I’m also fighting bad depression so this helps me focus on something other than feeling like shit
I honestly have no idea. Probably wishful thinking I’m guessing
You’re literally running in place, going nowhere and getting exhausted with recon.
Do yourself a favor, don’t switch your stack again until January, regardless of what gets released. Even forget about NFTW for now. It will still be there in January. Whatever you’re running right now, finish the year with it and gain some traction. Can you do that?
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I can do that. I actually plan on running it at least until mid 2024
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James, a question, you have ADHD or something similar right?
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Just do it until Dec 31st 2023 and decide from there.
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Yes ADHD
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I see, and I see why this is so difficult for you to stick to stacks regardless what people say.
I’m sorry I was so hard on you before. It’s not as easy as people think it is and people saying ‘just do it’ isn’t the simple solution they think it is. This isn’t shade to anyone - because I know everyone’s best intention is James to succeed - mine included.
I’m so proud of you for sticking to your stack for the month. That’s an amazing feat man. You’re doing so well. It’s a very difficult task and you’ve come so far already. keep up the great work man. I believe in you.
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Hey peeps.
So, I know people want James to succeed, but we’re approaching it the wrong way and it needs changing.
Trust me, he knows. He knows. He WANTS better, and he’s trying but it doesn’t work the same way as it does for a lot of you. James, a few others and me included, don’t work the same.
Sticking to a stack just isn’t that simple for us. It requires encouragement. We already know that we’re f’ing it up. Our brains get bored of the same thing due to ADHD and getting told ‘just stick to it’, ‘just do it’ etc isn’t productive to us - it comes from the best of interest BUT we become a wall when you talk to us like that because we hear you but we just don’t do it like that. Limiting belief or not, we don’t function the same as ‘normal’ people.
I’ve come to notice this over the past couple of days after researching and watching TikTok’s on ADHD and how I can manage my own. We want it so freaking bad. We want to do the task, stick to the stack, stick to the routine of doing things the same but we don’t and it overwhelms us so easily compared to others.
I suggest that we change the approach to a more loving one. One that realises what they are doing and how they are growing for sticking with something for so long. A month is a hell of a long time for me, and probably James too (I’m not interested right now in whether he’s been on NRICH or what for that long, I’m talking generally). We need words of love and positive affirmation rather than ‘just do it’ - it isn’t supportive and it isn’t helping.
I want to give an example of something. I have procrastinated on a task that could literally solve my money problems for weeks because I just can’t manage to do the action. Do I want to do the action? Hell yes, can I just do it? No. It’s simply not working like that. I’ve procrastinated and over thought and it happens with everything currently - to the point I’m trying to use Limitless Executive to push through as well as do the action.
A lot of you will see this as a Gen Z, snowflakey behaviour and I did too but since changing the way I’ve spoken to people - they’ve been producing more. The only thing we’re doing with this current approach is stating the obvious and most likely causing them to over think what they’re doing.
I know this isn’t intentional, but this old school method isn’t working clearly - we just have to realise that one approach isn’t the same for all.
Edit: I need to clarify before this comes up, if it works for you and you have ADHD - fantastic - I’m happy for you, but it isn’t working the same for James and others.
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Have you tried Rhodiola?
If not give it a try for 2 weeks.
Just make sure you take big doses of it.
Much strength to you Bro
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