I think there’s a misunderstanding. It’s not that the script directly causes someone to leave, they are referring to the natural response that others will have toward you when they perceive that massive increase of status. At that point, people will start testing you and your response is naturally polarizing, since it’s not the same response you would’ve given before.
Anyone who falls off at that point is simply no longer in alignment with who you’re become. This is a real thing with Khan and any other high status product. There are some people who – for whatever reason – won’t be able to be handle the transformation. So the scripting doesn’t contain anything that deliberately pushes anyone away or somehow makes them disconnect. What it does is attempt to help you bring both your inner and outer reality into alignment. It is those subtle changes toward high status that drives some people away.
Perhaps you are speaking and acting with a bit too much authority for them, when they are used to a version of you that didn’t stand their ground hard enough. With the hard alphas, one should always expect that some people are not going to easily accept the change. We’ve seen people talk about this a lot (being tested as status rises) with both subs and pheromones. It is just the current state of the collective – perceived status and power brings challenge and separation.
Ultimately, conscious intention doesn’t work here because it’s the choice of those interacting with you if they continue to interact with you.
I must note something, and if this commentary is too personal, I apologize but just observing how you interact on the forum, your “voice” has become stronger and more self-assured. I see you engaging in more self-inquiry. During the True Sell focus sessions, your observations were sharp and in-depth. Now, this is from “the outside looking in,” but it’s my personal belief that you should question anyone who couldn’t handle this type of growth from you. But again, I can only go off of what I see here, ultimately you have to make that decision.
I will say that if you do feel like you’ve made a mistake while on Khan, a more relational title is more likely to achieve a reconciliation between two people. Summertime. PEACE. Upcoming Heartsong. Something that helps you touch the heart of another.