What was going on with this? What did you do that was Validation seeking?
I’ll redirect the answer towards my journal due to how bad it was.
It’s actually as simple as dropping the exposure to <=8s for 3 months, with plenty of rest days.
Everything suddenly became easier to follow, the guidance clearer, the effects better & more consistent.
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Ahh I see. Yeah just read the recon part, didn’t really seem that severe, a lot of people come and go in life.
The only recon I’ve seen (maybe) was me getting very tired during the day, but I switched my diet up a bit, been going to bed earlier and got prospects for a new job, so that’s helped me out a lot with that.
Exactly.
People coming & going in life is normal, I didn’t get that reaction when they did in my life, but the recon made me feel an elevated feeling of loss so immense that it surpassed the feeling I got when people I care about actually left life. It was so bad that I was immobilized in my bed several times by it.
I’m still in the process of finding out what caused it, even until now.
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Looking back at the time period, I would say that I was sleeping with girls that I didn’t have any serious intentions or interest in, more for the “notch on the belt” or to make myself feel desirable.
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WB already providing significant results after a 3 min loop Friday. Social skills and charisma, which I would consider naturally my strongest skill set feel like they are running on a whole other gear.
Emotional regulation, confidence, completely refreshed after the break up. Rather than processing the emotions and being stuck in grief, I just feel good about my self and my life again.
Despite my ex reaching out and trying to keep things alive, I feel neutral. I’m not opposed, but it’s on my term, and if it doesn’t workout I genuinely feel to a point where I’m enjoying my alone/development time, as well as my social life and dating opportunities if I desired.
Running EOG and C&C today after a fun weekend, has my discipline reset and looking forward to the work week. Feeling balanced.
So long as I time my WB exposure, this stack seems to work well together and should be able to give it a long term run.
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It was that support answer about WB and ps that got you back on the black wagon. 
It sounded like WDB was creating some strong dating connections as well. WB is instant detachment from emotional relationship hang ups though.
After you’ve run it more consistently, I love to hear your breakdown of the differences from your experience as well and the advantages of each outside of physical shifting.
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I don’t see it has a problem, at least not necessarily.
It did want it was supposed to do make you wanted lol
However I’m afraid, and I might be wrong on this, that the new titles might try to attract “higher quality” or better matching women which then leaves a lot of sex out of our lives.
But that’s just a feeling not a hard fact as I don’t know the answer to it.
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The underline issue is validation seeking and dating women who weren’t a good fit. Being wanted is hood but there was baggage that still needed to be addressed.
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Yeah I understand
So eagerness did provide more sex though
That’s why I don’t necessarily condemn it
That’s kinda why you’re supposed to man up and lead those women. It actually becomes EASIER to lead women you’re already sleeping with. Tell and show them what you want them to do. If you’ve already slept with a woman, it’s also easier to become more dominant with them as well. Otherwise, they wouldn’t really sleep with you if they weren’t ready to follow your lead at some point.
Eh. Can’t comment on that. isn’t my issue.
Will do. So far, I’m seeing slightly better “manifestation” from WB, in that connections that went flat or I hadn’t talked to recently have been reaching out of the blue.
There is also something about the emotional regulation or state control for lack of better words, where I simply feel in “peak state” confidence wise. WDB performs very well here too, but it felt at least when I was running it more emotional, and in my feels, while WB seems to help me detach from that. - That said, WDB was fresh off a break up, and WB is replacing it a few weeks after so that could be external factors more then the subs.
I’ll give a more accurate report later after I spend more time here. Natural archetype and the way I approach dating is certainly more WB vibe though, I definitely lean more “side dude energy”, and I don’t really have a romantic bone in my body 
, hence why my relationship likely ended.
I was told once back in my player days from a girl, that I seem like the type of guy who would make a girl feel like his whole world for the night, and then disappear forever 
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Overall both have worked really well, but I would personally give the edge in the short term/attraction building phase of the relationship to WB, where I would see WDB really shining from converting those into more long term/serious relationships once you narrow down the harem. Just my view on how modern dating works though.
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How do I know which one to choose? I just want sex, is WB better?
Definitely NW, the sexual energy on that one is extraordinary 
If you can handle it.
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NW over WB?
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Oh yeah, WB hits all areas of life being looks, fitness, money and dating without the KB like energy that New Wanted has. I would say New Wanted feels like if you were to stack Wanted OG with KB and all kinds of new goodies to get you laid.
WDB I don’t know, because never tried it.
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- Split test them, 2 cycles each and track results (ran separately).
I genuinely feel they both work really well, and you will get laid either way. Just different styles for the same goal. Wanted Dream boy is hard to articulate how it accomplishes the goal, but radical authenticity is extremely powerful and underrated. For me, it expressed as I am so comfortable in my own skin, that I don’t need to try and say anything different, act different, you are completely detached from outcome, while having this Dream-like presence. A walking “reality bubble” if you will. Watch the wedding singer, Adam Sandler in that perfectly expresses the dream boy archtype, and clearly outclasses the more “high status” male, through radical authenticity and this romantic dreamlike, genuine aura. It’s really a masterclass.
WB in my expierience is more of the IDGAF attitude, because you are becoming from such a place of internal, and external abundance. There’s an authenticity element as well, but also a stronger grounding in operating under the principals of “game” and dating, but in a natural sense. There things you just do naturally, rather then tactics you are employing. For that reason, I’d give the edge to WB for creating initial attraction and “hooking”, but WDB can definitely accomplish that as well, however I would say it really shines in converting existing relationships into deeper more meaningful attachments.
Personally, the main reason I switched to WB is because after a break up, my self esteem took quite a hit, and WB in my opinion has the edge in making yourself feel really, really good about yourself.
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I’m wondering if you guys could help me figure something out regarding WB and WANTED. Sometimes it’s helpful to hear other people’s perspectives in case I’m missing something.
First of all, I’ve got to say that I’ve used WB in the past with great success. It’s the subliminal that helped me completely transform my image, get way more physically fit, become more attractive, get me out of a 2 year dry spell, and many other wonderful things. However, I’ve noticed that lately, whenever I come back to it, I have trouble running it and seeing results.
For example, these days whenever I’m on WANTED, I get a lot of positive attention from women like lots of IOIs, subtle invitations to approach, women flirting and teasing and in general I feel much more wanted and attractive. I used to get all of this on WB as well, but for some reason, that doesn’t seem to be happening anymore.
I really like WB’s flavor of confidence, charisma, and social skills, which is why I always come back to it. However, it seems like not a lot of women respond as positively to my vibe on it as before. Some even seem to get slightly more closed off. I’m trying to figure out why that might be happening these days.
Internally, I also feel much more attractive and sexy on WANTED, whereas before WB was my go-to for feeling like an absolute sex bomb lol. Could it simply be that my subconscious is telling me that for this particular phase of my life, WANTED suits me better?
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I don’t know, but it could be that you got used to the anti-recon in The New Wanted. Do you have any other titles in your stack with anti-recon?
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