I’d start with Paragon (for health and healing for you and wife), Ascended Mogul (for getting working, career, and overall confidence and money to a good place), and Lineage for raising your beautiful family. (Big congratulations by the way.)
[Those are just my opinions, based on the situation you’ve described.
There are a lot of other goodies. But it’s good to stabilize and improve the foundations first (in my opinion).]
My wife has been on a Seductress, Libertine custom since the beginning of the year. Her sex drive is off the charts and her responsiveness even more so. It’s amazing.
Right. That’s another thing. The options for custom subliminals have kind of exploded onto a new level.
There are two stores: The standard program store and then there’s the Q-store where you can handpick your own modules (in line with your vision, needs, and goals) and create your own custom programs.
I’d say, maybe go for a custom a bit later. They’re more expensive, and once you’ve been running either AM, Emperor, or RICH you’ll likely have more money to spend on one. It also takes more time to work out the exact custom that you want right now. In contrast, the standard programs are ready to roll.
one other thing:
Although I recommend Ascended Mogul; if you’re truly desperate for money immediately, I find that R.I.C.H. has a good track record (with me) for rapid manifestation. It’s more of a ‘give a man a fish and he’ll eat for a day’ kind of program, I think. Ascended Mogul and Emperor are more on the ‘teach him how to fish and he’ll eat forever’ side of things.
I have not read every single post in response to your question. However you might want to encourage your lady to hit the gym as an intense workout will help up her libido.
Man you are adults now, you are parents so yeah the first year is going to be difficult.
I guess you are from a western country to have such high pressure and/or expectation on yourself to be able to perform 100% while having twins plus a 2 yo kid with no job and zero support.
Obviously you must have massive reconciliation running 5 subs with the kids, the wife, the no job situation. Maybe you could reassess and just go for for these 3 :
Ascension to ground yourself and just that
the new Lineage subliminal for being the best for your wife AND kids
something easy such Mogul to slowly get back on your feet job wise.
Try this for 3 month and reassess.
And final point You could bring reinsurance to your wife that it is ok for her to be a mother like a few month after she got twins. That she is a great mother and that you love her and support her. Do you know about post post natal depression also called post partum?
This is your official warning. If I see you post something like that again, it’ll be a ban. Our Forum Ambassadors are volunteers who are here to help – respect them as you’d respect us, or you’ll have to leave.
Is what she needs. Both of you should listen to those.
Also, sorry but reading this:
Is clearly coming from guys who are not married or have kids. No offense here, but this makes no sense.
He clearly said they are super stressed, dont even find the time to deal with the kids and everything and your guys solution is “hit the gym” which is at least 1-2 hours extra???
Be careful with applying the “Red Pill solutions” as a broad stroke on everything. In this case, it’ll make it all worse if you read the Rational Male. Trust me, I’ve been there. TRP is for hookups. It does NOT work in monogamy. Period.
Again, no offense to you guys, if it works for you, be my guest, but in this case, think a bit about the scenario the man is in.
I’ve seen many wives that said (especially after pregnancy and a kid constantly on their boobs) they don’t feel sexy or horny but they WANT to WANT their husbands. They might even be anxious because of losing attraction to him or him losing attraction to her. So Diamond and/or Sex Mastery is really all you need. Remove the anxieties around sex and just go with it.
I have 3 daughters and my opinion is legitimate since I was in the same situation.
And yes training will clearly make a difference, for kids there is always a family member to take care of them and take the load off the parents from time to time.
And a pregnant woman and even afterwards still wants sex even if she has gained 20kg and there will always be a guy interested no matter what.
I’ve been with my wife for 11 years now and it’s going great, just the fact that she knows I have options makes her more eager to keep me.
My bad for not knowing about your kids.
Didn’t mean to judge you, just wanted to help the OP not make a potential mistake because I’ve seen it a lot in my practice, yet, I was judging, so sorry.
Either way my point still stands about the subs and TRP in general.
Yeah she has literally no time to go to the gym. She has to pump every 3 hours, they both eat every 2 hours, sometimes every hour. Obviously I help but it’s nonstop. We have a 2 year old that is feeling very lonely and we try to give her as much attention as we can. We have tons of laundry. The one baby is very colicky and wants to be on her all day long. We’re both operating at 3-4 hours sleep. It’s basically a shit show everyday.
So reading this, go to the gym kinda annoyed me. She used to all the time and had a trainer. I go to the gym for an hour early in the morning once a week if I’m lucky.
Honestly I think you should take off the pressure of her.
As I said, she likely feels pressured to have sex with you to keep the RS running, EVEN IF XYOU DONT SAY A THING, k?
So what I would do in your situation (and what I tell men in my coaching a lot) is to talk to her and tell her, “Look honey, a lot of sh*t is going down right now. This is the situation, it sucks a bit since we can’t have sex, but don’t worry, we’ll get through this. For now, focus on our children, we can add these 2 subs if you want, maybe it helps. I love you.”
Or SOMETHING like that.
After all, she is not just there to get your dick wet, right? She is your partner. The mother of your children. And sometimes life throws a curveball, but if you see her as your TEAMMATE, and tell her that, both of you can get through this together.
This, in my honest opinion, is TRUE leadership. Reassuring your followers that you’ll make it. Keep up the morale.
the Subject Title of this thread, “Wife wants to be hornier” is probably a little misleading. (haha. It’s great from a marketing perspective, though!)
Even when we read the first post a little bit more closely, you write:
So you yourself already see that it’s not just about being horny. It’s also about fears of the relationship changing and fears of losing intimacy (and also probably fears of ‘getting old’).
People scan the subject line before they click on the thread, and so some of the responses people wrote were probably largely influenced by the title.
Anyway, @jshep23, how are you feeling about the feedback that you’ve gotten?
Do you have a sense of how you want to proceed? Or maybe you’re still contemplating options.