I had so many responses that stem from my ignorant world view lol. I don’t know anything about Nigeria and that kinda upsets me. 
Well, let’s keep it on your personal level then. What’s the common theme in your observation of yourself in comparison to… (fill in the blank)?
For example, I’ll use my old self. I would walk into a place and see firstly who was in there. Then, I would note the people and who was with who, who was talking with who and so on. I might feel an anxious reaction like, “Oh these people are better than me. Look, they’re comfortable and laughing.”
Or, I might see that the baddest chick in the place was with some guy and immediately I might project my own (former) insecurity and say, “Oh look. He’s clearly better than me, look who he’s with? When will it be my turn?? Why me?!”
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None of this was valid, true or permanent. And as soon as I was willing to take a strong look at this inside of myself, I saw the illusion in it.
I’m not asking you to share here if you decide to look at yourself in this way. I’m just a very transparent person so I don’t mind sharing these kind of things. 