What should I do?

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#1

A 22yr old guy who is studying medicine and is scared of coming out in social situations…

I always try to avoid social activities in name of am not promiscuous,I don’t drink beer or smoke.But I always feel lonely.

Sometimes I collect numbers but along the line I find it hard to play along with them,it’s either I lose interest or I find reasons of not playing my game.

I am scared of approaching ladies with big butts or let me say mind blowing shape with the fear of I don’t have money, women want big guys (am a bit smallish according to my mates), woman want interesting people.

How do I tackle this issue? I have been living with this for a long time now.

I started Am Qv2 and later Wanted Zp in hope of changing this aspect of my life but so far I havent see changes.

Recently (3months) I stopped listening to feminine songs and movies(porn) with the hope of stopping to pedestalize women and to be able to cold approach them no matter the circumstance.

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Main Disc. Thread - WANTED ZP [Now Available!]
#2

One of the more experienced users will be able to better assist im sure, but from what ive read on the product page WANTED is more about changing physical looks and making you look more attractive. From the sound of your specific situation this isnt really about looks(it almost never is) and its more about confidence to approach. This could also be why results are minimal because its not addressing the root cause behind your problems. so maybe try to take a look at primal seduction for better pickup, or even work on removing trauma if their is any, like i am , which in return will make you more social. Ive been running dragon and chosen, and now im way more free in public and dont care what anyone thinks. And this also leads to not caring about rejection or wanting to try to hard.

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#3

Am still sprinkling in Am Zp and Regeneration Zp sometimes in different months to improve confidence and remove trauma.
Also I taught for wanted to make me wanted it will do instill a high sense of worth in my subconscious mind. But it seems it makes me fear more Ridiculous!!

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Main Disc. Thread - WANTED ZP [Now Available!]
#4

Primal Seduction and Regeneration. Forget Wanted.

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#5

Wanted is there for physical Shifting and Improved Sense of self worth.
But the issue is that it seems making me more insecure about myself. Like am not enough or something. I nowadays talk less whenever I meet people.

#6

That’s the reason nr1 to stop caring what women want and focus on transforming yourself into the human being you want to be and spend time with.

The moment you want the company of yourself and can truly say: fack yeeeeaaa I like/love myself is the moment women want to be with you.

Its the Natural way

:wink:

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#7

Yeah I focus more on myself. Anytime I want to approach a woman a voice in my head will be sayin --focus on yourself and leave them let them be.
But will I keep on doing this when I see a woman I desire slipping away?

#8

If you realy want women in your life that like/love you for who you are, then you need to start with yourself

Otherwise your on the hamster wheel for the rest of your life.

You can always bel like nearly everybody else, but that means you are the buttler of women begging for their warmth and love like a little child would do it with his mama.
Or be their Pimp and paying for everything just to have someone on you side, for nothing in return.

In my opinion this is the scenario I see all over the world and its completely a disgrace of the Men.
But most men are “happy” to have someone who loves them and for that they are willing to eat kilometer of shit and put their head between their legs and give the balls away.

it’s a shitty circle.
Time to break it and build a new one, one that makes the old one obsolete.

On the other side your position is perfect.
You are 22 years old and you found subliminalclub. That’s awesome.
Test out wich subs are the most fitting for you and then progress slowly but solid into the direction you like.
When you reach 30 you will be such a badass

All the best to your Journey

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#9

Hey man, I think you might want to take a look at Ascension, Primal, Rebirth and Limit Destroyer.

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#10

I’d say continue with Ascended Mogul ZP and maybe have Limit Destroyer or Love Bomb.

#11

My two cents is that Primal and Rebirth should be in your stack. That’s based on what I sense and coupled with my own reading of the forums. So I’d say for a minute just forget about yourself and trying to figure it out and put each one of the titles in the search bar.

Read through others reports and experiences and I think you’ll be surprised to find an inner knowing of which direction to take. Be relaxed about it, you may not know right away and maybe you’ll get overloaded with information.

But at some point you’ll definitely have a better idea of what’s right for you. Heck, you might even be a candidate for Godlike Masculinity.

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#12

Hear hear.:+1:ToCelestial,learn how to love yourself first. Slowly build to become that superstar. Best wishes in your sub club journey.

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#13

That sounds frustrating. Something really sticks out to me though. You say you’re afraid to approach ladies with big butts because you don’t have money.

I wish I could tell you no ladies look for guys with money. I can’t tell you that. I’ve know ladies (and men) who do sort for this, but the good news is… I wouldn’t be interested in someone with these criteria. They exist, but they aren’t the rule. Sort for those types of ladies and ignore them.

There is no interpersonal force I’m aware of as strong as charisma. Charisma is magic.

Not trying to be rude so please don’t take it that way but there’s I can’t approach ladies because money. I don’t smoke and drink. Ok. What do you do? Maybe you love dodgeball. Maybe you enjoy hiking. Idk, maybe you like butterfly watching in the park. Get involved in whatever speaks to you and crank the charisma up. I’m sure there’s files for charisma. Stark is well reviewed.

People will never forget how you made them feel. Go make some people feel amazing.

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