Imagine, you lived your life according to the definition of a sigma male… On your deathbed you are with a happy smile “I have become a true sigma”, the people around you look at each other and to your surprise they tell you: “old man, the definition has changed, according to todays definition you lived your life like a (insert another greek letter here) male”.
oh noooooooo!
It’s not about the definition but the traits and the purpose.
My life should not be about the traits or the purpose but MY traits and MY purpose. Don’t live another persons life, live YOUR life.
You see the difference?
You could be successful and happy according to norms, definitions or something else but what counts is yourself, your norms and definitions, what makes you (long term) happy and successful.
No, it’s all the same. Nothing is ours we always emulate something or someone.
He’s attracted to certain traits and there’s nothing wrong in emulating them. We do it all the time.