What indicators show that a sub is suitable to a user?

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#1

What indicators do you think show that a sub is suitable to a user? Is it simply intuition, a feeling, or fast/grand external manifestations, or no reconciliation, or…?

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#2

There are definitely many, many responses to this question.

Almost like asking how you know you’ve found the right lover or partner. It’s partly about who you are. It’s partly about who they are. It’s partly about who you are becoming. It’s partly about what you both want (and don’t want).

Well, anyway, just to get the ball rolling, here’s one of my past responses to this question:

[See Lion’s post below]

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#3

Don’t know if it’s just me but it shows that page doesn’t exist or is private.

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#4

Same.

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#5

Yes, it is a subliminal black club. You gotta have bought either alchemist or sage to have access there.

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#6

I can see it but here’s it is in quotes:

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#7

Or ask Lion to copy it here :slight_smile:

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#8

Black Lion to the rescue!

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#9

Indeed always helpful and right on time :hugs:

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#10

@Malkuth - that spiderman suit gif analogy is amazing. So…fitting. Pun intended. Very much intended.

Happy to help, @Deadpool, @Chase :pray:

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#11

Thanks @Lion.

Since you’ve already fixed it in your post, I’ll just leave my post as is.

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#12

@Houdini I moved your helpful answer to my question here to this thread.

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