That’s great news that these issues have come to the surface. Now you have material to take action on:
- Being needy (self-worth perhaps, scarcity)
- People pleasing (saying no, setting boundaries perhaps, maybe also connected to self- worth)
- Overly horny and PMO (stop porn, work on circulating that energy, meet girls)
Anyway, keep talking to girls and work on your self- worth. These are the things you need to overcome to become s truly wanted black man. You can’t just take a shortcut. If it’s too much (artisanal title) all at once, you can work on it with subliminals systematically:
- Ascension
- Emperor
- Khan / Wanted
For neediness, you need to meet more girls and become abundant. Perhaps S&S + Primal, is good choice. Have other goals you work on that are not girls and people.