The straight forward answer:
The more out of the box answer:
hey can you elaborate on this please? thanks
Rather not, as I don’t want to derail this thread.
If what I wrote doesn’t make sense to you, please ignore that part.
Emperor and Reforged in my opinion as they lean more towards higher standards/boundaries then the other subs. Khan and WB raise my libido so much, that I end up with some quality girls, but not afraid to throw the 5s- 6s in there if it comes down to it at the end of the night.
My grandpa always used to tell me “You need to lower your standards to raise your average”.
I like all of these.
Honestly Astral Projection X isn’t even a bad answer @JCDenton , but I do still want to sleep with human women too
Reforged seems like the best answer, I was thinking that too, especially if it’s amped up further in Khan Reforged.
This is probably the only time I’ve ever said Love Bomb is probably the best answer, I usually hate the overrecommendation of LB for everything internal/worth related, but I really see how it takes self love and self worth to truly believe u deserve a certain standard and nothing less (reforged and LB both directly address that)
Emperor and Ascension seem to have a standards approach to them as well. It’s not about seduction for the sake of it, it’s building an empire including a queen, or finding people worth giving clear romantic intent to, which involves partially letting them decide, meaning you’re not entirely trying to seduce for it’s own sake @Niles
@jcdenton now that I think about it, I like your spiritual answer. I would say Khan Black might be a legit answer for human women, lol, if you’re able to transmute sexual energy, you won’t ever be in a place where you’re needing subpar women to release, you can transmute and only choose to release or chase sexual energy when it’s EEALLY worth it - there would be no contrast between your desires and your standards, because your desires are a tool to your standards, not an opposing force
Mine would be Primal Seduction & approaching those who intimidate you whenever logistically plausible.
UGG, that takes action, I wanted manifestation to rain it down from the sky, right into my lap with no effort or work required 🫠
New Wanted + Alchemist ST1
I really don’t think its a matter of pickiness
I know a few guys who are super picky and have zero success with the woman they actually want.
I don’t think it’s a matter of not wanting to seduce below the highest standards.
I think it’s having certain standards and attracting and seducing woman who fit that.
Same -Khan definitely helps attract higher quality woman, especially in character and looks, -I don’t know if I’d throw down with a sub six but definitely 7’s and 8’s 
This is definitely Heartsong territory in a stack. I think WDB with reforged might support this too, or even Khan.
I was actually just riffing in my journal about this
" A sub that is a mix of heart song, Wanted Black, Khan for becoming the man you most want to be, and that the woman you are most inspired by and attracted to are crazy about- like it becomes an effortless part of your life to attract, and be with your 10/10’s while causing you to grow into your fullest, authentic potential
Not really a viable sub "
I think the modules that help with this are/
I’d say Emperor: Reforged. It would make you focus so much on what’s best for you that you won’t be willing to accept what’s below you.
The Sovereign Pursuit
Helps you reorder the inner architecture of dating. The pursuit stops being an audition and becomes a choice you make from inside yourself. You stop outsourcing the question of whether you deserve the woman in front of you to her response. You answer that question from your own ground first.
In daily life, this may show as a calmer entry into rooms where women are. You let yourself want without apologizing for the wanting. You approach without performance. You walk away when what you find does not match what you are bringing. The dignity holds whether the connection lands or it doesn’t, because the worth was settled before the conversation started.
If you want to become picky, just become picky. Subliminals don’t function on that depth, they help you reveal your true self more with more and more congruence. Modules like Synergy: Perfection Manifestation can help you manifest the individual of your dreams, as stated in it’s description. Trying to be picky is something imbalanced in a way, so I don’t think there will be such scripting. Don’t try to to be picky, improve yourself as a person, and see what type of people come in your radar. Also it’s really important to trust in your subconscious. You want to be picky, just be picky. Perfection manifestation can help you with that. Run the module and visualize who you want, why do you want to be picky lol. Every normal human being has a level of pickiness, some you resonate with, some you don’t. From another angle, being picky means valuing your standards rather than just being desperate for sex. Sexual healing titles can really help with that. You have a conscious and subconscious personality, and life situations and people around you manifest according to them, you’re already picky, as any healthy human being is. Standards raise by you raising as a human being, because it’s a matter of resonance. Say you ran WB for sometime, and you met some women, it could happen that you get completely uninterested to those women when you switch your stack to Khan, @Psiklou had this experience. Now how deep and good you embody thsoe archetypes show that what caliber of women respond to you and are interested in you. The more you run the title, the more high value women(in terms of everything) you’ll attract, until there’s no woman with higher value than your current girl. So I think it’s just unnecessary to try to be picky, it’s a natural consequence of one personal development.
Btw, Stabilizer also has this feature, which can help with increasing your own standards:
I gotta agree with @/Character here. if you wanna be picky, just be picky. I shoot down more people than I go out with and I sleep with even fewer. My free time is limited, I’ll only share that with people capture my interest. If they want to sleep with me they have to bring more to time than warm body or tight ass. Simple as that.
When I think of increasing standards, I think in the traditional sense of breaking the cycle of toxic and damaging relationships. GLM/Love Bomb are great for this. The quality of partnership has gone up. Even my hook ups and flings are career oriented, intelligent people with healthy emotional boundaries. I don’t have to be picky. I get the people who have what I’m looking for.
I don’t understand the question, lol.
If you have standards and someone doesn’t meet those standards, you wouldn’t go for them.
Why would you need help for that?
Support’s answer:
Hello,
Good question, and an unusually self-aware one. Let me be straight with you about how this actually works, because it changes what I’d point you to.
We don’t have a module that acts like a literal “pickiness dial” — something that scans women and makes you reject anyone below a 9. And honestly, that’s for the better: standards forced from the outside (or out of insecurity) tend to be brittle. What you’re describing — sleeping around, chasing women you don’t actually rate, the “I don’t know why I did that” mornings — is almost always downstream of something else: a scarcity or validation frame, where you take what’s available because some part of you is still seeking the reassurance of being wanted. Raise your sense of worth and shift out of that frame, and higher standards stop being a rule you have to enforce and simply become how you operate — you stop settling because you no longer need the validation.
So the most effective tools here work on that root. In the Q Store:
ESSENCE: To Become The Prize — the closest fit to what you’re after. It’s built to flip the frame from chasing to being chosen: in its own words, you end up “selecting rather than auditioning,” with the internal question shifting from “Will she want me?” to “Is she what I’m looking for?” That single shift is exactly the mechanism behind genuine standards — when you’re the one doing the selecting, subpar simply doesn’t make the cut, and there’s no hunger driving you to take whatever is in front of you.
Her Hunt, Your Throne — the same prize/chooser dynamic, expressed more at the level of the interaction itself: women take the active role in pursuit while you stay centred and “in the seat of choice.” It overlaps heavily with To Become The Prize, so you likely don’t need both — think of Prize as the internal frame and Her Hunt as the interaction pattern. Pick whichever framing resonates, or run both in a custom to reinforce it.
Pride Unbroken — the foundation beneath both. It works on genuine self-worth: realising your worth isn’t defined by how others have treated you, and releasing the feelings of worthlessness or powerlessness that quietly drive settling and validation-seeking. If the “I don’t know why I did that” pattern has roots in feeling like you have to take what you can get, this is the module that addresses that directly.
If you’d rather run a full title from the main shop than build a custom, Emperor Reforged is the strongest match. It’s built around masculine self-sovereignty — worth that isn’t outsourced to anyone’s response — and it explicitly reorders the “inner architecture of dating” so that pursuit stops being an audition and you walk away when what you find doesn’t match what you’re bringing. It won’t literally instruct you to pursue only 9s and 10s, but it develops the exact inner state from which that selectivity becomes natural and effortless.
My honest lean: to target this precisely, To Become The Prize (or Her Hunt, Your Throne) for the selector frame, with Pride Unbroken underneath it for the self-worth that makes it stick, is the tightest combination. If you’d prefer one complete title doing the deeper identity work instead, Emperor Reforged. One thing worth naming: real standards also come from knowing clearly what you do want, not just what you don’t — so pairing any of these with honest reflection on your actual criteria will make them land faster.
If you let me know whether you’d rather go the custom route or run a single title — and whether this feels mostly like a self-worth issue or mostly about the in-the-moment frame when you’re with a woman — I can narrow it to a specific recommendation.
Warm regards,
Subliminal Club Support
& I’ve asked about Primal, Khan Black, Synergy: Perfection Manifestation
Two of those are already in wanted. Sounds like a cylce oe two of wanted would help
This is helpful- making a Reforged name embed- with become the prize essence, deciding between that and true shine (as true shine applies more to work), but am thinking true sell should be able to cover that on its own.