Lol damn, yeah this alone may be it. Awesome answers so far all.
Sounds like that’s the answer for you if you feel that way. If you feel like a lack of projected empathy is holding you back, then correct it and it’lll help you. But you also kinda pointed that its more complex than just a single quality. There is no universal quality that makes women feel safe and comfortable around you…except for perhaps one, authenticity.
People are complex man, some women are attracted to dangerous men, and they are attracted to them BECAUSE they are dangerous, some women will open up to you because they see you as a dangerous man, and in a very strange sense, you’re very dangerousness makes them want to open up to you for a myriad of complex reasons.
Idk, I wouldn’t overthink this point.
A more important way of navigating women, is to understand that every male archetype is attractive to a certain subset of women. There is no single male archetype that will attract ALL women, except the universal and primordial male being attracted to the universal and primordial female and vice versa–but that’s beyond this mortal world, those are primordial energies of creation that are beyond mortal gender and expression.
To your question, I’ll just be straightforward: each male archetype is attractive to a subset of women and unattractive to others. Be who you wanna be and the women will follow.
Some women trust uber-masculine men and distrust dandies.
Other women are intimidated by uber-masculine men, and trust dandies. These women trust dandies because dandies remind them of themselves on a subconscious level. This is the same reason why some women don’t trust dandies because some women don’t trust other women. Women can be rather cruel to each other, if you didn’t know.
However, strong empathy is a super high ROI skill if used properly, and most everyone can benefit by being better able to empathize with and understand other people better.
Also, I said authenticity, he summed it up nicely:
Authenticity meaning that she can sense and knows what your intentions are and that you won’t physically or emotionally harm her. Regardless of how you express yourself as an archetype, if you authentically want her to be safe, she’ll feel it.
Authenticity also in that she can see who and what you are, and can build trust based off that.
Trust is also complex. I trust who people show themselves to be, not what they say. Most women are like me in this sense, women are more likely to trust who you show yourself to be, than what you tell them you are. Women see a lot of BS from the time they are old enough to be hit on, so they typically have stronger social intuition than men because they needed to gain the skill for survival.
lovebomb?
Chosen: Way of Nature and Khan Black had me have an experience of me making a woman feel safe around me. But too much of that and you get stuck in the platonic zone. Like if a woman feels safe around you like that unconsciously she puts you in the platonic zone because she feels safe with her dad, grandpa, etc. I’ve also found from experience that women are most interested when you’re not or at least you give all appearances of not being interested.
But I think if you’re looking for connection then you’re going to want to go with Heartsong, it will attract the kind of women you want with that connection.
Heartsong?
yeah that could work too! Even better since its directed at romance or what not
Well you’re the expert on it! You ran it longer than anyone I know of, did it make you more empathetic and help you build trust with people?
I kind of disagree about the archetype thing….archetypes are like a social game but attraction is a natural biological response. (And very context dependent….)
I’ve seen women change their entire concept of what they find attractive around the “right” guy who ticks none of the boxes she found attractive previously……
As far as making women feel “safe” I’d say start by not worrying about making them feel safe…which is easier said then done i guess but she feels what you feel. So if you’re worried about making her feel safe…she will feel worried.
Honestly the biggest shortcut; stop wanting anything from her. Totally. Become totally indifferent and focus on just having fun and connecting with another human being. Follow your emotional guidance system; do/say what makes you feel good/happy. She feels what you feel. If you are totally authentically Indifferent to outcomes (not worried about her response and prepared to accept whatever her response is without negativity) but also totally owning of your desire for her in your presence you have the keys to the kingdom.
Lol personally I find Love Bomb to be not sexual enough. Like I think it can/does make women more comfortable around you (or uncomfortable if they have trauma related to love), but I kinda find myself friendzoning MYSELF on LB like I feel connection and empathy but in a more friend/fatherly way, which is positive but not sexy ya know?
I think the quickest title would be SSX. I had some interesting experience with that. And it wasn’t like I had to consciously strategize like this. It was just more natural, which means no overthinking and free from attachment to outcomes, basically what it all comes down to whatever the goal. But also willing to take those hits of failure because that’s just part of learning and growing.
Guess I wasn’t clear enough, when I say archetypes, I mean something a little deeper, I’m talking moreso about the energetic expression, not so much the physical expression. More of an energetic fingerprint that typically leads to someone attracting people that are “compatible” with that energetic signature.
Vibe attracts tribe.
I’m not really talking about how we dress or look.
The energy of Emperor typically attracts a different “type” than the energy of WB, for instance.
However, I hope your right, because personally, I find my own view pretty limiting and annoying and would rather transcend it TBH lol.
I’ll give you my closely held secret for free. Chosen got me the attention of business class womens. That was nice. I miss that sometimes.
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I forgot to mention: New Attraction Experience: Women might take care of this as it will just direct your custom to make you become more attractive to women in general thoughts @praisetheurdtree @Fractal_Explorer @NinjaGazin @ABC333 @IRON @Jouissance? Sry if that’s obnoxious.
Absolutely, good module!
@AnswerGroup @Forum_Ambassadors how is NAE:W different from the NRE (for a straight man attracting women)?
The sales page for NAE:W mentions that it’s good for straight men looking to attract women, but, it’s also good for people with a diverse array of sexual preferences.
But for a straight man, what’s preferable, NRE or NAE:W?
I’ve got no experience with any seduction modules besides the Long Range Seduction module. It was not in a seduction themed program more of an afterthought and so I never got to realize its full magnitude.
Not obnoxious…I honestly am a little confused about that module in general. But it seems it was designed for bi-sexual people, and or people who fall into different gender categories who want to be certain that they attract their gender of choice.
Would like to know also, almost put it in a custom for the simple reason that I’m straight and attract a lot of men because I present pretty metro…
I think they sort of have different objectives, like NRE is for healing, NAE is for attracting women (at least I think that’s it).