my inspiration for the warrior king custom is Thomas Shelby of Peaky Blinders
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You could soften it a bit perhaps with a custom ultima:
Chosen of Venus
Mercy Protocol
Torchbearer
Empath
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Iām running Emp with love bomb and Libv2 to tone it down a bit as some people seem a bit intimidated.
Senior managers deferring to me, apologising to me when I make a mistake and getting out of my way.
Massive deer in the headlights from 3 girls, other girls staring at me from a distance.
Men saluting me.
Men wanting to talk to me.
People doing what I tell them.
However Iām actually running Emp to help me to do stuff/get things done.
One business started last year is doing ok despite lockdown and I have just started another that will pay off in a few years time hopefully.
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great work bro. more success for you and your venture.
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Thanks, and the same to you.
I notice yours is in T2 and you run it once every other day.
Have you tried to experiment with this listening pattern?
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I felt the same bro, itās like when you feel beta af and some dude literally oozes big dick energy and lowkey youād bet money he gets pussy when you donāt
A lot of guys will hate you for it but alphas love you cuz you both have the potential to put your feet down and reach a goal
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the day off really helps integrate the sub bro. i used to listen everyday with my other customs but i only end up either in reconciliation and stonewalling the sub. another plus of having days off is i can integrate other subclub Q subs or i can double my listening of ultimas.
being in T2 build i can listen to it once or sometimes twice then i can switch to other subs like DR when im done with the custom.
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i respond well to the legit alpha males who are awesome i think they understand our energy. i donāt respond well to people acting alpha but not really alpha.
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what a cool character, just looked into him a bit. Iāll have to check out that show.
I love Tom Hardy, and looks like he is in it.
This warrior king custom looks great.
Are you running it at the same time as the dominance one?
Why did you choose Ascension rather than Emperor for this one? I guess if your running them at the same time that would make sense.
I believe for the first custom you have to distill what is simply people being beta, threatened etc and what effect your creating that legitimately is pushing people away/ having them shut down-when it be better not to.
There reaction is not bad necessarily since they see you as an authority, and authority can disrupt social effect. Like when a teacher or boss walks in and everyone is slacking off and laughing, theyāll sit up straight and get quite. But for social dominance you want trust as well.
People will always be on edge to some degree when there is a gap in status/integrity/masculinity between you and then. I imagine itās best to have that gap be a point of inspiration/reverence with some respect and if need be, a tinge of fear. But you still want fluidity to engage and have people feel empowered around you.
I believe your getting those unwanted effects because the combination of Khan, Emperor, and GM, as each one of those can push people away in certain circumstances or on recon. (Iāll put at the bottom my opinion on this if anyone is interested)
To optimize social dominance I would remove either the Emperor or Khan Core-personally I would do the Emperor core because Khan and Stark seem to work better together-as the goals and pathways-donāt sometimes contradict the way Stark and Emperors might- lone wolf vs. collaboration/ wanting to be alone- vs socializing/focus individual technical proficiency vs. team building etc// not pandering vs. doing whatever is needed to get a project off the ground.
Of course you might like the custom as is, and just consciously take certain actions or new communications to resolve the issue.
Emperor can push people away when there is an in-congruence in why you are relating to them. You can seem catering, like throwing them something out of pity, uninterested, or your talking but donāt really want to be there. Solution energetically and in action- find a reason to genuinely want to engage.
Khan can push people away because you seem like a dominance threat, or taking charge without giving people space or say. Solution-energetically and in action- include people actively, consciously give them space and or a chance to feel big as well.
GM can push people away because of its commanding bluntness and stoicism. Consciously bring friendliness
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this is so accurate bro hahaha good job putting it into words great points bro.
i choose those cores because people whoās in my life right are quite manipulative and assholes like hoping they can get a loan from me or a favor, and especially when they see you moving up the food chain. another reason is that i got backstabbed a few times in my life that caused me to lose my reputation from my former circle so NEVER AGAIN.
i want to separate and filter the people who really are genuine to me and supports my growth and success.
it kinda sucks because you see people who treat you good before become so distant because of your aura and growth but thatās how life is and the confusing part is im not even doing anything to them directly nor indirectly. but i appreciate the people who stay and make an effort to contact me despite the change that they witnessed in me.
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finally decided to upload a profile pic. this photo describes my rage lol
wow the stack really amplifies my assertiveness by 200% feel like im combat ready most of the time. i need to do meditation to calm myself a bit hahaha i think im scaring people around me hahaha
i also noticed iām more willing to drop people when necessary. my independence as been amplified as well.
gonna add love bomb ultima to translate some of the fear to adoration, love, and respect.
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Probably a wise idea.
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Love Bomb really does make a difference in the past days. it makes me even more approachable and builds rapport faster instead of the usual intimidation and fear that i sense from them.
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Awesome post! Thanks man!
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Update:
people who used to be rude to me are approaching me out of the blue. initiating small talk like nothing happened. weird but itās quite pleasant to know (One less petty problem to think about). now i think they know how to respect my space because iāve never have been rude to them in the first place.
last week weāve been invited again by the same people who are rude to me at a party and now they are very accommodating to me. i just act normal and be in listener mode. never expecting anything from them my mindset is that im here because my mom is here thatās it and whatever happens im ok.
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Iāve noticed something similar with Love Bomb and Dragon Reborn.
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