Self Development Road Map

No EoG? Interested on hearing your reasoning for this.

However, DO NOT change back anymore. Keep doing the Quantum Ascended Mogul :slight_smile:

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I figured it was just a logical progression. Ascended Mogul for one stage. Then Ecstasy of Gold for four more stages. Made a lot of sense to me, but I could be wrong. I’m interested to hear @mecharc’s reasoning too.

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The number one reason I account for my failure is the belief that

"I can’t and won’t be able to figure out stuff in the unchartered territory by myself"

And I guess this is the root cause of procrastination and not taking action.

Like @Malkuth identified, “grounded energy”, before I start fixing the Finance issue in the broadest sense (which I believe AM will tackle atleast somewhat ),
I want to tackle my biggest limiting beleif. I believe this belief is to do with my learning capacity. Hence the choice of QL over EOG for now.

That being said,for now, I have plans on Doing Ql stages 1 and 2 only (balancing and development).
Then, I plan on moving to EOG, With preferably Stark (if it’s out by then) or EV5(q) in my stack.

Till then, AM and QL all the way. @Hoppa

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@mecharc

Where do you think this limiting belief originates from?

It’s interesting that your assumed (I don’t believe you have low learning capacity) low learning capacity leads to procrastination, as in my case it’s totally opposite. I’ve always been extremely fast learner, be it physical activity or mental. And that lead to severe case of laziness when I was younger. I have been struggling with it for way over 25 years.

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@Hoppa Don’t get me wrong. my fault, I put it out the wrong way.
Let me be more precise.

I’m very smart when it comes to learning stuff that already has a solid pathway laid for me. I am book smart 90%

Where I fail is to learn stuff that is not laid out in black and white for me.

For example. Suppose I get a business idea, won’t know where to start. Even though I have the internet, I would already be biased that I won’t find anything relevant on the internet. Then suppose someone adivises me to do some market research, again, I’ll question myself, where do I start? How do I start? And this goes on, and I go nowhere .

I want to change this.

I want to be more street smart which at the moment is around 5.

I believe it has been compunded by privileged childhood, where I didn’t really have to worry about Anything at all.

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Day 3 Update 1

  1. My room is looking the cleanest bit has looked in the last 1 year. - pushing myself towards building new habits ie. Anti procrastination.

  2. I washed my clothes. After the wash, I thought of leaving it outside the washing machine and taking it out to dry later in the day. ( The old short cut response).

Then all of a sudden this started playing in my head (wow QL)

And I realised this was one event to gather evidence against procastination. And I took out the clothes to dry right then.

  1. I woke up at 4:30 am. From 8am, I started feeling drowsy… Any advice regarding this from anyone?

Moreover, this Corona thingy is just :sob::sob:

Just reading this made me consider adding in Limit Destroyer. Due to EOG ST1, I’m becoming aware gradually of norms I’ve carried so long that even logically correct arguments of something good for me…felt wrong.

From the LD sales page:
“These could be beliefs along the lines of “I am not good enough”, “I cannot do this”, or even “she is too good for me”. Limitations we have can manifest in many scenarios.”

I’ve relied on my limiting beliefs, and not for good reasons. They have been unquestioned and unresisted. I thought they were normal. It feels kind of good seeing this “not so obvious” truth for myself.

There are parts of limitless already in QL right?

Day 3. Update 2.

My rate of taking action per day is so much more than it had ever been with Khan.

Maybe I wasn’t ready for Khan as my first program. No complains though!

Am & Ql compounded with @DarkPhilosopher advice has changed my sub usage completely.

Everytime I feel uncomfortable doing something, I just remember

and I do the thing anyway, with the aim of gathering evidence.

Guess who has not procrastinated today?? :sunglasses:

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What’s your plan on arranging your short term finances? And how important is that to you at the moment? Top5?

Yepp… I’ve started applying to part time work today. So, that’s a start towards financial independence :partying_face:
@Hoppa

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So,
in a stack of QL AM AM AM,
If I replace one AM with M,
Will that mean I’ve added a third major program?
Or,
I’ve put More emphasis on the mogul bit of AM?

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My vote is for the latter interpretation. (i.e., adding extra cheese to a cheese pizza does not change it into a different dish; because cheese is already one of the key, defining ingredients in pizza.)

Seems like a reasonable tweak. (Like what people will do once Q is available.)

More importantly though, in connection with this idea to adjust the stack, are you feeling a sense of restlessness? or urgency?

This adjustment of the stack is fine, but if it’s intended to address an underlying sense of urgency, it alone will probably not be sufficient.

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No urgency. Just stack adjustment for more focus on money making.

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Day 4.

I was on the train and started randomly speaking to a girl. At one point, I pulled the trigger question and she gave in. But I never followed up with actually asking for her number, because I didn’t wanna take out my phone in the train.
Ie. Fear of Corona imprint.

Please note that I have no intentions of sleeping with a random girl.

Next time my plan is to ask them to save my number.

It’s gonna be interesting to see if they follow up themselves later on.

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How many stacking modules would be advisable in my stack?
Of AM and QL.

I’m looking at:
Sanguine- Times are negative in the world around me
GLM- Times require me to more masculine.
A n C - Times require me to be the leader naturally at all times, whether I like it or not.
TS- I need to connect with the party people at work.

@Simon stack master, I am at your disposal

PS. I am considering replacing AM with M. I want to lay a little low with the alpha programming until I have a somewhat solid understanding with my new boss. I don’t wanna out Alpha the wrong person, not yet.

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On other news, School is off and moved online. And I will be at home all day anyway. So, I don’t know if I should go back home to support my family. But what if the situation changes once I’m there? And I’m not allowed to come back? Dilemma DILEMMA

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Do you really need any of the stacking modules?

Regarding AM vs M. AM does not force you to out Alpha him. If you want to rise to a leadership position you need to show that you are able to lead from the beginning.

Stick to the QL+AM…

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I feel the need to focus on those aspects.

Your advice to stick to AM and QL :100::100::100:

Unless the boss is a severe beta, I don’t think AM is at risk of out-alpha-ing others. :smile:
AM is more likely to express as a confident AND friendly employee.
Mogul’s focused productivity will actually feel threatening to the lazy people in the office. So, stay with AM. :wink:

Times don’t matter. Your state does.
Are you feeling negative/depressed/afraid most of the time?
If yes, then stack Sanguine.

You know GLM or AnC can also make you “out Alpha the wrong person”. :smile:

AM doesn’t need the help of TS to make friends in the office.
Use TS as a supercharger, when you’re actually headed to a party. :+1:t2:

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