By openly expressing your desire for her without holding back when it arises. The coquette archetype isnt about just being aloof…the power of aloofness comes from the intensity of its opposite expression. I think guys try to be a coqutte and end up being one hundred percent aloof all the time. It’s all about contrast. extreme balance.
you cant be mildly pulling and mildly pushing…the push has to be all in and the pull has to be all in.
and its best when they are both happening so quickly back and forth that they almost blend in with each other…
at least in my experience and what works for me.