Review my mental health custom

[Malkuth]

@oloy

do u think fearsome goes well in this custom instead of Negative energy transmutation?

fearsome might trigger toxic individuals to attack me more.
And negative energy transmutation is more versatile (functions like sanguine)

What do u think?

Me personally, like for myself? Negative Energy Transmutation feels ‘easier’. It puts the responsibility onto me, and that’s easier for me to handle.

Here’s the description for Fearsome:

Fear is one of the most primal human emotions. The unnerving staredown with the abyss of death… the cold unknown of the shadows when all light is out… the deepest, darkest potential of humanity. Fear is the emotion that causes numerous problems in your psyche and holds you back when allowed to reign free, but it is also one of the most powerful allies you could hope for – the wise guiding hand of a friend warning you of coming danger, the inner exhilaration of sweetest moments, and a powerful protector. Indeed, Fearsome will help you turn fear into your indomitable guardian – with this module, you will find those who wish to harm, to manipulate or take advantage of you, to be filled with bone-chilling dread at the thought of you. You will also find Fearsome to add a tinge of fearful respect to those who will not respect you in any other way. Use Fearsome wisely, and you will find a profound new tool becomes available to you.

It actually says that people who want to attack you will feel fear.

That’s probably hard to imagine, eh? It would be a stretch for me too because I’m not generally leaning into being a scary person.

If it were me, I might do it just as a way of challenging myself to grow.

It’s up to you.

My opinion: Dragon Reborn is already enough.

Everything else you add is just icing on the cake.

[Jouissance]

I’d say this custom is huge but you’ve already been running ST4 and sanguine ofr a while so I guess you know what you’re doing.

I would argue sanguine should remain OUTSIDE the custom so that it’s recon reducing effects are fast and immediate to support you listening to this custom.

I think the ideal core for this is TWTP, as it deals with toxic people and (especially since you have the emotional healing experience core) dramatically changes your relationship with yourself. I could go on. Also many of your modules suggest just replacing them with TWTP.

Synergy: I am atman is incredible, especially stacked with emotions unfettered.

Considering its a2core custom with one of those cores being DRST4… can you make it less than 20 modules? 15?

I would tbh recommend job seeker as a good Jon is one of the foundations of good mental health. Stacked with new emotional healing experience core it would help you find a job or position within your current company that supports your mental health, stacked with TWTP it would help you enjoy social relationships in your job more and not be taken advantage of.

Idk if u need mdfy: conscious guidance because you have emotional healing experience.

To trim modules just ask yourself “is this already covered by my cores”

[Jouissance]

As for “help you be selfish and prioritize yourself”

fenrir without a doubt. Actually makes you nicer 95% of the time. But able to deal strongly with people who try and bring you down or stop you from accomplishing your (selfish) goals. This is even better than ebony maneuver IMO because it makes you way better at socializing overall. It keeps people who are kind to you kind to you because you reward that behavior, and teaches those who get in your way that they should be kind to you.

Since you have emotional healing experience core you could look into non emotional healing titles to see how they’d help, if theybwere targeted at emotional healing.

Since a custom will already make DRST4 hit so much deeper I would focus on modules that support less recon, similar to how stacking with sanguine helps, opposed to modules that cause you to go even deeper still (more recon)

Safety net is incredible. Divine self image. Even Homeostasis maybe, so that you don’t have spikes where you start spiraling into negativit. y

[Malkuth]

@Jouissance

I would argue sanguine should remain OUTSIDE the custom so that it’s recon reducing effects are fast and immediate to support you listening to this custom.

I think the ideal core for this is TWTP, as it deals with toxic people and (especially since you have the emotional healing experience core) dramatically changes your relationship with yourself. I could go on. Also many of your modules suggest just replacing them with TWTP.

These are good recommendations.

[Fractal_Explorer]

@oloy

I’m getting emotionally abused (manipulation, gas lighting and stuff like that) and I don’t know what to do about this (i can’t stack pcc (as 3rd title) as drst4 and sanguine are important to me for long term gain).
is this just boundary problems?

Have you considered either making a hyper focused custom or using a short term title to help you get out this situation? DR does seem like a long term goal, but it might be too comprehensive and deep. It might be better when you’re in an environment that isn’t constantly tearing you down.

[oloy]

@Fractal_Explorer

Have you considered either making a hyper focused custom or using a short term title to help you get out this situation?

I think I need to heal before I can get out of my situation. Appreciate your thoughts.

[oloy]

Based on the recommendations, I’ve decided the following:

• one above all → at the top (i want the foundational heals wid combination to nehe)
• negative energy transmutation → fearsome (just stop the attacks instead of transmuting them into positivity. Stacks well wid fenrir)
• ebon manuver → fenrir (remove selfishness blockages in the most direct way possible. Works well wid nehe)
• untouchable → negative energy transmutation (my emotional/energetic channel is open allowing others to dump negative emotions).