I would recommend WANTED instead of Wanted Black since the OG title could be used in a monogamous relationship. And add something like Daredevil or even Stark to get that Wanted Black flavor. Basically add WANTED to another of your favorite titles.
You can make a custom that way.
Heartsong
Totally agree with you @Lion, Maybe even add primal to OG Wanted if you want to add some finesse 
To the nay-sayers, if youâve run WB, if youâve felt the ease, the fluidity of life, and the happiness. If youâve felt the inner peace and the sheer ecstasy of having a woman complement the smell of yourâŚwell, youâre everything (use your imagination). If youâd shaken the hands, if you (like me) had also been personally complimented on your looks by celebrities. If you had felt those things, had experienced those things, only to fall in love with a woman who loves you for you, in the most irrational way possible, to have her hanging on your every word and action, to watch her pass your every test. If you had seen and felt what I felt, you would understand why a man would be crazy enough to try and bend reality to his will in this way. To turn this titan of a program around to foster that love that it helped you build. You would understand.
In the mean time, I think Iâm just gonna finish my cycle on it, then do like a month-long washout. Iâll probably just stay on WB until I die, which means that Iâll just need to man up and keep my mind focused and consciously guide it to be what I want it to be, lol.
I feel ya, bro. I tried out WB shortly after it was released, ran it for a while in some customs, and I was blown away with how good I felt. The speech improvements, the nonchalance about sex, the increase in my productivity. I credit WB for getting me into rowing! All in all, I felt the sub was a great fit.
It wasnât until my wife brought some things up in a conversation that I realized she wasnât liking the WB aura. She had a sense ofâŚmy broadcasting of my availability in my vibe. I swapped it out after that. My marital relations have improved! I do miss the scripting though; getting some NRE and NWE in the updated version was a hot bonus as well. I think that a version of WB without the Harem/DTF aura would be great. ASBR has itâs non fame experimental version. Could there be a one off like that for WB? Perhaps it wouldnât/canât work like that?
Maybe another route: What modules could one add to WANTED core to bring it more in line with WB, minus the aura, in a custom? I can think of a few offa the top of my head:
What other modules would be good additions?
I think creating a custom with the Reignition module will help you aim it a bit more towards monogamy. That module definitely helped aim Primal Nights that way and our relationship became much more tightly knit than it already was.
OhâŚJust reread the description for the ascension chamber for the first time in years. I was running it in a custom with WB, which explains how Iâve kept WB suitable for monogamy with only minor hiccups thus farâŚ
Turns out AC IS the conscious guidance subliminal, and itâs been sitting there for free, right under my feet, for years.
Ended the relationship for those curious. I still feel like it could be used for monogamy just fine with enough strength of purpose and intention. However, I did realize after a single loop of WB and Limitless that the relationship was a waste of my time. I wasnât happy, so no point in torturing both of us by prolonging the relationship.
LOOOOOOL
Oh my god.
âWB could be used for monogamyâ
Runs one loop and ends relationship
âBut it can still be used for monogamy.â
TBH I think that the reason you were attracted to WB in the first place was that you saw the end of the relationship coming, subconsciously at least, and started fielding other options.
You werenât happy, you wanted female attention and sex, or AT LEAST the attention to make you feel confident enough to end your relationship with the confidence of knowing that when you ended it, youâd find new options and wouldnât be sexless.
So in that sense, you were only staying in your relationship because you didnât want to be single.
As the one who led and scripted most of Wanted Black, I will still maintain that it is NOT the best title for monogamy. But Iâll say this: we have indeed heard the call for a product like this.
If you madmen could find a way to give everything that WB gives but is ALSO suitable for monogamy, I think I would become a perfected being. I would ascend to Buddhahood.
Haha, okay fair call out, youâre right.
But the full story of my journey with WB in that relationship is far longer and more complicated than that. I was actually on WB off and on for the whole relationship (8-months).
In a sentence, what was REALLY going on, is that I want both, but I canât have both at the same time because Iâm unwilling to pay that price.
I want a soulmate to hold for the rest of my life, and I also want to screw around and enjoy the last sliver of my 20s before itâs over.
And Iâm completely unwilling to enter a true poly relationship, which is the only compromise that in theory could allow someone to have both things. Itâs a line in the sand I wonât cross. Iâm either single and having fun, or my girl is mine alone and Iâm herâs alone. Even if I could find a girl that would allow me to play around while I she stayed only for me, I wouldnât do it becauseâŚwell, I just wouldnât.
Iâm rather romantic, you see. A libertine who believes in the ultimate and eternal union of two souls.
So, for the moment, Iâve had to make the choice to stay single until I either meet my soul mate or have gotten the fun out of my system. Iâm too dense to see another way. lol.
Iâll DEFINITELY buy that sub.
tough conundrum. I respect it.
Youâd love it. Thereâs a reason why most people that get on WB have such a hard time leaving it. It literally makes you feel like a fictional character, and people react to you as if youâve just stepped out of a story book.
People that Iâve been compared to on WB by strangers and lovers alike:
Dante from DMC
Gojo from Jujutsu Kaizen
Dorian Grey (didnât really like that one, heâs a bit scummy lol)
Howl from Howls moving castle.
The dude from the Witcher
and a bunch of random celebrities that I donât really know.
It creates this aura around you where people seem to see you as a little more than human, as if you arenât quite real.
Itâs really freaking amazing.
Oh, also if youâre lucky enough to find yourself around celebrities and youâre not in recon, they seem to just welcome you in without much thought.
Edit
My experience anyway, YMMV.
Wanted Black appears to take you where you are and amplify it out of all reasonable proportion.
Why not Daredevil for WB socializing without the harem scripting?
You could use a custom to make a monogamous WB by replacing WB with Daredevil
Exactly what I did⌠Daredevil + Love Bomb⌠very flexible to customize whether you want it for monogamous relationships or fooling around, without being overtly sexual, but very easy to take on that route.
DudeâŚplease stop unintentionally reading the futureâŚI literally spent 10 hours sketching a DD custom last nightâŚlol.
Aura the heck out of it with Earthshaker - Sexuality and Edge Of Falling and Hegemon.
But anyways what am I saying⌠you can just run WB now, youâre single.