no matter what, there is always better looking or higher status than you do. if she saw the contrast between you and that guy she will drop you like its hot.
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2 CENTS, JUST WRITING SINCE BORED
only sharing the amount of men who approached her?
If she has 0 interest in other men, is this implying that she lacks male friends? Wouldn’t this make her vulnerable to some random “Alpha” to make 10 seconds of eye contact, and all of a sudden its the only thing she thinks about.
There is a big difference between women who gather orbiters, and the ones that have healthy relationships with men.
There is something that men developed during evolution ™, that women influence their image to appear as a Madonna, to fulfill the fantasy that many men have. This is actually straining for some women to do, as well as shows that there is some underlying layer of “manipulation” happening, but not really an issue since it happens everywhere, it is simply one of the low cost tools of changing power dynamics. Would an average person be sneaky enough to tell the difference?
As for the body count meme from rollo tomassis book, being “alpha widowed” is not even the core issue, the inability to discern which women were “properly” raised, as he does point in his book. Although his solution does not solve the dynamic that a weaker woman raised by a (economically/relational) dominating father figure (typical american family). As well, his whole book is centered on a mentally ill women most likely (borderline personality disorder).
Don’t see much else in the thread to comment on, so ill leave it there.
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If he was her only bf it could be she wants to see what else is out there in regards to men. One thing you might have to accept is if she uses seductresses, she’s going to start becoming the best version of herself, she will change and grow, she may realize that she wants to explore life, wants to see what else is out there, Etc I can go on. I am wondering her age but
The main takeaway for me is
You have to accept that it’s a possibility if she uses seductresses she could leave you. It could potentially change the dynamic of the relationship. for ton of different reasons, for example meets another guy, she realizes she wants to explore and live life and doesn’t want a relationship to hold her back.
But again I take your word for it. I’m just talking about the potential of what could happen if she uses seductresses. I don’t doubt the things you said about her
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let us not limit there on a softcore relationship, even they were married the desire to find a better guy would never dissitipate since humans are naturally fickle, if she saw a greener lawn beside and knowing it would benefit her better than from her previous stand point, she will
leap without hesitation.
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With that logic, no relationship is safe, is it?
Relationships are all about risk. You risk that this person isn’t worth your time, that they’ll hurt you, that they’re inauthentic, etc etc.
I have considered the possibility that she would leave me for someone else, not because of this sub or recently, but because I had insecurities in the beginning (we’ve been together 4 years).
However, higher status/better looks don’t concern me.
I’m a great looking guy by all accounts, tall with a great physique, witty and intelligent. With the addition of my Emperor journey, status is immaterial to me.
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So is her running seductresses. That’s a risk to that you have to be prepared for
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basically yes, the more time we spend with that person the more boring it become. do you wonder why buying a buggati chiron is seductive even though you already have a veyron.
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I would say if she is smart and ready to settle down(if you been together for 4 years thats a good sign),
then yea she is good to go.
usually the women who leave/cheat either have low self esteem or they always think the grass is greener on the other side. they cannot delay instant gratifications too(which is why you want high iq chick cos they can do that).
also the body count matters alot, since the more partners she had the less capable she is to pairbond with you
I can’t help but notice that most of the things that you guys are saying are normally attributed to men, lmao.
The grass being greener. Looking for something higher status/better looking. Getting bored. All things that have gone through my own mind on occasion, which is perfectly natural.
The way I see it, in the very low percent chance she did leave or cheat, where would I be? Temporarily fucked up, perhaps. Cursing women, maybe. Moving on pretty quickly? Definitely.
I’ve got options and I’m well aware of it, as is she. One thing about a woman is that the more she sees women are into you, the higher value you are to her. I hope that doesn’t offend the women on this forum… But I’ve seen it time and time again in my young 26 years.
She’s 23, for the one wondering (forgot to quote ya, bud).
But to go back to the origin of this and tie all of this in, I was the one who suggested Seductress to her, and she was the one who brought up not wanting to do it because she was “afraid that it would warp her feelings towards me”. She didn’t pick out that segment with ulterior motive lmao.
I definitely hear all that you guys are saying, I really do. But the emotion behind some of your text makes me wonder if a lot of this is projection or insecurity of your own. Which in this day and age is normal.
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you mistaken the brutally honest truth about human nature for insecurity projection.
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23 prime age to want to explore but I forgot to quote you as well bud.
There’s a potential risk to running seductresses you have to be prepared for. Also I know in the back of your mind your a little worried or it’s in your thoughts because you made a post about her running seductresses. If there wasn’t a concern there wouldn’t be a post on this
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Truth is subjective. One man’s experience isn’t another’s. I definitely don’t subscribe to the idea that all women are looking for something better, so I call that an opinion. A limiting belief, if you will.
I’m not saying you said all women are like that though, broski.
Haha, women in their forties get the desire to explore. I think it’s just a human thing man.
And honestly, think of it this way. If my lady was driven to a man that for her is a better fit for her, that’s a lovely thing. On many levels.
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Not a limiting belief each of our stories are true to us, what’s a limiting belief to one person to another’s it’s there truth. I agree though we all have different perspectives and that’s okay. We all see the world differently and that’s okay.
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The way I meant limiting belief is if that belief holds us back from manifesting the beautiful relationship that we all want, whatever that looks like. Wouldn’t you agree that believing your girl is looking for the next best thing constantly is limiting in the long run?
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does it contradict what you said about your girlfriend that she is interested in using seductress?
Limiting belif was probably the wrong word you used but my point was to everyone how we all have different perspectives and truths and thats okay, as long as we are not trying to force our truth onto someone.
As for myself i dont think about women always wanting to date up but you made a post about something so it was mentioned as a potential possibility if she uses the sublimnal
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Oh no, this thread actually turned into more than I expected in a good way lol, these guys are actually helping me to consider and challenge my own outlook which is very beneficial lol.
Let’s spark up a new match, if anything!
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Yeah my terminology could have possibly been less condemning for sure, and I was just going to mention I do value your guy’s insight and discussion, I’m not trying to defensive or come across any type of way.
The possibility is there, which is what inspired the post. But as @anon2351792 stated, it does have the potential to bring your lady closer to you, if that’s her intent. My woman intent wasn’t the question, but the potential of the product 
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