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#790

Question from @Azriel (original post):

@qOS How will the recon show up on KB stage 1? Emotional, sexully insecurity, heavingness etc? Does it having scripting around morality, feedback is people feel it creates a niceness , or kindness in them. I had that experience as well. It creates a kind of ‘softer’ ness -why is this? Will KB in any way smooth out sexual energy or edge? Like Wanted takes away sexual charge or has it more in connection while Khan and Wanted Black create more polartiy and sexual tension. Is KB1 more likely to do the former or the later?

Summary

@Azriel — Stage I’s reconciliation tends to show up emotionally first, and no, Khan Black does not smooth out your sexual charge. Each part of your question is below in order.

How reconciliation shows up on Stage I
Stage I clears sexual shame, performance anxiety, numbness and old sexual hurts. Reconciliation usually looks like whichever of those is being cleared coming to the surface. Old beliefs about desire may feel loud for a while. Sexual insecurity, or the habit of watching yourself during intimacy, may flare before it fades. Old partners and old humiliations may come back to mind as Old Scorch Marks loosens their grip, and they often come back with a different feel than before. Heaviness is part of it too. Stage I is the clearing stage, and its clearing can run heavy for a few weeks. If held energy ever feels restless, stirred and heavy rather than calm and full, rest and let things settle instead of pushing harder. The qOS reply in post #250 of this thread covers every stage’s reconciliation and the practical remedies: Main Disc. Thread - The NEW Khan Black: The Crucible (Now Available! Q Modules Available!) - #250 by BlissAdventurer

Morality, and the softness
Khan Black has no morality scripting. Like every title, it carries free-will scripting, which guides you to respect other people’s sovereignty. The softness comes from something else. Stage I removes the guarding around your sexuality: the shame, the examiner in your head during intimacy, the old fear of being seen as sexual at all. When that guarding lifts, your warmth reaches people more easily, and they may experience it as kindness. Stage I’s healing is also gentle in manner, and Khan Black is a ZPU title, which carries nervous-system regulation as a core function. A settled, softer tone is a normal part of the Stage I experience.

Does it smooth out sexual energy or edge?
No. Stage I is built to switch the charge on. My Own Fire ends the flinch from your own intensity, so you stay in your body when arousal runs at full strength instead of quietly turning yourself down. Rising sexual vitality and a charge people can feel are both part of what the title develops. Screen-driven urgency is what fades. Firelight, Not Floodlight retunes arousal away from overstimulation and toward real presence, so if part of your edge was restlessness, that part may quieten while the charge underneath grows steadier.

On the comparison, WANTED is built on sexual tension, with mystery, a layer of direct sexiness and masculinity scripting that builds polarity, so it sits with Khan and Wanted Black. The softer, connection-led route in that line is Wanted: Dream Boy, which holds the charge in an unhurried, reverent way. Khan Black Stage I fits neither pattern. It works on your relationship with your own sexual energy and does not aim at seduction or status. Its aura develops from that inner work and is aimed at no one. In practice it tends to give you a fuller charge and a calmer relationship with that charge, and how much polarity you bring to an encounter stays your choice.

Next step
If you want polarity and tension in the foreground later, the pairing built for that is Stage III with WANTED, Primal Seduction or Primal Nights, once Stages I and II have had their full time. For Stage I itself, PEACE is the recommended partner. Listening guidance is in the official instructions: https://instructions.subliminalclub.com

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#791

Question from @themadsexyscientist (original post):

@qOS could wanted and WDB work well in a stack complementing each other’s style Would Wanted bring the high value sexual magnetism, while wbd would bring safety and connection when things get slow and you get to know the person and be able to connect with them on a deeper level I ask because when I run wanted I get the attention but it doesn’t move to anything substantial, when I run wbd, I get women opening up to me but no interest in wanting to sexually escalate I’m looking for a holistic vibe I do have become the prize essence in my stack as a name embed with GLM but the features like the wanted reality bubble, echoes of fulfillment, I’m sure aren’t included in the essence, so I’m wondering how a stack would work if I had Wanted and GLM as the cores…what modules would compliment the social side of wanted, becoming the life of the party, being able to talk to everyone, make everyone seen and heard, all without coming off like a social aloof, I struggle big time with socializing with multiple women at the same time, sometimes one on one unless I’ve known her for a long time its the feeling like not socially being inept to keep a conversation going, though with guys its easy and we can talk for hours and hours without a second thought so wondering what social modules would bolster my custom so socializing with women is no longer an issue when it comes down to it

Summary

@themadsexyscientist — yes, WANTED and Wanted: Dream Boy complement each other well, and the split you describe is close to how they differ. WANTED supplies the tension and the escalation. Dream Boy supplies the depth, the safety and the slower connection.

Why each one stalls on its own

WANTED is built around being pursued. The WANTED State helps you drop into playful push and pull, teasing and escalation, and The Sexual Core puts masculinity and sexual appeal into how you move and hold space. Most of the openings that come with WANTED and its Reality Bubble are subtle rather than direct: someone lingering near you, a look, closeness. Turning attention into something substantial depends on noticing those as openings and acting on them. Freedom to Flow is there to ease the hesitation before you do.

Dream Boy is deliberately slow-burn. Lips Before They Touch helps you stop treating the kiss or the escalation as the goal and stay comfortable in the moment before it. That fits what you noticed: conversations go deep, and the escalation is left to you. Dream Boy Dialogue and To Feel Alive in Your Arms are where its depth and sense of safety come from.

Run together, WANTED adds the charge that Dream Boy leaves out. Dream Boy adds a deeper connection for that charge to sit inside. Dream Boy belongs to the WANTED line, so the two sit together naturally.

Your ESSENCE and the WANTED Core

ESSENCE: To Become The Prize is the whole of WANTED distilled into one module, so the Reality Bubble and the rest of the title are in it, in condensed form. Because it is distilled, it has less room for each feature than the full title does. Echoes of Fulfillment was mined from the WANTED script, so its concept is already part of WANTED. Adding the module beside the title pronounces that feature.

If you move to WANTED Core with Godlike Masculinity Core, take To Become The Prize out, since it would repeat the core. Godlike Masculinity sits well beside WANTED: WANTED’s emotional-mastery feature, Stormless Depths, was built with technology from the new Godlike Masculinity. For Dream Boy’s side in the same custom, ESSENCE: To Dream of Me is the whole of Dream Boy distilled into one module.

Social modules for the custom

You already talk with men for hours without effort, so the skill is there. The work is carrying that same ease into conversations with women, one to one and in groups. WANTED already carries The Living Pulse, which brings ease and fun into how you socialise. These modules add the most on top of it:

  • True Social Core is the strongest fit for what you describe. It carries Daredevil: True Social, which reads group dynamics, helps you slip into a circle without friction, and helps you make sure everyone in the group is seen and heard. Its Mastering Social Momentum helps you build on a shared laugh or an insight so a conversation keeps flowing instead of fizzling out.
  • ESSENCE: To Dream of Me brings Dream Boy’s unhurried presence, conversation style and sense of safety into the build in condensed form.
  • Charisma & Flirting Automatic Mentor-Improver works as an inner coach for flirting. It guides you toward the right actions, helps you notice your mistakes and leads you to material worth learning from.
  • ESSENCE: Magnetic Social Flow works on the move from forced small talk to genuine conversation, and brings social anxiety and fear of rejection into focus so they can ease.
  • Story Teller helps you tell engaging stories, which gives a conversation something to run on.
  • Approachability Aura adds an open, approachable presence beside WANTED’s mystery, so the mystery does not tip into aloofness.

That gives a build of WANTED Core, Godlike Masculinity Core, ESSENCE: To Dream of Me, True Social Core, Charisma & Flirting Automatic Mentor-Improver, ESSENCE: Magnetic Social Flow, Story Teller and Approachability Aura, with Echoes of Fulfillment if you want that feature pronounced. Customs have a 20-module cap, so if your current build is close to it, swap modules out rather than adding.

Next step: rebuild around WANTED Core and Godlike Masculinity Core with To Become The Prize removed, and put True Social Core first among the social modules. Listening guidance is in the official instructions: https://instructions.subliminalclub.com

#792

@qOS is Khan Black a good title to gel with problems related to situation-based erectile dysfunction? Or would Diamond be better? Or stack them both?

#793

I can answer this one pretty quick. Khan Black for sure. It helps clean up the entire sexual system, energetic and mental. It’s a no brainer. DIAMOND helps with the actual sexual performance part and could be a short term solution. The new DIAMOND is even more hard hitting.

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#794

Question from @RVconsultant (original post):

@qOS Hello, If I wanted to make a name embedded custom with Khan Black stage 1, what modules would you recommend I add in there? One scenario makes the custom as complete as possible (up to 20 modules, but nothing superfluous). Another scenario makes the custom as lean/minimal as possible (even the possibility of less than 10 modules). Then present the advantages and disadvantages of each. Thank you!

Summary

@RVconsultant — a Khan Black Stage 1 custom works best with one direction and eight to twelve modules beside the core, so even the complete version stops well short of 20.

Khan Black recommends one Crucible core per build, with every module pointing the same way as the core. It also recommends going easy on healing modules, because Stage 1 already does the clearing, and a build that heals twice spends its time processing instead of producing. Neither build below adds a second heavy clearing stage such as Khan Stage 1 or a Dragon Reborn core. Two clearing stages compete for the same cycle, so the mind spends it reconciling both sets of old material instead of settling either.

The lean build: core plus four

  1. Khan Black: Stage 1 Core.
  2. ESSENCE: The Uncarved Block carries PEACE in condensed form. Stage I with PEACE is a recommended Khan Black pairing, because PEACE helps keep you steady and present while the ground is being cleared.
  3. Naturalizer helps the changes feel natural, so you accept them more easily and progress more smoothly.
  4. Homeostasis helps ground your results if the development gets fast enough to feel uncomfortable.
  5. Dopaminergic Revival helps rebalance reward circuits worn down by constant stimulation, which supports Stage 1’s work on bringing arousal back from overstimulation to real experience.

The complete build: core plus ten

  1. Khan Black: Stage 1 Core.
  2. PEACE Core replaces the ESSENCE and gives you the full settling layer. One settling layer is usually enough, so use both only if you want both.
  3. Naturalizer.
  4. Homeostasis.
  5. Illusions of the Mind helps you understand your own reconciliation response, which is useful on an Artisan-line stage that can run heavy for a few weeks.
  6. Dopaminergic Revival.
  7. Eye of the Storm helps you regain control of habits like the late-night scroll and build better ones in their place.
  8. Sexiness Unbound helps you release limiting beliefs about your own sexiness and express it, carrying Stage 1’s work on being comfortable as a sexual person into daily life.
  9. Irresistible Relaxation brings body and mind into calm, so you stay composed and present in intimate moments instead of watching yourself.
  10. SPS: Reproductive System supports the physical side, strengthening the reproductive system alongside Stage 1’s work on sensitivity and vitality.
  11. Prevent Premature Ejaculation, only if it applies to you. It adds a physical layer to the performance-anxiety work Stage 1 already does. If it does not apply, leave the slot out.

Advantages and disadvantages
The lean build gives Stage 1 almost all of your attention. It is lighter to process, and it is easy to see what the core is doing. The cost is less targeted support. The ESSENCE covers all of PEACE but has less room for each part than the core, and habits or performance issues get only what Stage 1 itself provides.

The complete build covers more ground around the core: the full PEACE settling layer, the habit side of overstimulation, intimacy and the body. The cost is load. Each added module is more for the mind to work through beside a stage that already does deep clearing, results spread across more aims, and it is harder to tell which part is doing what.

For a first Crucible custom, the lean build is the safer start, at Standard strength, and your Stage 2 custom can carry what you learn from it. Post your final draft here before you submit it if you want it checked. Listening guidance for Artisan-line titles is in the official instructions: https://instructions.subliminalclub.com

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#795

Question from @sigmamale (original post):

I’ve wasted years trying to do whatever it took for wife to want me beyond it being a “duty”. and now my stuff doesn’t work right anymore. she said “I just don’t ever want it that much. I’ve been trying” I said “If you have to ‘try’ then what am I doing wrong?” fun times. not sure if it doesn’t work because it’s HER or I’m just getting old. @qOS In case it is ED, could BDLM+Paragon help with that? Or would Diamond be better for ED? or BDLM+Diamond+Paragon?

Summary

@sigmamale — The Stabilizer is a sound place to start if you feel this runs deeper. PEACE and Heartsong’s first stage, Attuned, are both worth adding to it.

Because you raised ED, please book a check-up with your doctor first. It is worth ruling out a physical cause, and no title is a substitute for that conversation.

PEACE is the title to look at for the pressure side of this. It works on nervous-system regulation: composure under pressure, the long exhale, and softening the anxious rehearsal of moments that have not happened yet. Performance anxiety lives in exactly that rehearsal. PEACE is built as a foundation that runs beneath other titles, so it sits well under The Stabilizer. A newer member who came in with performance anxiety and ED later reported that PEACE helped with both a great deal.

Attuned is the title for the marriage side of what you describe. It is the foundation stage of Heartsong, made for single and partnered listeners alike. The Settled Heart helps your body learn that closeness is not danger, so the breath stays low and the chest stays open when it matters. At Home in My Body helps you settle into your own warmth and sensuality before anything is shared. Wanting Cleanly helps turn the wish to be wanted into a warm, honest wanting without the desperate grip. My Own Needs, Answered helps you ask for what you need as a request rather than a debt, which speaks directly to the “duty” feeling on both sides.

If you come back to the question later, here is how Diamond, BDLM and Paragon differ. Diamond is aimed at arousal and sexual performance. BDLM is focused on size alone. Paragon supports the body’s own healing and is meant to be used alongside medical care, not instead of it.

Alongside PEACE, The Stabilizer’s The Steady Hand may help you find the pause between what you feel and how you respond, which matters in the hard conversations at home. Unfinished Business may help you face the conversations and relationships that have been left hanging. Restorer works on sleep, which supports everything else.

Next step: see your doctor, then run PEACE and Attuned with The Stabilizer before adding anything aimed at the bedroom side.

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#796

I think this question was missed. Just wanted to bump it.

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#797

@qOS
Just wondering if you could do a comparison between Sex & Seduction X and Synergy: Secrets of Seduction.

I know there’s some general advice; “if it’s a major focus, use a full core, if it’s a ‘nice to have’ then use an Essence” (or in this case, a synergy module lol).

But I’m interested to know, does one have more updated scripting than the other?
Does either cover things that the other doesn’t?

#798

@qOS
That last question led me into another one:
And how might Synergy: Secrets of Seduction perform in a custom with new Wanted? :slight_smile:

Actually, with regards to Synergy: Secrets of Seduction in a custom with Wanted, I’ve been wondering how much of Synergy: Secrets of Seduction is already covered by the Wanted core?
I’ve been wondering about, if I’m trying to avoid making a Wanted custom too bulky and I already have various other modules, is Synergy: Secrets of Seduction somewhat redundant?

So it would be helpful to have more clarity on what things Synergy: Secrets of Seduction offers that Wanted doesn’t?
How are they similar and different?

For example, in terms of seduction, in the Wanted product copy, it mentions:
“playful push and pull, escalation, teasing, and all the other wonders of the dance of seduction”
“This refined approach scripting ensures you are still able to approach, without breaking the WANTED frame”
and plus the general fun and emotional mastery scripting (The Living Pulse and Stormless Depths)

“This module builds an intuitive, graceful seduction style—effortless, natural, and fluid. You know exactly how to unlock each woman’s unique sense of desire” (Art of being Wanted)

“Remove rules and expectations from seduction, allowing intimacy to unfold freely in any situation, making connection effortless, natural, and driven by authenticity rather than structure”

It would be helpful if you could compare each of these things (and any other relevant Wanted scripting) to the things in Synergy: Secrets of Seduction.
Many thanks :pray:t2: :slight_smile:

#799

Question from @Judoka (original post):

This is gonna sound like overthinking but recently i lost one of my earbuds if i listened t the subliminal from judt 1 earbd wpuld that be a problem? Or are there different affirmations or pace each side? @qOS Also recently had my phone screen replaced but it was botched and im not sure if it affevted my phone speaker if its muffly or distorted if i listened through the speaker would it be a problwms or is the general rule as long as i can hear it its fine?

Summary

@Judoka — the simplest fix is a new pair of earbuds, and then carry on listening exactly the way you have been. Your routine has been working, so there is no reason to change it.

Until the new pair arrives, the one earbud you still have is fine. If you can hear the masking sound clearly in one ear, the subliminal can still work for you, and both sides do not need to be playing.

Skip the phone speaker for now. Masked files work through speakers as long as the sound is clear, and a speaker that sounds muffled or distorted after a botched repair does not meet that.

Next step: order a replacement pair and keep going with Paragon as before. The full listening guidance is in the official instructions: https://instructions.subliminalclub.com

#800

@qOS What title over any other would you recommend for someone who is ADHD & Neurodivergent yet also in their mid to late 50s and wanting to get their life together?

I’m going to guess you will probably recommend The Stabilizer

With The Stabilizer how will I measure when it’s time to progress to Genesis : Ascension Stage 2?

#801

Hi @qOS ,
I have about two years of experience with Wanted Black, run together with Khan Black: The Crucible (original release) Stage 4.

I’ve also been listening to a custom with these modules for more than 4 months:

WDB, ESSENCE Endless Summer, ESSENCE True Shine,

Synergy Tale of the Dragon, Moment Immortalized, Synergy Beyond Seduction, Synergy Primordial Aura, Sensuality and Handsomeness Improver, Main Character Energy, King’s Radiance, Ethereal Presence, Enchanting Smile, Edge of Falling, Energetic Development XI, DEUS.

I’m thinking of listening to Wanted Black together with this custom, without replacing anything. How would you expect the effect to show up with:

  1. Friends, acquaintances, and people in general?
  2. The romantic side?

Thank you!

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#802

Damn that’s a good custom

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#803

@qOS khan st4. And khan black st 1. Would it work?

#804

@qOS Can you compare the combination of Wanted Dreamb Boy and Peace with the combination of Wanted Dreamb Boy and Summertime?

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#805

@qOS hey you recommended i use inner circle and i am using it now. but now i am thinking of switching to sex and seduction x. i think wanted and sex and seduction x combined would bring me more encounters and manifestation with women, wouldn’t it? as for primal seduction we discussed about it before and you did recommend it but i don’t have an active dating life, right now i am going through a break and my seduction skills are not very strong either. if i want to find another gf/fwb soon then i think i should use sex and seduction x to improve my seduction skills first and then switch to primal seduction once i have a decent base? primal seduction is also on ZPU technology so it still has that edge, considering all of this what should i do? should i drop inner circle and use sex and seduction x or primal seduction? or keep innercircle.

#806

@qOS are Khan and WB still effective for attracting younger women?

Does Emperor Daddy have scripting for bedroom performance?

How does it compare to Wanted Black for this?

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#807

@qOS

How will the recon show up on KB stage 1? Emotional, sexully insecurity, heavingness etc?

Does it having scripting around morality, feedback is people feel it creates a niceness , or kindness in them. I had that experience as well. It creates a kind of ‘softer’ ness -why is this?

Will KB in any way smooth out sexual energy or edge? Like Wanted takes away sexual charge or has it more in connection while Khan and Wanted Black create more polartiy and sexual tension. Is KB1 more likely to do the former or the later?

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#808

@qOS As I mentioned in my earlier question, I wanted to ask one thing regarding the same goal of mine: building an online business, growing on social media, generating income and manifesting money.

I’ve just started with A Stark Black Reality. For the second subliminal, I’m wondering whether I should add The New R.I.C.H or use a wealth-focused custom that I created earlier this year when The New R.I.C.H came out. I didn’t use the custom back then because I had to focus on a different area.

The custom was:

  1. The New R.I.C.H Core
  2. New Result Enhancing Experience Core
  3. Cosmic Wealth
  4. Multiple Streams of Income
  5. Omnidimensional
  6. Synergy: Carpe Vitam
  7. Synergy: Divine Dominion
  8. Synergy: The Golden One
  9. Synergy: Winner Overdrive

So, what would be the best stack for my current goal?

ASBR + The New R.I.C.H

or

ASBR + The Custom I mentioned above

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#809

Your question has already been answered above: qOS Question and Answer Thread - #790 by qOS

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