Prove it saintsovereign

@Alphamale

It’s clear from the DM’s you posted and your tone on this thread to others that the subliminals you’ve used have brought up a lot of material from your past and present, and you’re emotionally invested in obtaining the best outcome for yourself in the situation. However, I think Fire was right when he indicated you need to get to a clearer understanding of a vision for your future. To have the fire and drive to be this great archetype you speak of is great, but without focus and vision it’s like trying to pee without aiming, everything just goes everywhere and makes a mess.

It’s possible that neither you nor Saint/Fire were a hundred percent correct in your interpretation of the situation. It’s possible that you both misunderstood one another’s intent. It happens. But now what action on your part is going to give you the best outcome? Coming out swinging, activating that whole fight or flight part of your nervous system, is not going to get you any closer to any of the goals you outlined to Saint and Fire in those DMs. Rather than getting angry at a lack of control, go back to some of the stuff in your holy book, where it tells you that “God is in full control of all things. He has taught you what you never knew.” Or: “You shall remember God while standing, sitting or lying down.” It’s the best balm against emotional toxicity you can get.

Good luck sorting stuff out. Just remember like @bombayduck said, none of this is personal. In the end we’re just strangers helping one another out on an internet forum, and in the end its up to you to run your own life.

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FYI for any lurkers that are wondering what happens to your brain if you run 8 core customs, here you are.

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I can agree with you about suggesting using the Qur’an 's way of using languages with rhetorics, stories, etc as a source of inspiration. this point of view makes sense in it’s own right and you want to contribute to the community in the way you see it best.

But you gotta make it as clear as your reply to me about it.

the message that you sent to saint is clear enough for you, but the recipients (us) see it otherwise as evident by how everyone is reacting. i see this as a case of unclear communication and misinterpretation resulting from it.

i think instead of calling saint “lied”, it’s more accurate to say saint “misunderstood” what you said.

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@Alphamale - take @friday 's @bombayduck 's and @emperor_obewan advice into consideration. In fact take all the advice here into consideration and make the necessary changes.

Maybe it is too late with regard to the forum but at least you can take control of your life.

What you believe is up to you. Infact I can agree to many of what you believe in but this is not the place for that.

I have disagreed with Saint on some topics but I respect that this is Saint’s and Fire’s place so I don’t push my beliefs on them or on the forum.

You need to understand this to grow, mature and know that others have a life too. It isn’t all about yourself.

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You literally posted the screenshot where you told me to “use the language of the Qur’an” as the basis of our titles because it’s the purest holy book and hasn’t been edited. If I responded saying, I’m going to use the Holy Bible instead — specifically the New Testament, how would you have taken that?

Then, because I ask you to stop doing this, you come back and attack me personally, try to turn my customers against me and ruin my business, my hard work because we promote religious neutrality so everyone can enjoy this place? You come here and lie on me?

I am so fucking sick of being lied on. If it isn’t Hermit’s nonsense, it’s Calm and his constantly changing claims — all while completely ignoring that he’s grown man whose caretaker is having the courts declare him unable to handle his affairs.

Your fears are NOT our limitations. And you have NO power over us. Let that be known to anyone do thinks they can bully us.

I will no longer be disrespected, abused and lied on in my own company. You were given plenty of chances and I advocated for you multiple times when a vote was made to ban you. I’ve even gifted you free titles.

And you have the audacity to pull THIS? Try to paint me out as a villain? For this, you are permanently banned with no chance of returning.

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We know many members here who were having issues with AM for some time and wanted him off the forum long back. But it has to come to this after Saint and Fire have given him many chances due to his difficult circumstances.

But that doesn’t mean that one takes advantage of people because they are good to you. And keep making a ruckus in their home when one is a guest there especially when he was treated very favorably and given more attention due to his issues.

But this is the proverbial last straw on the camel’s back and it is done! Now we can go back to less drama and disruption on the forum and focus more on our self-growth and helping one another instead of having to put up with regular and unnecessary antics.

In parting I would tell him that if domination is the only language you understand, that’s the language that will be spoken to you.

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It’s rare for me to speak ill of the dead (dead to the forum anyway lol)

But dude kept bragging about having an 8-core custom and no recon. Okkkkaaaaayyyyyyy.

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and it begins…

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Not getting results (or at least most of supposed ones) is a form of recon.

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Oh I meant he was nothing BUT recon

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Who is without sin is the one who should cast the first stone:

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:rofl:

(your .gif kung fu only improves over time)

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I’ve already had him on ignore for a while.

That should be the first line of defence for anyone here who might be bothering you or even someone you don’t find constructive.

I ignored alphamale after he started asking for advice on 8 core customs, stacked multiple subs simultaneously, seemed to not understand or admit he was breaking guidelines, ignoring washout, stacking too many multistagers, and using subliminals to accomplish non-aligned goals of Power to hurt others. At least that’s how I perceived it.

And it wasn’t even a judgement - I just dont find those posts valueable. There’s 100’s of users here it’s okay not to resonate with all of them.

Some users tend to debate, like AM, and other users here love to fan the fires, which is what makes them grow into a forest-fire level problem. Ignoring those people who you feel aren’t aligned with you can sometimes be the best solution. Because fanning the flames doesn’t just hurt you, and him, but all the other people here just looking for tips and tricks of effective strategies to increase the effectiveness of our stacks.

”take the log out of your own eye before taking the wood chip out of someone else’s”

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Alright, everyone. What’s done is done. The thread auto locked earlier after excessive flags, which reopens 16 hours later. Closing the thread permanently now.

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Alright I was taking a brief break and look at what I came back to.

I want to thank you all for responding with a combination of compassion, kindness, and firmness!

In trying to steer someone to a better way rather than condemning. In enforcing proper posting rather than insulting and mocking. In tempering righteous indignation with respect.

Thank you all so much for doing so!

I personally kept hoping he would turn over a new leaf. I hope he does so, and soon.

Again thank you all so much for your level headed replies above. I am truly in awe how well this community is good at monitoring itself.

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