Update here, been a pretty wild week emotionally. Over the past week I’ve been running Genesis rather then RoM, will continue next cycle with all 3, but for now wanted to give Genesis a chance to do it’s work. Been consistent with Khan stage 1 for the entire cycle.
This past weekend was pretty wild, a lot of drinking, a lot of drama with the girlfriend. Went out with some of my co-workers on Friday and had 4 smokeshow girls all fighting over my attention. The girl with the boyfriend I mentioned earlier in the journal came out to meet my by her self at a bar, but I was with a bunch of other girls. All types of drama there, then ended up bringing a couple of them back to my place to smoke. Ended up not pursuing anything because of my girlfriend, but had an opportunity to have a three some with two of the most attractive women I’ve been around in my life.
My girlfriend ended up going through my phone as she was out of town all weekened lol, needless to say she was pretty pissed I was out with all of these girls. Since then it’s been almost constant fighting, but in a way I think it made me come to a lot of realizations about my sexuality, purpose in life, etc. I think a lot of the way I have treated her and past girlfriends is because sub consciously I have so much anger at women for how I viewed my Mom. It’s really led me to some un-healthy realtionships and bad patterns. Not in an abusive way, but defientley not the most loyal partner overall. I always looked to people like Andrew Tate, pick up-artists etc as a way to justify my actions because deep down I always thought women would do the same thing to me if I wasn’t cheating and didn’t see me as high value. Over the past week I’ve really seen how flawed this belief system is, and how it’s prevented me from growing into the best man I can be. I’ve decided to really focus on doing the hard things with my partner, putting in the work, being loyal, and focusing on my leadership and growth not just in my career but in my relationships as well.
I’m taking on the 75 hard day challenge, following a strict diet, working out daily, reading/mediating, and no drinking and alcolhol. Not something I want to quit forever, as I do enjoy some of the expieriences I’ve had, but at this time it’s really limiting my growth and hindering me from becoming the person I know I can be. Excited to share my progress that I make over the next couple months on that.
As far as Genesis goes I think a lot of it has been healing hence the challenges I’ve experienced over the past week. I was expecting some what of a smooth ride with Genesis, however that’s not really been what happened to this point. Instead it’s been incredibly challenging emotionally for me, I believe because purpose and meaning is my #1 value, and something I really struggle with to begin with. Didn’t notice much as far as positive changes goes until today. I think all of the emotional stuff coming up is a part of the growth process, and it’s brought me so many huge revelations about who I am at my core, and what I really want in my life. It’s made it much easier to socialize, because I am being congruent to my beliefs and values. My confidence is definitely at an all time high, not in the same way as Emperor, but more in the way of I am exactly who I am and will not compromise that for anyone.