I really like this. You expressed exactly what I was thinking but found it difficult to put it into words.
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Nowadays，I tend to use a more laid back，not that proactive ，outward social strategy…could be the effect of wanted /WB，and I like it…now，I am sure the new version True Social will have the NSE scripts…I assume this adjusts itself to suit my personal need in this case ？my question is how does it influence my stage performance…I know I am gonna do a lot of commercial performances soon ，Singing in different setting …will it help ？ 
Best title for singing would be RM:V
Best title for stage performance (right now at least) is daredevil.
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I know ，I have it in my stack，I am pairing it with others titles for the aura effect…I want to extend my influence…not just the Singing voice component but also others part that might be deemed as esoteric….such as the energetic connection…
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Speaking from my own experience, I have only little issues with socializing. My fiancee always jokes that I can enter a room and five minutes later I made friends already.
Looking back, there were times when things were different, and in the right setting they probably would still be the same.
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Confidence and Approach Anxiety
Back in the day when I was still dancing salsa regularly, my selfesteem was extremely low. I was afraid to form new connections, especially with attractive women.
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Self-Worth
I think this was rooted in Self-Worth issues and fear of rejection. So some slight NSE style healing, building upon positive experience would do wonders.
Then there’s the case of someone I know. This person is unable to enjoy large gatherings. Mostly because of the small talk.
- Meaningful Conversations
So as Jouissance said, turning fresh conversations from small to deep talk inere seconds.
But he also has misanthropic tendencies because in his experience small talk usually is about dumbing and unnecessary topics like trash TV, who broke up and why,… And negative topics like politics, news, war’s,… Or about unimportant stuff like the weather.
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Turning Conversations around
The ability to masterfully change the topic of the conversation in the blink of an eye, without the other side being offended. -
Dominating Conversations
The ability to dominate conversations if you want to. Not by force but by skill. In a way that the other person enjoys listening to you, opening up to your position even if it’s nots hers. -
Love and openness
To really be able to socialize, you need an interest, I dare say a love for people and being open for their situation, to meet them where they are and bring them along the way. -
Enjoyment of Smalltalk
Talking about the weather or about the new shop that opened down the road might not be the most rewarding topic, but it can build a solid base for a conversation. So scripting to enjoy a bit of Smalltalk might help tremendously in building connection if your opposite feels you’re authentically open and enjoying the conversation.
He is also highly sensitive. Meaning when he is in a room with 20 conversations he doesn’t hear general chatternoise from 20 conversations but he hears 20 conversations, perhaps he’s not able to listen to all 20, but he can still spot them. And notices them all the time. He can’t fade them out.
I think it’s a trauma response when it was paramount to notice certain conversations to ensure he can hide from his parents as a child.
- Focus on one conversation
And just keep the rest outside your mind at will.
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I absolutely had this in mind, as well, when talking about small talk.
I enjoy small talk a lot on Khan ST2.
My small talk doesn’t become “deep” talk. It becomes “small-but-fun” talk
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This.
You will probably listen to TS when you actually have a social gathering coming up. It would be bad to first go through processing and and in the worst case (antisocial) recon.
I know it is not planned, but a build option in the main store for the programs formerly known as superchargers with MDFY: NOW and maybe a shortened script (only Aura and Flow for TS… but also e. g. RotNW) could solve it.
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Curiosity in other people so you actually enjoy meeting and getting to know others.
Listening skills.
The ability to quickly generate deep rapport and connections, and to get people to open up to you. You become the kind of person they tell things about themselves they never told anyone else before.
Actually remembering what other people tell you.
Being fine with opening up yourself about your views, feelings, experiences, boundaries.
Lots of social and emotional intelligence.
Enjoying increasing your social comfort zone.
Being good at setting boundaries.
Being relaxed and making people relaxed in a social setting.
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I think this is a pretty amazing idea too.
I would envision it as being similar to the Wealth programs, but unlocking the abundance of Connection.
Finding resources, personal style, perspectives, rhythm, relationships, etc., of connection that are optimal and ideal for who one is.
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This is selfish of me but I’m about to enter high society.
So being able to handle fundraisers, ball, conversations, etc. skills on how to eat in such places surrounded by affluent people… Basically, elite etiquette. Choosing which cultural etiquette best fits one and how to master it.
Being unforgettable in a place surrounded by people who’ve had time to accomplish big goals or who come from old money.
Boost qualities such as compassion, caring, and empathy because the more people we know, the less we tend to show those qualities. But also having a small protection against negative people.
Increase in social, emotional, and physical intelligence.
Master of small talk. Being able to work a room effortlessly like how politicians do it.
Listening with understanding. We often hear what people are saying, but do we understand them? This alone can make people feel seen, and as a result, forging connections will be easier
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Intelligence scripting is a must.
The ability to very quickly remember what was talked about then recall key points in the conversation.
Ability to merge and evolve when stacked with pn , starkog , ps etc. So the script will adapt with the sub its stacked or comboed with.
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I would say a very small amount of “solitude” scripting or something to be okay with being lonely. Some people who lack social skills or just lack a social group in general tend to be a lot more lonely, sometimes this can lead becoming friends with some not so good people
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A good aura would be good, one that makes people comfortable around you, trusting. Like you give off an air of nonjudgmental-ness, open-ness, and interest in others.
Then an internal aspect of being charmed by people, being interested in others, finding out their humor quickly, etc. I’ll write more here after I sleep lol.
Transmutation of “approach anxiety” into excitement and eagerness, shifting focus from self onto other person/people, seeing/feeling the beautiful/aesthetic aspect of others, knowing when to pull back if you’re being too imposing.
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A sub that one would run to build a social life from scratch in two weeks in a new city.
Another big social anxiety issue: Being extremely self conscious in social situations being all in your head in social situations. Scripting to deal with this issue would be very helpful.
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Love this!
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DD helped me with that.
@TheEmpress With Genesis: The Art of Happiness and Joy this stack could turn it into a literal dream job. Enjoying each second, talking and expressing freely and endlessly, spreading the contagious and genuine joy which impossible to fake as well as crushing it. This could potentially be a million dollar stack for a content creator. This random idea is sponsored by EoG Stage 1 washout
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A dream business? 
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