Validation plays a big part here also. Many sought to get laid not because they truly enjoy/desire it but for validation. It’s why they switch up when getting laid no longer validates them and start asking for more by moving the goalpost
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It really is
The amount of dating success is off the charts compared to WB.
Like sure, I’ve had a lot of girls throughout my time on WB, but quality wise, the women on WDB are way better, and by that I mean:
- they’re mentally much more stable (no daddy issues).
- they’re much more feminine.
- they match my energy more accurately in the way they are.
- the attraction is much more effortless (no need to do any hot and cold tactics, they just start dreaming of you a lot).
Though Saint, there’s one big issue that is not my fault; remember I told you about my cousin’s ex? Her bday was today, and I was invited, but I didn’t go, and she texted me saying that I owe her a bday present for how much I keep distracting her by occupying her thoughts, when I asked what did she want, she said me alone 
I didn’t make any moves when u said no need, so idk why it happened
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I meant no disrespect in terms of hurting the reputation of the title or your business. I just needed to say what was on my mind to be able to gain clarity on what’s blocking me. It’s not about treating women like infants either, it’s about two past experiences that i’m reconciling at the moment. I’m pairing Regen with belief change work and today has been a sudden massive amount of emotionality which is a sign of things working. I’m sick of holding everything in. You’re work really helps me so thankyou
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No offense taken, I was merely explaining more of what we’ve recognized as an issue throughout society, the collective and how they interact with the titles. Because again, that is a HUGE blocker that comes with titles like Wanted. It’s one of the things that leads to reconciliation – holding two diametrically opposing views. “I want to attract women, have lots of fun and also be good in bed so that they enjoy it,” while at the same time, holding the viewpoint of “but if they have casual sex with me, they are flawed.”
It leads to these kind of issues.
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Yes –
WDB can definitely give off “boyfriend” vibes, and I believe that secretly – this is what many people want. It is no knock to Wanted or Wanted Black, but I suspect that a large majority of people are only running those types of titles because that’s what they believe they HAVE to do to attract women. You wouldn’t believe how many times we’ve received support messages from people running titles like Wanted Black, then saying that they realized they actually want to have a long-term partner, or more fun dating experiences without having to embody that mysterious alpha archetype.
WDB is very much for those people. It’s still Wanted, just a different archetype.
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See this is why I always used to say to run WANTED or WB until you are physically attracted to yourself, cause at that point, the belief of “I’m the biggest prize for every girl in existence” becomes too strong to have negative thoughts about the women chasing you.
@Melody maybe you’re main issue is the fact that you don’t really yourself worthy of having a roster, and there’s no shame in that, cause maybe at your core, you desire intimacy, not sex, and intimacy is not something casual, but requires feelings.
Sort your own feelings out, and you’ll outgrow your beliefs 
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Damn, I had this issue one Wanted Black, I had sex with 3 different girls but also thought to myself that they are [promiscuous] and low value.
Maybe this is why my results from Wanted are not as good, the block is real.
Need to work on that, thanks for clarifying.
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Think about it this way
You judged them, but maybe you’re projecting, because you probably are afraid to admit you feel that way about yourself.
For each one of them, u were just one guy they slept with, while as you, you slept with 3 different girls, and you’re justifying your own “innocence” by judging them.
That’s the core belief u have to reconcile, cause take me as an example, I slept with more girls this year than the last 3, and do I consider myself a “manwhore”?
Hell yeah, and a pretty good one at that 
and I make sure the impact leaves them craving more, and I’m no different than the girls who use sex for their own pleasure like the ones that slept with you, and there’s nothing wrong with that 
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I want intimate sex 
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When you get the chance, could you comment on how the new anti-recon seems to be working in line with the title?
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Step 1: run WDB, get a gf.
Step 2: run WB, get a casual f-buddy.
Step 3: take them both out to a brunch with unlimited drinks.
Step 4: ???
Step 5: profit.
Edit: @SaintSovereign
This is satire, I repeat, this is satire.
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Im already hyped at WDB, so Im taking your advice… and go for it!
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That’s an interesting analogy; it makes me reflect more deeply on this issue. Right now I’m listening to Primal to get a good foundation, then Primal Seduction, and finally, the New Wanted.
Ultimately, it’s all just our perceptions echoing into the world; the way a person sees things determines their daily reality and struggles.
Now I’ll wait for WDB. So that I may begin my journey towards 2026.
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I think it would be better to first give a peek at the exact process of it kicking in from the day I tested.
First loop effects of the anti-recon:
This was after a few days
In essence, these are the thoughts on the anti-recon:
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it’s so smooth at helping with emotional regulation, that it doesn’t even feel like you’re actively trying, but you just notice the behavioral and thought patterns changing, and getting hit with the realizations whenever u note down your own behavior.
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the inner peace isn’t like sanguine or something, this is not even comparable to alpha titles, there’s just this level of serenity and self awareness that feels like you’re being babied by your subconscious, getting taken care of, and feeling similar to the joy of being held in your mother’s arms as a baby; knowing everything will be okay.
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recon doesn’t feel like recon to me anyways, but with this, I do see the issues I had, and due to me being able to compartmentalize my thoughts in different parts of my brain so they don’t affect my day to day life, apparently I caused it all to bottle up and it caught up to me, and this unraveled it in a matter of hours.
It’s very hard to really put it more into words cause I just know that this is the best I’ve felt in a very long time, and the feeling of self acceptance, self love, emotional regulation and maturity, as well as inner peace and serenity is on another level.
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Well, your external reality is just your inner reality reflected outwards.
as above, so below my friend 
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Days like this are one of the things I really love of this forum… People vibing and sharing, resonating in the spirit of helping a brother out in his path and enjoying the process of growing together.
EDIT: @SaintSovereign isnt this some sort of prove of the anti recon working? I dont mean my feelings, but the whole conversation for the last hours.
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So I should just accept the fact that I’m a slut and everything will be better?
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Yeah the opposing views can be quite confusing for sure. That’s why I’d come back to only doing foundational titles that are cross contextual and lay a great perspective for the rest of my choices for stacks later down the line.
Secondly, one thing i wish you guys had are video series’s. I found Alex’s youtube super helpful back in the day for learning and understanding all these topics and nuances and the such before he changed directions. For people who are more visual and auditory learners it would be highly useful. There was something about the social proof of experiencing him as a real person talking about his results rather than a 2 dimensional written version. I can only speak for myself here of course… All the best 
A roster seems like too much wasted energy and time to be honest. I’d rather work on my music and other things at the moment. Pleasure comes second for me. You’re right i do desire intimacy, I just need to overcome a few things. All the best on your journey with WDB.