We are very biologically instictual in preferences, top genetics generate most attraction and positive internal state follows/gets programmed by positive feedback.
Resources, status also plays a role but i would say a secondary one to genetics.
Also a potent attraction drive is fulfillment of psychological shadow cravings which i excel at, very much not in favour of leading with resources .
Will be exciting to see how new wanted plays out and which attraction factors it amplifies.
