I agree with each of your words, @Sub.Zero 
Perfectly said.
Therefore new Wanted should deal with sexual & emotional shadow considerably.
And, of course, neediness eradication. Number one repellant is neediness.
I agree that all the ideas to add to New Wanted features like money and etc stems from neediness, insecurities and well spread idea that āno money, no girlsā.
This is one thing I can definitely agree on.
You are making some very important points about sexual tension and I agree mostly.
I just want to make a few clarifications about the points I mentioned above.
Being comfortable in your own skin and being comfortable with your own sexuality. I donāt mean comfort in the sense of breaking sexual tension or trying to make her feel comfortable. Guys actually start breaking sexual tension precisely because they are uncomfortable with sex and being sexual. Here with being comfortable with your own sexuality I mean having a high threshold for sexual tension. In order to accomplish this it is important to eradicate limiting beliefs you have about your own ability to attract and date women.
I agree there is a difference between being social and being seductive. But having some baseline of social skills is also important for seduction. For example, the ability to take a hint. This is something I would classify as a social skill and something that requires a bit of psychological insight. This is where some ideas from True Social and Inner Circle could be helpful in Wanted.
On connection and rapport. I am not sure what you mean here and this may not be relevant to what you were pointing at. I think what is incredibly powerful in seduction is the āus-frame.ā Making her feel we are on the same team rather than on opposing teams. Think of it like a Bond girl who is working for some evil boss or is a foreign spy, but ultimately ends up helping James Bond because he makes her feel like we are in this together.
Another thing is being honest to yourself and embracing your flaws and failures instead of lying to yourself to inflate your ego and cover up your insecurities and neediness.
Yes, the most important thing.
Thereās scripting targeting this in SSX. Another valid and essential point, mate.
I would reframe it as being on this adventure togetherāwhere you set the direction, tone, and pace, while staying attuned to the subconscious cues sheās giving off. Keep in mind that revealing too muchāespecially through prattling or bragging (like telling exaggerated stories about your extraordinary experiences)āis highly anti-seductive.
Also, any kind of rapport building should serve the purpose of seduction aloneānot to āmake friendsā or to attempt building āsomething meaningful.ā
But you mostly go for older women right?
Its not the same as with younger women that prefer older men, sure mystery is part of it but so is safety and comfort, they crave that feeling as well so their feminine self feels like it can completely surrender to you, anything part of the daddy archetype works well.
If you establish a deeper connection and they feel safe and comfortable they will reveal their shadows and deeper desires and neither does mystery of yourself run out because theres always more to find out.
Deeper connection makes for far better sex and overall experience as well.
I understand your point but please allow people to state what they want freely.
Yss they are asking for what they think they want out of this subliminal update and if it isnāt aligned with the direction of WANTED, am sure Fire and Saint will keep the essence intact after reading through all the points.
Cheers! And keep all them wishlists coming.
One thing that would be nice and maybe Stark handles this already:
Keep them coming, guys. Of course, I didnāt mean to discourage anyone.
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My best times seducing women were when I was able to sit and marinate in the sexual tension
These days, I find myself really struggling to recreate that, and especially balance my sexual self with my journeying on the spiritual path
More acceptance of my sexual self would definitely help there, and perhaps if you guys figure out how, some scripting to balance the sexual identity with the spiritual side of life so any of us donāt āregressā into beastial men if that isnāt our goal
There is something I think I had with Star and OG Wanted is overwhelming attention. And I wasnāt comfortable with it because I didnāt know what to do with it. Never tried again this combo but I guess when youāre the center of attention and it is new to you, you may froze and not know what to do.
I actually left the place because I didnāt know how to handle the attention and the other one a girl I liked came up to me and fuck I fumbled so hard š„²
TLDR : something of that confidence that make you ok with attention.
I suffer from the same wound
Only thing Iāll add is I only wanted(no pun intended) one thing to be added to the new WANTED which is, the ability to combine LoTS with WANTED.
Before, anytime this got brought up, Saint would always tell people to pick one or the other, but NEVER combine both. Well, a few weeks back he confirmed that the new WANTED will be able to be combined with LoTS.
If you truly desire to be your most attractive self, this combo would be the one.
(yes this is more hype than suggestion but I still think its valid).
The thing is, we need to deal with it ourselves, and believing that any woman can do it for us is just an illusion we need to let go of. I think scripting that helps dismantle the illusions weāve built around women, sex, and seductionāmost of which were programmed into us by societyāwould be really useful.
That looks like a job for a healing subliminal, DRR/KB/Khan St1.
You are right, falling in love with a female because you subconsciously think she can heal you is an illusion, she canāt heal you, it will only cause you to ignore red flags and get attached to her and the idea you created about her too much.
You might feel like you need a person you can call āhomeā, or maybe validation that makes you feel worthy of love or whatever.
I think Love Bomb can help with that too
They can also be good at pretending in illusion of giving you the fantasy you want once they figure you out while you forget you are under a spell of your own distorted vision.
Yes, maybe a good addition to New Wanted can be seeing through female manipulation
While I think youāre right that traditionally that seems more to do with a healing title, now I think with the new tools-based scripting approach and the advent of ZPU it is entirely possible to created a WANTED sub that heals those wounds without it being a āhealing titleā if that makes sense
The ultimate stack for getting in the best shape of your life could be LoTS, Spartan and WANTED.
Tbh women dont care that much about shredded male bodies its mostly other men that care lol if u ever got into bodybuilding its very obvious