In regards to neediness, I define it through the lens of “frame”.
In any given social interaction, there is always one person that “needs” something from the person, more then the other. This can be a need for approval, value, or a number of other things but it’s almost always detectable.
In a dating context, ultimately I think it boils down to the man either needing attention, sex, validation, approval, from the women, or not needing those things.
I understood you well enough since I had read your post in this thread (and some other relevant posts of yours elsewhere) , and if what you’re saying were true, I would also be begging for self-love scripting. But it’s actually the opposite, if you really understood what you had read.
Your newest post only buillds on that neediness expressed by you before, mate. Denial is usual reaction when one seeks external validation while just embracing it would do you real good.
You need to love your self first in order to attain the below.
The above is something I would expect of Hearsong. Try to understand that seducing women is not about making them fall in love with you and breaking their hearts, although it often happens. It’s about attracting them, putting them under your spell, indulging in all the pleasures, and releasing them from your spell.
If she falls in love with you, she needs to understand that it’s fleeting and that you’ll never be hers. That makes her want you even more, but at some point she realizes that you’re not this way and you naturally crave more women—and you get them.
Choosing women who are troubled is the worst thing you can do since they are clingy and possessive, difficult to “get rid of” once the seduction is over. What you’re suggesting is attracting this kind of woman in the first place since they need love to cultivate their self-love as well.
WANTED man chooses women who want the same, if possible—those who want to fulfill their wild fantasies with him, not those who are seeking “true love” or trying to fill a void created by a lack of self-love.
Checking in after a while. I’ve been on a washout for about 3 weeks so far, where earlier I was running a name-embedded WB + Fat Burn earlier. Was thinking about what my next stack would have, and looks like I’m going to go in with the NEW WANTED