Main Dev. Thread - NEW WANTED

#548

I really love the archetype of being Wanted it’s powerful. But honestly, even if some people won’t agree with me, I don’t think most women are used to actively approaching men. They’re generally not conditioned for it. Sure, they’ll give signals some subtle, some obvious but that’s usually where it stops. Many just don’t have the courage to go further. Some deal with anxiety, hesitation, or simply never learned how to take that leap.

And let’s be real even for us as men, it’s a process to become comfortable walking up to a stranger and starting a conversation. It’s not instinctive it’s a skill you build over time. So it’s no surprise that a lot of women are completely out of their depth when it comes to making the first move or carrying the dynamic beyond the initial glance.

Could it happen? Sure. A woman might approach you. It does happen but it’s the exception, not the rule. That’s why I prefer to take the lead myself. It’s not just about control it’s about optimizing your chances instead of waiting around, hoping someone else breaks the silence. If you’re a real celebrity then yeah, some will rush over you. That’s true. But for the rest of us, relying on that kind of attention just isn’t a solid game plan.

Unless your aura is so potent that it overrides their internal programming, most women still won’t make the first move. And even then, it’s rare. Their social conditioning runs deep it’s not easy to break through.

That’s why, even in those cases, I still believe the best move is for the man to take the initiative. It’s clear, it’s direct, and it puts you in control of the momentum. Waiting for signals can quickly turn into a confusing guessing game taking the lead cuts through all of that.

Now, once the ice is broken and the initial connection is made, that Wanted archetype becomes even more powerful. That’s when women start to lean in. They begin to crave your presence, push for dates, try to learn more about you. Once they feel a bit more comfortable, they start initiating more because now, you’re the one they want, and they’re no longer afraid to show it.

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#549

That’s not true at all.
Women approach men all the time – when it is the right man.
That was already discussed above somewhere.

That’s not my problem to solve honestly.
I am not those women’s therapist.
The sub can help and encourage them to chase me, through my aura etc., but if she doesn’t want to do it then she doesn’t want it.
Free will is a real thing and it is not my responsibility to help these particular women to become courageous and confident. I will not be play their White Knight.

And as mentioned, they just need to send strong enough IOI’s, I will do the approaching.

I disagree.
Neither it is a process nor a skill.
You just need to listen to KHAN and Primal long enough and you will have zero inhibitions to just approach any girl you like anywhere.
Going up to someone and saying hello in a flirty way is nothing you need to learn.
All you need to do is remove the limiting beliefs that were installed by society.
“Approach Anxiety” is 100% societal brainwashing.
KHAN and Primal (and several other titles) help to remove that brainwashing.
Then, one day it makes “click” in your perception and that approach anxiety is gone.

And again as mentioned, these women do not even have to approach me, they just need to send me strong enough IOI’s, and I will do the approaching. After I approach them, they have no excuses to not chase me.

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#550

Ah okay, fair. Like whether you approach her or she approaches you, she ends up trying to seduce you rather than vice versa.

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#551

okay, just think… what if the goal of wanted is to make these cutie pies sing “What is love? baby don’t hurt me, don’t hurt me, no more” to us?

using some mad skillz technology that Saint and Fire come up with called Role Reversal ZP?:thinking:

#552

On the contrary, if you want women to truly want you—rather than being superficially and fleetingly attracted—you need something deeper. You need their psychology to get involved on a deeper level—lead them further into the labyrinth that you are, and keep them enthralled.

I could write a whole book to explain all of this, but let’s keep it sweet and simple—we need to value our time.

I see four possible reasons why many men don’t get it. I’ll focus exclusively on the one you mentioned (no.4 below).

  1. They can’t get over the societal norms established thousands of years ago, when religions and laws began forbidding men from forcing themselves on women.
  2. They’re dominated by wishful thinking and the fantasy that women will spread their legs for them ‘just because’.
  3. They don’t understand the true nature of seduction or why men have chosen to use it to awaken desire in women—and, through that, influence and lead them in matters of romance.
  4. They project their own attraction mechanism onto women, assuming that women desire the same things and can be seduced in the same way we are—primarily by looks and physical charm, as you can see below.

Even though it’s possible to bed women relying on your looks and presence alone, that’s not the optimal way—and certainly not universal, since not every guy is a ‘10,’ and most of women are seduced by something far more complex than just appearances - your character and how it affect their psychology (how “you” make them feel).

For that reason, one of the most common sayings among Polish women (considered some of the most beautiful in the world, by the way) is: ‘The one who attracts me with his looks and keeps me with his character.’

In this simple saying, the whole concept of WANTED is revealed—what women truly want when it comes to choosing men.

Therefore, WANTED should focus on improving our looks and aura to help us attract women we are compatible with, making it comfortable and easy for them to initiate. However, it should also focus on our character—the very thing that make women truly want us and keeps them enthralled.

As you probably know, it’s never only about our character but also how it is perceived. For example, you can be a great guy but if people perceive you as a loser you will be treated like one.

It’s no different in seduction, which is all about ‘crafting’ the perception of yourself in your favor. Many people might say it’s dishonest, low, or immoral, but if you look at human behavior, all of us try to shape how others perceive us in one way or another. There’s nothing wrong with that—that’s just how we are.

When it comes to seduction, this is called ‘crafting your persona,’ which means highlighting the qualities of your character that have immense seductive power over her psychology, while minimizing or eliminating those traits she finds repulsive (like talking too much or being too self-absorbed). That’s why empathy is the key to seduction.

All of that is a skill that can be learned. However, many guys find it really difficult and they resort to getting rich or famous in order to have their way.

For this reason I suggested this:

Of course, it would also make seduction much easier and more enjoyable for those who are skilled.

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#553

You are making good points, however a man can be totally wanted and obsessed with by women, without having great looks, a deep character and any seduction skills.

Namely, through the fame mechanic.
Which is a collective perception of someone’s status.

Just watch some videos of Justin Bieber meeting or suprising fans.
All of these girls and women are head over heels into him, without him lifting a finger, doing any seduction or presenting his “super deep character”.
None of these things are needed when the women automatically and by themselves project all the desired traits onto him.
Their perception of him was already switched BEFORE they ever met him.
I believe a WANTED man’s aura could do that as well.
Which is why I am a strong fan of having the mystery aura expanded with a super strong fame aura.

Justin Bieber is already “wanted” by the women long before they ever meet him – these women have decided to change their perception of him BY THEMSELVES, and IN ADVANCE, all because of that fame mechanic.

Now, even if you say that Justin is famous for actually doing something productive (singing and dancing) and that is why he is famous, however all that I mentioned above also applies to guys who are “famous for just being famous”.
Their skill and contribution does not matter.
What matters is the collective perception of the fame status.
Which a WANTED man’s aura totally could do, I believe.

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#554

I think we need to be more specific here, because there are plenty of guys who are famous yet don’t have women going crazy for them like Bieber used to (and maybe still does).

It’s not fame that causes this—fame only amplifies it. What really drives it is being pre-selected. That’s one of the most powerful attraction mechanisms. However, pre-selection alone isn’t enough if you want women to truly want you. They can easily become disenchanted or disappointed if that’s all you bring to the table.

On top of that, pre-selection alone may not only be useless (as I implied above), but also a waste of time—since it often attracts women you aren’t truly compatible with.

I’d agree with adding a touch of pre-selection to the auras, but I wouldn’t make it their core.

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#555

I’m getting all hot and bothered with excitement for New Wanted, hope we get details soon…

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#556

Everything that happens after initiating and approaching is seduction, and it’s a process carried out by both of you—unless she’s totally indifferent and incompatible with you (in which case, I wouldn’t bother).

The thing is, some words and behaviors may be anti-seductive and ruin everything, while others can make seduction smoother, more pleasant, and longer-lasting (meaning her involvement with you lasts longer). For that reason, the seduction part of WANTED is essential.

From what I see, you just want to flip the dynamics (who seduces whom) right off the bat and let her do all the work while you simply facilitate without getting too actively involved. However, even then, you need some skill not to botch it. In other words, you still have to be at least a bit active, too. I think that’s pretty obvious.

In most common seductions, flipping those dynamics (who seduces whom) is gradual and requires time and skill. However, on WANTED, it should be immediate, and I believe it can be—thanks to the very thing I’ve already mentioned twice:

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#557

Problem is most of time you see of women approaching are not really attractive ones or the older ones past their prime, so they do it out of necessity being forced to do it not personal choice.
As my female friend says high value women dont do that as they already have lines of men lined up and can simply pick

#558

Yet they don’t have the WANTED man waiting in line, and that’s the point of running this program. You’re beyond the line—it’s either they try to get you here and now, or they never see you again

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#559

There have been instances of people doing well with wanted black + sex and seduction so maybe having SOME sex and seduction script in new wanted won’t hurt

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#560

I think that NEW WANTED should utilise the information about attachment styles.

Not that it should be able to “heal it with one loop” (unrealistic) but its should utilise attachment styles.

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#561

Remove all envy anger and resentment towards things you want (that others may have)

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#562

It’s important, both for the people we interact with and for our own personal development, to recognize all attachment styles. When we better understand potential partners’ attachment patterns, we gain the ability to identify their emotional needs, predict their behavior, and navigate relationships more effectively. This awareness prevents misunderstandings and helps us respond in ways that build stronger connections.

When we identify an attachment style within ourselves that weakens or limits us, it’s essential to address and heal it. Unhealed attachment patterns can create barriers to forming deep, healthy connections and can hinder our personal growth. By working to transform these detrimental styles, we free ourselves from repeated emotional pitfalls and open the door to more authentic, fulfilling relationships. Healing our attachment wounds not only strengthens how we relate to others but also empowers us to grow into the best version of ourselves

If this concept were used in this title, it could serve as a valuable reminder to both recognize the attachment styles of those we interact with and to actively work on healing our own.

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#563

This whole thing reminds me of a concept I came across recently.

In my own words, ‘people aren’t in love with who you are; they’re in love with their beliefs about you’.

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#564

That sounds like a sub on its own for those who want to tackle this niche thing as I bet many don’t have that kind of issue necessarily

#565

I think similar scripting was part of Khan Stage 1 (Total Breakdown). From the sales page:

Going into Khan v2 ST1, you must have a determination of steel and the wisdom to be able to face all your inner demons, vices and sins – at once.

It is a fierce battle, a battle of exterminating all the weakness, fear, jealousy, envy, laziness, wickedness, victimhood and anything else that is holding you back, that torments you, that limits, usurps and controls the true power hidden within you, the power that is yours by right.

#566

Removing jealousy would be very good for me. Also, I think jealousy can bottleneck manifestation because it implies you don’t have what you want. I could be wrong though.

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#567

I have been perusing my offline journal and checking my experiences with Wanted. I truly noticed the physical shifting, and I enjoyed that. It’s almost like Stark, which almost always makes me appreciate what I see in the mirror.

There’s also some quite blatant IOI’s there which is great.

It has a lot of good which has also been mentioned here, but I also tried to look for the recon I stumbled upon. One of which showed up a few times in my journal is the tendency to be in my head from time to time more than I was when on other stack regulars. Thought I’d share this to add a drop in SC’s data.

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