That’s a common misconception, and if someone enjoys rejecting others, it usually means they have an underlying issue.
Moreover, when women show me interest and invite me to approach them, it doesn’t guarantee that I’ll qualify them. That always depends on the level of compatibility between us.
Most of the time, I can tell whether we’re compatible even without approaching them—even if women don’t realize that we’re not compatible.
For example, last Friday night, I approached a group where one of the girls had caught my wingman’s interest. Both she and her friend had shown me signs of interest before, but I hadn’t approached them at the time because I already knew we weren’t compatible. This time, I did it for my wingman.
However, for some reason, he didn’t want to join us, and both girls quickly picked up on the fact that we weren’t compatible. I made the mistake of trying to keep the interaction going for my wingman’s sake, but it was obvious to them that I was forcing it.
From their perspective, it looked like they rejected me—but what they didn’t know was that I had disqualified them from the beginning. It just goes to show how the whole “rejection game” is more about appearances and perceptions than anything else and holds little real value.
Then I saw that none of the guys around them were actually compatible with them, but some of them kept trying. It was only when one of the girls got really drunk that her ‘white knight’ stepped in to “come to her aid”.
On top of that, as I’ve said before, it’s actually a good thing when a woman disqualifies you—it saves you time almost every time it happens.
It’s also happened to me multiple times that a woman tried to make me feel like I’d been rejected, but I stayed cool and flipped the perception. I made it clear that I agreed—we weren’t compatible—and that usually hurts their ego and triggers a reaction where they try to “win me back” to appease their vanity. It’s all a game of appearances and perceptions, mate, and we really shouldn’t give it too much weight.
Unless it happens to you too often, then the only thing to work on is spotting compatibility and calibrating your approach once you’ve identified it.
Perhaps that aspect—gauging compatibility—could be covered by the scripting as well, even though personally, I don’t need any help with that at all.
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