Make it easier to transition into long term relationship with people you meet on wanted, without having to keep running wanted
Just to clarify, I didnât say I was disgusted. I said that many men would be, based on what Iâve seen and read, especially reactions to books like My Secret Garden, which, by the way, has been discussed on this forum before. A lot of the male responses in that book mirror what I was referring to they were shocked, even disturbed, by some of the womenâs fantasies.
I get that this topic is sensitive, but labeling me a hypocrite felt unfair.I still donât fully understand why that was taken as an attack, but okay. My point wasnât to shame women or deny that men also have intense or dark fantasies. It was to point out how idealized views of women, especially by men, can clash hard with certain uncomfortable realities, and how that shock can create strong emotional reactions. Thatâs not ânonsense.â Itâs human psychology.
Iâm not here to derail the conversation or start drama. I respect the request to move on, but I wanted to explain where I was coming from since my words were misinterpreted and taken out of context.
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@Furkan - as a fellow enthusiast in human nature (including the dark sides of female nature), I would recommend keeping that topic off limit in this forum. Frankly I would even go as far as to advice keeping it off most other forums and social media too unless it is a place where they discuss such topics.
There are two reasons for this:
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Specific to this forum where it is focused on transcending inbuilt behaviors with the power of our subconcious mind, such issues wonât be important but rather you can (consensually) induce such or almost any desire from men and women by using the seduction audios here.
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Most places are heavily moderated by their own set of rules and such topics are of a sensitive nature. Am pretty sure you must have felt it when typing it so next time you feel what you will be posting is of a highly controversial related topic, it would be better to avoid sharing it.
I understand if you might feel this sort of moderation is unnecessary but it would be better to view it as rules of a particular forum you use rather than pushing for absolute free speech.
If the owner of a forum asks you to lay off a topic, it would be a good idea to do so since we are âin his or her house and it is expected of us to follow house rulesâ in such situations.
I hope this provides a different perspective and you can understand it from the view of the forum rather than only an individualistic viewpoint.
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I think @Niles had mentioned being able to discern when and how to turn on/off âWanted modeâ especially for the business professionals among us. I agree too much mysteriousness or being overly hot/cold in the working world seems like a recipe for mistrust, and having scripting to help the Wanted user separate work and play, in order to maintain professionalism, trust, and a strong reputation in their career matters would be fantastic.
Second this!!
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Love this idea
Wanted is built on Myterious. if you bring the book âMy Secret Gardenâ and want Wanted to go in that direction, it will become âfantasiesâ or âcan be darkâ mysterious.
Wanted should stay in neutral mysterious for the manifestation and attraction of girls for long-term and short-term relationships as it states in the description.
If there are users really prefer Wanted to venture into âMy Secret Gardrnâ or â50 Shadesâ, a custom or concious guidance will be the path with Wanted. There are customs for that reason
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I didnât want this or say this, read carefully and donât misinterpret, my reply was about what @Spartan wrote here, and again I donât want this topic to get any longer.
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I think this is more about being able to make them be able to comfortably open up to you, and your ability to sincerely listen in general.
Some of the most depraved people with the wildest fantasies iâve ever met are actually women. They are just as lewd, if not more than men.
About following their fantasies, itâs good to be more open, but i honestly think it should be left to the userâs free will.
Maybe scripting that lets you be more open, but still able to put a firm boundary. Iâm not looking to do sc*t play or so#nding any time soon.
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Man this video hit hard with some things Iâve been going through and seeing unfold in my own relationship. Since running Emperor the past couple months, there has been a significant rise in arguments, mainly due to me holding my ground and not tolerating things that I used to, taking back frame. At the same time as all these arguments, although emotionally exhaustive, I definitely notice attraction coming back into the relationship.
âThe very thing you think will make her love you, obidience, predictablity, availability, becomes the very reason she looses attractionâ.
Really solidified the need for mystery, unpredictability, and the wanted archetype as a whole for me.
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Iâm sorry. All good then, we donât need to keep diverting this thread. There should be ideas and recommendation coming in.
I agree with Invictus here. (BDLM is needed too though 
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My only âoriginalâ idea is that yâall come up with aâŚâprogressiveâ kind of aura. Like, we have the blowjob aura. Iâve seen reference to there one day being one for our dirty job heroes.
This may be more appropriate for a Wanted Black. I would like to see an aura that is sort of like Approachability Aura but more focused in the sense that it encourages women that DO desire you to be vocal about it. She comes to you and confesses her desire. Shares fantasies she may have had or be having about you. And moreover, scripting that not only inspires her to tell you but fulfill that with you.
Itâs early oâclock so forgive me if that doesnât read as clearly as it came to me.
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@Furkan - let me know if you can see this message. Not responding to this post will be considered placing Forum Ambassador on mute.
What this post has to do with me, I donât understand whatâs the point of this message
Guys, Iâm not really big on customs, and I donât know most of the modules since I donât have any myself.
I wouldnât mind exploring the shop, but if any of you who are more experienced in the field have ideas for a list of modules that would be great to integrate into this new project and can briefly explain each of them that would be awesome. Any ideas? 
Please open a new thread on it in the Questions and Comments section after the updated WANTED is released. It will be easier to help then.
It will also not derail this thread.
We have a misunderstanding, I donât mean âNew Wanted + Modules to give it some oomph."
What I mean is: which modules and their concepts would be interesting for the new âWantedâ subliminal currently in production, and could potentially fit well with this new title?
Ah okay gotcha.
Please open a new thread for it then. The point of it derailing this thread still stands.
Also, we still are not sure which ideas will be integrated into the New Wanted hence the custom idea of what New Wanted will be is also not sure.
We can also be sure there will be entirely new scripting which isnât found in any current Cores or modules either.
But if you still would like to make a custom around this idea, absolutely fine to do so. But please open a new thread for it.
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If weâre going to raise this point, letâs broaden it so that itâs more solid and robust:
The contents of the suppressed, hidden, and taboo domains of the human mind are generally going to shock and disturb those who are unfamiliar with them.
The Freudian Unconscious
The Jungian (and post-Jungian) Shadow
They are characterized by this atmosphere of shock, taboo, and the capacity to disturb.
The decision to explore these realms is therefore a serious one. And that exploration should be undertaken with care.
But it is not somehow limited to the narrow or specific subject of womenâs sexual fantasies.
No, you did not say that it was limited. But it could easily be implied if we do not make an explicit acknowledgment.
The contents of the repressed and avoided shadow realms are VAST and cover thousands of themes and subjects. In-group/Out-group membership. Death and fear of death. Sex and sexuality. Gender. Violence. Desire and ambition. The boundaries of the Known and Unknown. And so so many more.
You can fill entire libraries with the contents of these realms. And people have.
But at the end of the day. They are parts of life.
So we avoid them or face them in line with our own choices.
Those of us who are intrepid enough to dive into these deeper realms of the mind are going to have a whole range of encounters and adventures. (And some of them wonât be fragrant.)
Anyway, back to the ongoing quest for sexual fluids.
Letâs all have a nice day.
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Iâm gonna assume this reply is not for me since the @ is not, right?
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My bad bro. It was for Furkan.
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