At its core self worth and material wealth will always be tied into each other. If we, at the most deepest, unconscious level, feel unworthy of living truly on our own terms, this will of course bleed into ones financial situation one way or another.
I’ve dipped very shortly into WB before committing to Khan, and even with 0 base or sense of self, both men and women started gifting me things, trying to earn my approval and presence, searched for ways to pave my way and take real world issues from my shoulders (unasked) , got very physical/uninhibited around me etc.
That was from a couple of microloops, and I wasn’t “taking action” in any way, besides owning that I’m sexy and cool af.
In short, “seduce reality”? Absolutely.
Some wont see the value in let’s say a streamer playing Minecraft, others may want to tip this person bc it provides them some form of comfort, distraction, entertainment etc. Whatever me or you may think about this, for the other person to see the value in that, the streamer has to embody the principle of “I can sit in front of the computer, play this game and get paid for it. You getting access to see me play is worth compensation”
Value is highly subjective, but if we feel undeserving of love, romance and sex unconsciously we’ll always stay stuck in loops of trying to earn and prove.
I’ve seen this on the male side of my family, their sense of self worth was always tied to how much money/security/protection they’ve provided for their women, and the women they attracted mirrored exactly that, they gave them affection to the degree that they provided for, but treated them more like a bank to suck dry rather than a lover/man they can respect and cherish.
I’m not judging this either way, but it’s certainly not what I want or can live for myself.