Lost my mojo, zero results on Wealth sub - Advice?

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#41

@SaintSovereign I’m going to copy you into this as well, as this is the other key question I’m struggling with!

I imagine that you (@Jouissance ), or someone else, might follow up with the question "well what did you do that caused you to slip into that ‘abundant manifesting’ mindset in the first place?

Well, the first time was when I read ‘You Are A Badass’ by Jen Sincero for the 2nd time.
Bear in mind I’ve studied and practised life coaching/self improvement for a very long time, and so such books as these are hardly new to me.
But for some reason, this book at that time just really impacted me.

There were some chapters about letting go of limiting beliefs, about self-love and self-forgiveness (and loving and forgiving others), plus stuff on manifesting, the whole ‘the universe loves you and will give you whatever you need if you are at the right energy/frequency to receive it’ stuff, etc.

As I mentioned, heard most of it before, but at that time, something just seemed to click, and I felt as if a huge weight - that I wasn’t even aware of carrying all my life - just dropped away.

I felt so light and free, so positive, and I think at that time I truly believed that I could and would receive what I needed and desired. And good Lord, I want that feeling back, so much!

Can’t remember what subsequently pushed me out of that mindset and feeling.
But I’ve tried to re-read the book 2 or 3 times since, and just felt flat and got nothing from it.
Strange and frustrating.

And the second time was after joining a life coaching/self improvement programme with a former special forces soldier, discovering SubClub and running Paragon, Dragon Reborn: Limit Destroyer and RICH.

Started taking quite a bit of action on self-improvement (which also is what I’m doing recently again)
Shortly after, I found my online business coach, started working hard daily on building an online business and started manifesting a lot of small successes, wins, and serendipitous meetings or discoveries etc.

Until my landlord gave me 2 month’s notice to move out, totally out of the blue after 10 years, and it all came crashing down and I sank into an unexpected and deep depression that I’ve only recently emerged from.

So that’s the background everyone, lol

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#42

If you’re thinking I think it’s bad to be in an “abundant positive manifestation mindset” with wealth then you obviously don’t know my history with wealth subs.

But also doesn’t seem like you know how you want to manifest wealth. Think And Grow Rich is all about positive abundant manifestation. But it’s also about having a plan and having everything line up perfectly so your plan is a success - and making a plan you’d truly want to follow.

You were looking for subs to address your wealth blocks - based on this combo I’d say mind’s eye will help enhance your manifestation skills and the “visualize your goals + step by step plan to achieve them” scripting will be helpful.

I also think Emperor isn’t something your should shy away from. You have more than enough of a foundation already. Sounds like you’re just procrastinating your wealth success and saying you’re not ready for the period of doing the work

Emperor will help with that and help with wealth foundations and help you synthesize the seemingly disparate beliefs of “manifesting without working like a dog”

You’re the only one here equating “work” with “negativity”

However if you really don’t feel ready for emperor for some reason then the art of war would also help you build those foundations, make a plan, and strategize/execute on that plan.

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#43

Are you open minded to doing some personal exploration to the possibility that this could be a remnant of your scarcity/poverty mindset acting as if it’s a higher-self mindset?

Just be open minded to explore how much of it is or isn’t.

It’s not 100% a poverty mindset but it’s also not a 0% poverty mindset.

Journaling privately and exploring the ways in which you feel your limitations as a wealth generating individual require you to win the lottery would be helpful.

Wealthy individuals don’t ever think about the lottery. People “win the lottery” by working with them because they provide so much value.

In that way, they’re not even working like a dog, because they love being good at what they do, people value and respect them, and they’ve built a life in line with what they want - trading something someone else finds valuable in exchange for a lifestyle they find valuable.

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#44

“Small/flowing manifestations” also would not phase a wealthy person. Who cares about random 5k windfalls here and there compared to a consistent and life-enriching 180k/yr

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#45

If I try to unpack my previous posts a bit more, I suppose there’s two sides to the whole manifesting for me.

One side is about the feeling of positivity, enjoyment of life, joy, peace, security and so on that I experienced whilst being in that special ‘abundance mindset’ state (or whatever state it was).

Another side is that, whilst it feels good to regularly manifest small wins, chance meetings and so on, this in itself is not any kind of wealth strategy and, I feel, should not be relied upon or taken for granted.
Or maybe it should be taken for granted? Perhaps that’s the whole abundant manifesting mindset lol.

And yet another serious factor here is that I think I in fact have a scarcity mindset.
I grew up in a poor family with an abusive father and I’ve carried around a scarcity and poverty mindset, that to this day still plagues me, despite all my growth.

I think you picked up on this in some of your astute observations of my responses.

So for me, my ‘abundant manifesting’ mindset question I suppose boils down to two questions:

  1. How to get back (and retain) that feeling I had, that felt like an abundant manifesting mindset and filled me with positivity (instead of my default negativity), joy, happiness, feeling of purpose, feeling of flow state, of being in the zone, of serendipity, security and peace and lightness (I appreciate that’s a lot of things, some quite different from the others).

  2. And how to overcome scarcity/poverty mindset, get out of my own way, stop thinking too small, stop self-sabotage and allow myself to think and plan my strategies with the mindset of a truly wealthy individual?

#46

Regarding work, I think in that area too, the scarcity mindset has had an insidious influence.
I spent most of my life doing jobs I (mostly) hated, to be able to pay the bills.
Then later when I got CFS/ME, working wasn’t even an option anymore, certainly not in a regular job.

I enjoy trading because it feels like I’m doing something I enjoy, rather than ‘work’ as such (although I’m conscious of the need to very much approach it in a disciplined and professional manner).

I’ve done some work in property/real estate before, and am very much looking forward to working with my friend on HNW buying and selling of high-end properties and the kinds of connections I would be introduced to (and the fact I get to do this with a friend who has very similar values to me and cares about integrity in business).

I’m drawn long-term (to the idea at least) of deal making in property or finance. And soft power and connections. House of Medici stuff :smiley:
Ditto investing.

But I also love writing and music (and would like to learn to be a singer-songwriter).
And I’ve studied and practised life coaching/self development and helped plenty of people (even helping them to change their lives and achieve their dreams) for free, but never professionally (scarcity mindset again there methinks, lol).

And affiliate marketing online is something I find interesting and would be a useful skillset to have, especially if/when I start developing my own products (e.g. eBooks, online courses etc for self-improvement and so on).

Just kind of writing out my thoughts as they occur here. So there you all go lol. :slight_smile:

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#47

How does EOG not give you everything you’re looking for? Especially ST1

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#48

Thanks for the reminder, I guess EoG2 should be lower priority for me and EoG1 higher until more abundance mindset appears.
I have ran through some difficulties while also having success, but reflecting on what @Jouissance said, I am also lacking abundance mindset.

Thanks to both of you, one for bringing up the topic and one for pointing out a possible solution.

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