I would add a 4th reason for changing subs.
Like a guy that desires nothing more than a harem and listens to WB for that reason. But realises a few cycles in, that this was just his response to not being loved and wanting to numb the pain with cheap sex.
I’ve got to understanding that recon may be not the dynamics between the scripting and the subconscious mind but the dynamics between the conscious and subconscious minds, where the scripting is only a doorway between both.
Our Zero Point may be not our ego but our alter ego (aka shadow). That scarcely known and suppressed part of me we gravitate towards yet almost always stay away from.
I’m working on connecting with it (my alter ego) by letting go of my conscious self and embracing the unconscious one. It’s not about letting go of the whole awareness (is it even possible?) but letting go of everything but the basic common sense and essential perceptual awareness. It’s about embracing my unconscious self (the impulses from the “depths”) and living it, yet without succumbing to its darkest impulses.
All of it requires a great amount of introspection at first, in order to get in touch with your alter ego, yet, later on, it gets narrowed to a kind of meditation/concentration/focus on a mental representation of your alter ego. That representation can be an image, emotion, or abstract idea (it probably can take more mental forms).
That constant internal focus on the created mental representation of your alter ego silences ego, and all its chatter that distracts your inner focus on connecting with your alter ego. I found that this chatter is what causes the most recon in me, and the most severe one. Once I’ve silenced it, I bask in the cool glow of my alter ego.
The stronger bond between us (me and my alter ego), the more I get aligned with who I truly am. The movement towards that divine union makes me more complete, more alive and stronger. Is it the way Beyond Divinity?
Thanks to Limitless I’m way less distracted by “redundant” thoughts and that helps me not only focus on what matters the most but also bridges the subconscious and conscious on new levels.
Another thing is I’m becoming more aware of my capabilities and my self-introspection has got nicely boosted.
I was asked if I had been a model in the past. It seems to me that my hair is getting better.
Primal has made me more… primal when it comes to attracting women and having fun with them. It truly helps you “embody the wisdom of one who has known the company of a thousand high-quality women”. Attracting and connecting with women instantly is becoming my second nature since Primal has unlocked that innate ability of mine that used to be suppressed by overanalyzing and self-doubt.
I’ve had some experiences that helped me adapt to a new reality and shifted important parts of my modus operandi (my fixed set of adaptative responses to circumstances/experiencs), minimising the recon and boosting my results by the sheer power of getting me more aligned with the kind of adaptative changes the subs encourage me to embody. Thanks to that the further adaptative changes are going to occur smoother and more profound, I intuit. The adaptative snowball effect.
It may be that recon is not about new beliefs challenging the old and getting reconciled but about adapting to the new reality and shifting your default modus operandi which may get rough as the old adaptative patterns are being reframed and that causes all those symptoms ascribed to what we call recon as adaption usually implicates some amount of stressors.
Upon the new adaptative responses (psychological, voluntary and behavioural responses) to my circumstances and experiences, my modus operandi has shifted a lot, and those responses occurred due to specific experiences targeted by scripting. What’s interesting is that I didn’t need much of it to experience that significant shift.
Even a small amount of action aiding those adaptative changes suffices to make them happen, reframing our modus operandi that is our set of adaptative responses.
Great Journal from what I’ve read.
I’m not clear if you are in a relationship or not currently, but if you are in a position to be with new/multiple women, how do you find Primal for escalating and getting sexual based on the ease of your connection?
Initiating is like breathing. I just genuinelly compliment a RESPONSIVE woman on her looks and start from there.
It’s a breeze. Given we’re in an intimate/private setting, I put a woman (even if I’ve just met her) at ease within initial 5 minutes and escalate physically very quickly, leading to closing the deal swiftly.
Moreover, I’m much better in bed, more primal (biting her neck and ears when fucking her, for example) and intuitive (choosing “effective” positions) giving women far more pleasure, leaving them craving for more. Multiple orgasms and whole night fucking guaranteed (I’m 41).
I find that those experiences are essential for growing as a Primal man as I can clearly see they shift my modus operandi the most.
I’m sure there are key experiences to each sub that reshape your adaptative patterns (emotional, voluntary and behavioural responses to circumstances/experiences) the most. You just need to expose yourself to those experiences and see the magic happen, following your GUT.
We need to mind that our current modus operandi (our individual set of the aforementioned responses) can get in our way due to stressors involved (aka recon), and we need to mitigate them. Usually, getting out of your head and following your intuition/gut solves that.
Agreed. That second picture is already a success story.
We’re going to see where LotS is going to take it. So far I see that my hair has improved more in 4 weeks of running LotS than in almost two years of using Minoxidil (5%).
Love it,
I’m very drawn to Primal for its freedom and masculinity elements. And seduction without focusing on seduction, so to speak. Aside from the stepping stones, was there a reason you chose Primal over PS in particular?
Also, do you find woman more RESPONSIVE on Primal, especially the woman you are attracted to. I find for Khan and Wanted Black that is very often the case. Khan more consistently.
Are you still using Minoxidil alongisde Lots?
That was one of the reasons. On top of that, I wanted to improve my social confidence and grace. Also, build up my natural authority and charm. Primal is doing a great job in those aspects as well. Moreover, I love that inner cool whilst on the outside you are all fun if you choose to be so. I deem Primal the most essential sub (more than Ascension even).
Yes, women with “natural energy” are more responsive and that’s the type I love best as I’m myself a “natural seducer”.
The lowest dose possible once a day, and I’ll be giving up on it soon. I’m going to introduce D3 and K2 instead.
Thanks to Limitless my memory has improved significantly. I can easily remember short passages of text word by word after reading then once or twice.
Another thing is Limitless has deepened my introspection skills and I got an insight that reconciliation is a state when certain adaptive patterns (psychological, volitive and behavioral) are overstimulated and that causes minor to major disadaptive issues, which are temporary, naturally. They can be placated by being exposed to stimuli that triggers those overstimulated patterns where the outcome/experience is positive and reinforces the adaptive changes which are occurring.
That overstimulation is caused by overexposure that is not necessarily instant (due to one listening) but may build up gradually. I found that being isolated for a while helps with that overstimulation a lot. I suspect that meditation or some techniques that calm senses could be useful in dealing with it as well.
Primal is just excellent for “primal” seduction where no “sophisticated” and complex seduction is required. It’s just about following your gut and the flow when interacting with ladies. Women are mad for you just because of the pure authenticity of your real self, genuine interest in them and treating and leading them gently yet firmly.
They get mind-blowing sex each time and always crave for more. When having sex they want to take you in whole and they even whisper they love you even though you’ve just met them. They feel with all their being that there’s no other guy like you and that you’re a high-quality male and that “it’s an honor to be graced by your presence”.
My dear, just following the flow is all it takes for the “magic” to happen.
The amount of “healing” (my sexuality and masculinity) I’m getting is just great.
Alright, I’ve embraced the natural seduction style Primal unlocks in you and getting physical with ladies is like breathing. Now it’s time to rise my aesthetical standards. Those related to the level that ladies present is more or less in place.
When it comes to sex, I reached the point where woman gets several orgasms and her sexual cravings are satiated. I’m like a sexual pleasure machine.
On the social side, I’m relaxed most of the time, and even amused by social going-ons from time to time.
My social empathy and intuition have got boosted really nicely.
Two days ago I was told by a young lady that I looked 27 y.o. (I’m 41) and like a movie star. Niceyyy.
Do you mean women you’re more attracted to and/or conventionally attractive?
I know there is natural femininity that comes out in certain women. Where as sometimes, more Western or conventionally attractive women don’t seem to have that on the surface. It’s more social/sexual power facade.
I found on Khan and Emperor to break that down and have those woman become much more feminine and ‘natural’. Curious how primal impacts that.
The latter. More aesthetically pleasing, nicer to look at. It’s just my whim as I’m an aesthete. Personally, I prefer chubby and curvy women, with that natural energy you mentioned. I don’t prefer “sophisticated” women so far.
You being natural (and even more so on Primal) make women feel really comfortable and unrestrained sexually. I mean, I take off my clothes without blinking an eye, and that encourages them to do the same. Then the sex opens them up even more. It opens them up more not only sexually but also psychologically, they become more authentic, more themselves.
I can see how much they enjoy my company, knowing that I’m a beautiful pearl amidst ordinary pebbles.
I bed Asian women only as I prefer them greatly. However, I may try with Western women just for the sake of experimentation.
Primal is an amazing social sub. My social skills and ability to build up my reputation at my workplace has improved immensely. It manifests perfect social situations for me, and it really feels as if I was “in the hands of God”…
Apart from that, Primal connects me with the primal side of me. The side of me that is darker, colder… more dear to my heart.
It’s the most “lethal” social sub I’ve ever run since it makes you the perfect courtier. You put people under your spell like a master enchanter and that paves the way for your darker impulses to manifest and get by as socially accepted and even welcomed since they’re coated with your impeccable charm. I cannot describe it any better than that.
This work has been done by Primal masterfully, although I can tell it’s still being worked on:
In the original Primal, the essence was to break free from the chains that bind you, to liberate your spirit from the shackles of convention and restraint.
It’s about standing, unshackled and sovereign, in a world where you dictate the terms, free from the pervasive influence of others.
(…) unfiltered freedom to be your most authentic self, socially and sexually (…).
(…) casting aside the shadows of doubt and fear, erasing the anxieties and over-analytical whispers that once clouded your path.
There is also a lot of shadow work being done by Primal, which is expressed on the sales page here:
You will delve into the depths of your being, discovering and resonating with the most authentic version of yourself (…).
On another note, slight recon hitting me from time to time tries to dissuade me from walking this path, yet I can’t help going back on it as that’s MY path and there’s no else.
May I ask if you are in a relationship?
My hair is definitely getting better and I wonder if the complete regrowth is possible on LotS. I’m going to see since I’m planning to run the sub for at least one year, so for the next 11 months at least.
Next week I’ll be adding to my routine (running) workouts at the gym thrice a week to burn more fat and define my body.
Another thing is that I’ve taken better care of my diet, although I know it’s still not optimal as it contains cooked vegetables and too much rice and spice. However, implementing an optimal diet would require more money, time and effort. It’s going to stay under my consideration, however.
When it comes to Primal, the best feel of how it’s affecting me currently is expressed here:
Limitless is definitely helping me learn Thai, and especially the tones which was my main struggle.