How masculine is stark compered to khan, emperor, glm etc?
Im asking becasue im having a hard time keeping my masculine frame with my gf, unlike at the start of the relationship.
I feel like she is turning me into less of a man, more emotional and easier to bend, so it the end it goes her way.
At the start of the relationship it was my way or no way, now its harder.
Saint’s thoughts
While Stark may not inherently exude a masculine edge, it possesses the potential to amplify that dimension. Its charisma factor is nothing short of remarkable. Incorporating the ‘commander’ will give it that fire.
In my experience Emperor and Stark are two completely different archetypes, and unless they’re being run in tandem, you’ll be able to energetically sense the difference.
On Emperor, I was very firm in my frame and defending it, as well as focused on building my own future.
Stark as the objectives page states involves bringing out the genius in others. I remember in the original copy it focused on that more, like how a leader might try to mould those under him/her to become the best version of themselves to work for their company. The best example of that I can think of would be Jean Luc Picard and Starfleet.
So Emperor has more of a self empowerment and empire driven character, while for the Stark the network is more key and there is more emphasis on improving others, due to the philanthropic aspect. Emperor has more of a status aura, whereas in Stark it is described as magnetic and attractive.
Each is going to produce different results depending on what your base level of assertiveness is. If you’re concerned about losing your frame, adding something into the stack with a more iron frame that offsets that would be the way to go.
Perfect observation, and so true.
Something like glm maybe?
I was actually just thinking as well that another alternative would be one with a strong persuasive frame like WB, which could be more in line with Stark’s archetype. But I have to admit GLMC was my first thought.
I’d try a 30-second microloop of Emperor right after your normal Stark loop. See how the overall vibe differs.
If you don’t mind sharing, what kind of stuff has she done?
I only ask because a masculine frame isn’t gonna help stop a manipulative person. But it’s hard to gauge that from a few sentences about a relationship.
I will tell uou what happaned right after i wrote this post, i said to myself “thats it stop being a wimp, be a man” she told me that a male friend which i dont allow her to speak to sent her a messege and she asked “what should i reply” and i said “dont reply” so she said “but its not nice” and i was about to say “what if i was talking with other woman” but than i was thinking to myself “be a man, dont argue” so i saod “i dont care if its not nice and i dont care if he will he insulted, i dont need to explain myself 1000 times we already talked about this and you know what i think about this”
So in this instant i held my frame very well, but the last few weeks i was always falling into her emotional frame and giving in.
I will probably replace pcc for wb at the end of the year.
Currently my view of Stark leans more towards the conclusion that this sub is for the most advanced users when it comes to the level of personal growth and the quality of their reality. For three years I would think it’s a nice product to cover all the main aspects of our life, therefore, great for beginners. But now… no, I was really wrong. Stark is for people with solid inner and outer foundations.
That may be the reason why your psyche seems to be unable to cope with the “archetype” Stark is trying to instill in you. The core of this archetype is absolute confidence and faith in your vision and your capability to make it true. Are you ready to embrace it at your current level of development and within your current reality? Ask yourself.
Thats very deep insight, thanks a lot.
I dont know if im ready or not, but we cant always wait for until we are ready.
Sometimes we gotta start even if we are not ready, stark will take care of everything that needs to be taken care of.
With long enough time of running it i will become the stark.
I don’t own Stark. I haven’t run it before.
Relationships should be give and take. All that crap of your way or the high way is just nonsense. If she has things her way so what?
Find a way to speak your needs to her. Find a way to tell her about your side of things. For me that masculine. You are not less Masculine if she has her way.
At the beginning of my journey with SC I stacked Emperor with Stark. It was a period of fast self growth and development of my network. It was very potent. Now I use only Stark, Emperor has too much sexual aspects that I don’t need
I believe that the man should be in charge and make the decisions.
Doesnt mean i dont listen to what she wants, but i will decide what we do, not in a controlling manner but in a leading manner.
Hey there. Just some thoughts. But tell me to fuck off if you want.
Catch her attention with a playful charm. Banter and make her laugh, showcasing your unique qualities.
Be genuine in compliments and create unforgettable experiences together.
But remember to use your wisdom, focus on being the best version of yourself instead of controlling her choices.
Show confidence and charisma while satisfying her desires like none other.
Give her some wild fun, buddy. Explore your playful side and ignite the passion in bed. Tease her, please her, and make her scream your name.
The pleasure she’ll feel will erase any memory of that fucking guy from her mind. Trust me on this one.
Sexual tension builds desire, ignites passion, and creates a strong emotional bond.
It’s about teasing, anticipation, and exploring each other’s fantasies.
By satisfying her sexual desires with dominance and pleasure, you establish trust and intimacy.
That’s how you make her forget anyone else ever existed.
Thanks a lot for the advice, i do some of those things but sometimes i forget aboyt them, thanks for reminding me.
Lately i have been distant from her, less joking less banter and less being goofy.
I dont know why.
Is that what she wants though? Everyone is different. Not every woman wants that kind of relationship.
