Skipping instead of walking lol.
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Better blood flow. Promotes growth.
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Here are some tips to grow taller
- Go to the gym and hang from the bar for a minute everyday
- Are you getting plenty of rest ? you need at least 8 hours sleep
- Start working on a more regimental diet (with calcium and magnesium)
- Exercise regularly at the gym 2 to 3 x a week
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Just continue to work on yourself with these subliminals and you will see this little voice in your head slowly disappearing. The thing is that the “competition” is so low on average today, so if you just develop a strong and healthy masculine base you are easily in the top part of the most attractive men out there. Then you will start to notice that you start caring less about it to the point that you don’t really care anymore. Funny how it works, just look at a natural, he’s totally normal about it and it just happens for him, no biggie…
Also, be careful about the most of the PUA-models. They often tell you that height is so important, but they fail to address the underlying problem why you feel inferior from the start. It’s like putting a plaster on a gunshot wound. Instead you have throngs of wounded men running around trying to find more happy pills to swallow.
I have a history back in the days where this made me borderline neurotic and my mind went totally out of control until I realized the stupidity of it. I actually came across a post yesterday that was oldschool PUA, and I just shuckled to myself how bad and immature it looked. That’s just how far I’ve gotten past that old voice in my head, which I relaized was not my voice after all.
I see it something like this, and it applies to things in general:
When you are traumatized and made believe an ideal, a way the mainstream says you should be like, then those little voices inside of your head starts spinning with negative beliefs because you were taught to fit in, not being a unique individual.
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You have a low self-esteem, and you believe that you must be rich, tall, and handsome to have any chance to be with a hot women. Now your mind looks for signs and cues to confirm this being true (confirmation bias). And as it goes, when you direct your mind to look for something, you will find it.
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You’re in the middle somewhere of men, and you have an average self-esteem. These ideal affects you, but not to the point where it becomes obsessive. You have the belief that it would be “nice” to be taller and more handsome, but you are glad it’s not that bad at least, and you have some success with women and it’s okay. You instead turn on your PS5 and play some Owerwatch to kill some time
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You’re a man with high self-esteem that has done the work on yourself. This thing about height and status does not even cross your mind anymore, you couldn’t care any less about it. But this peculior thing keep happening to you all the time, that wherever you go, women wink at you and give you all differnent sign of interest. They just won’t leave you alone, and for some reason most other men keep telling you that you are so lucky! You shuckle to yourself and go to the gym to lift some serious weights…
Looking at these 3, one should be glad if one is in the first one. Because that is usually intolerable and it makes people actually change, they can’t take it anymore. That’s why most won’t change their ways, because they are getting along. So be happy that you are upset, it’s a great way to change things in your life.
At the bottom everything is seen as a competition because of a belief in scarcity. If we as people would generally be less tramatized and learn healthy values, there wouldn’t hardly be any problems. So called high status people are not that concerned that other high status people will come and steal their place, instead they embrace others, because they have an abundance mindset.
Be careful what you put into your mind, because your mind will accept anything you put there. Once it is accepted into a belief it will be a driving force of your perceived reality. Believe that you need height, looks, money, status… and this will be true for you, but the opposite is also true.
I have no idea where I’m going with this post, it’s still early here and I’m just going on a rant 
Oh well…
Ohh, just want to add that I’m somewhere in the range of 5.5 and 5.50001 
And I was born in northern Europe. Funny thing about it is that before PUA, I never thought about height being that much of a disadvantage in dating 
Haha
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That Whole Post Is Gold.
…and bookmarked.
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Also, just to give some perspective. I have played lacrosse for over 20 years of my life, and most defenders are very big generally. I used to drive them crazy with my low center of gravity and quickness, and I ran circles around them mostly. You just have to find what works for you, it’s all about how you perceive things. If I would by 6.5 and look like a model how fun would that be? I mean come on, are you one that always play your computer games on the easiest mode?
This got me thinking of a Swedish handball player back in the late 90’s and early 2000 called Ljugomir Vranjes. He was so different and something really unique in the top handball. He was around 5.6 or something, but he was nearly impossible to catch because of his low center of gravity and fearlessness in his game.
Just imagine being that defender and having to defend this 
I remember him in a final on a penalty actually lobbing the keeper 
Talk about balls 
He’s an excellent example of how using what you got to the extreme, and he became one of the best player’s in the world. This is how I played lacrosse and used my size to my advantage. I remember the first championship I played with Sweden in lacrosse, where our three starting defenders were all around 6.5 feet tall The other teams were like “Wtf!” But to me who played all the time against these dudes, I loved it because they had to bend soooooo much even to get to my level.
The worst defenders for me were the guys at the same height at me, because they could tackle me shoulder to shoulder.
So in the end, you’ll going have your hands full trying to master the body you already got in this lifetime, so why dream about the next body already 
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I did not know that Sweden is into lacrosse.
I thought that this is played more in the US.
But anyways great example.
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This is not exactly the same case but reminded me of this funny sketch.
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I did not even know what the sport was until I was 15 and they exhibitioned it at my school. But yeah it’s not very big in Sweden, so I went all around Europe to play it more during the season.
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@Billions @Tobyone I want to thank you all for your kind comments. I woke up today and it has made my day. I want to make it an imperative to talk to girls from now on starting my second semester of college. This winter break will give me time to rest and recollect who I am.
I go in between 1 and 3 sometimes. Enough to get attention from girls, but the little voice in my head to terrorizing to actually approach and do something. I have passed a whole college class of 16 girls just because of my anxiety. I am good looking and am very fit. My mother used to be a commercial model, and my dad’s brother used to model for Georgio Armani. I’ve had girls say I look like famous actors or tiktokers. Or that I’m “beautiful” A girl once asked if I was a model
Even when girls show deliberate interest I have never gone to do anything because of it.
My mother is a narcissist. She’s been comparing me to others and has even abused me physically. The modeling industry and Hollywood in general is very predatory. I am sure she experienced things she would not tell anyone, and she’s pushing the opinions of the people who made her feel small back onto me. I do not believe she deserves sympathy for abusing a child and making him lose opportunities his entire life just because she hasn’t done her own self work. It is harder because she was the same towards my father, and partly was responsible for his death in 2020 because of cancer. It is hard when I see this person everyday and they react violently negative if I don’t respond. And it is hard to see someone so self loathing that they told their son they want to kill themselves if I ever said anything bad about them, ever. This is in addition to saying other parents absolutely do abuse their kids verbally and physically, and they would stop letting their kids see me if I said anything about it, ever.
It’s affected my relationships with women terribly also because each time I find interest in a girl, I remember the abuse my mom put me through, and become sexually and emotionally inept.
I don’t want to sound flamboyant or larger than life. I read about how some of the best looking people can have the worst self esteem, too. I always read that as crazy because how can someone not look in the mirror and see they were absolutely beautiful? I thought that while girls were completely in love with me, while in an abusive household, and thinking I was completely average. I cannot believe in the irony.
What are your guy’s experience with finances? How much of a starting income to move out, and how much saved up? I have 10.5K in assets saved up, and have no starting income. Any tips for making it out on your own? I’m all new to this an 19 years old.
@Present1 How big is big? I don’t mean to be tmi, I just want to get a general view of it. I’m 6 inches currently, but I’ve measured unto 6.5/7
With all of you guys saying being tall has its downsides, I think I’m beginning to understand in terms of d*ck size, also. At times, it’s difficult to keep it in my boxers. I have to spread my legs very wide, and it is also really difficult to run at times. Prolonged walking gives me pain in that region
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The ‘average’ size is 5.5 as per Google, you good… no homo 
. Anyways, there are things we cannot change but change what you can like for instance your penis size, it might take your mind of what you cannot.
Airplane seats aren’t meant for anyone over the age of 8.
In college, I had a friend from Japan. She told me one day that one of the funniest things about the United States was how much taller the door frames were than in Japan.
If you can’t put this kind of nonsense on mute, just think of how people sound when they inhale helium and try to talk. I find listening to nonsense and irrelevant drivel is much more pleasant with that Mickey Mouse type helium voice.
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It would be awesome if I could magically turn into a kid when it was time to travel; not only would I fit in the seat better, I seem to recall travel being much more of an adventure than I do now. 
It really hit me (pun intended?) in the subways… they look the same as the ones here, but the ceiling handrails are about 6" lower, so I smacked right into them several times… 
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Write in a journal every day that you are 6’. Write it in the present tense like this:
“I am six-feet tall”
If that feels unbelievable to you, then Write something more general like:
“I am tall.” Or “I am taller today.”
Pretty much, what you want to do, is keep writing this affirmation until you find a particular sentence that feels good to write and doesn’t make your mind go crazy. For example, if I write down “I’m 6’5” my mind goes nuts, it’s like are you insane? No you’re not. This reaction from the mind is what you’re trying to avoid. The affirmation needs to feel good and not trigger resistance from the mind.
Do that every single day. Start working out twice a week. Start eating a very healthy diet with plenty of nutrients. Get plenty of sleep. Stay on Wanted and Emp if it’s making you feel good. Finally, stop worrying about height. Don’t ask how long it’s going to take. Don’t measure yourself. Stop thinking about your height. Just let it go.
If it’s possible for you to grow, you WILL grow. But you don’t need to DO anything else. Your body knows how to grow. If your body knows you want it and you let your body work, you will grow.
The last thing I will say is this: if you can grow taller, then you’ll grow the second you stop feeling like you need to grow. That’s just the nature of reconciliation and resistance with the subconscious.
P.S.
Just like other people have said, you can find STUNNING women as a short guy. Height hardly matters in the grander scheme of things. I’ve always dated girls as tall or taller than me and I’ve never dated a girl less attractive than a 7 (I don’t think about women that way, but maybe it helps you to visualize). It really is all about what’s inside that counts.
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Note: (this is all my opinion lol)
Yeah… that’s more of what I was looking for. There’s a reason why I asked specifically like that.
Anyways, none of that shit is normal (at all) and you’re clearly traumatized.
I’m not going to attempt to convince you to accept yourself by feeding you rationalizations on why it’s “okay” to have the height that you have, nor am I going to downplay the perceived “advantages” of being tall in order to make you feel better about yourself.
Your issue is what 99% of people living in today’s traumatized society do, which is making your self-love and self-worth dependent on the external. This is a form of disempowerment and makes you easy to control.
Your desire for height is being fueled by a fear of wanting to fit in with society’s ideals and you’re using it to make up for internal trauma (you lack self-love and self-worth). You’re also using it to make up for a lack of internal power. Until you address those things, you will never gain the height that you desire. This is why some people can’t manifest height increase, it’s because their subconscious beliefs are literally blocking it… or more aptly put, they aren’t aligned with it. You also have to believe that it’s possible.
And yes, it’s possible.
Anything is possible.
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Big pp saves lives no joke 
. In the height (excuse the pun) of my emotional,mental,spiritual and physical turmoil with repetitive suicidal thoughts i thought well if i die now i might get a small pp in the next lifetime its not worth the risk… Gotta live and honor the big pp for God
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