Oh I now see where the problem lies.
There is a common misunderstanding about this IMO (I might be wrong, but this is what I experienced)
Primal is INNER Game. It makes you radiate these things outward. THe primal sexual beast. But the approach still is an ACTION YOU do.
The fact you NEED an EXTERNAL FORCE getting you to do things, tells me that something internally is not healed. Meaning Primal probably already worked through some internal things, but then going with PS just made you notice that more, because it is a bit more externally based.
Long story short: Do whatever works for you I just meant switching subs might be recon by trying to avoid the necessary inner healing.
AND, the biggest driving force of push/urge is within yourself. The sub will work ON THAT. Otherwise you would forever need to run a sub just to escalate sexually. That’s not helpful