Did you get your questions answered?
What is your plan for the next 30 days?
you’re being a hypocrite here…!!
you WANT love but you dont want to give love.
part of building towards is communication, fuck her merciliessly, but also pillow talk!
I know from my extensive use of Sedona Method that as I work on myself and free myself up, I’ve gotten in to some high places and I’d go interact with people from that place and get rejected. It seems to be that it doesn’t fit their reality, and that level of freedom and/or clarity is a threat to their identifications to their realities. I’ve been in a good mood maybe I just read a sales book or some motivational thing and I’d go talk to people and they’d be blown away and wouldn’t talk to me and would even avoid me in future instances. So I’ve also learned the having less to say thing can work wonders. People have thrown me compliments when I’m not looking for them or doing the outward behaviors that I thought I needed. If you have your internal right sometimes having the external is just overkill to the average person who’s not living the life they want. So I’ve learned that maybe it’s not always best to express outwardly and just enjoy inwardly that freedom and clarity because it can be disturbing to others struggles and attachments.
I’ve always stuck to doing work on myself, if I’m triggered and no matter how tempting it is to “fight back” the real fight is in my own consciousness. It’s like I can do what everybody else does and contribute to the status quo or I can continue on my path of rising consciousness and freedom and as I continue those “dark” times do pass. Just take it as it comes and as you’ve already seen, insights will come and things will always get clearer as you progress.
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Its not pride, its ego.
Your ego.
You will now get angry and defensive.
I can’t help that but hopefully one of the lurkers will find this snippet of information useful.
I already said it was ego. You saying whatever wouldn’t make me angry but following it up with “You will now get angry and defensive” will surely irritate someone sane.
Sounds like you’re self righteous.
Hi @Mourn!
I see you’ve met @remarkable.
He can have a confrontational style, and yes people have a tendency to respond in an angry or defensive manner to some of his comments.
I think he has changed a few minds for the better.
He’s mellowed out compared to about 6 months ago.
If you find something useful in his post, use it. If not, just move along.
If you want any input on business, you might want to tag him, @Simon, and @Hoppa. Maybe you’ll find parts of it useful. Remember, you have to decide if you want to apply what someone posts to you. Otherwise, you can ignore it.
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Well, sure. But just because someone is known for pissing on people’s lawn doesn’t mean you’re going to let him go when he decides to piss on yours too.
Your ego got in the way.
Again.
And when you temporarily hid your replies that was YOU getting angry and defensive just as I stated you would.
After all, you did get angry and defensive.
You could continue to think thats me being self righteous
Or you could conclude that its me being right and therefore you can use this as a learning experience.
Which one will you do?
And which one leads to more growth?
Perhaps you should ask yourself how I knew that you would get angry and defensive?
Also, do you know why I directly quote what I am replying to?
Its because I find it easy to see if the person I’m replying to has changed or deleted anything, like you did.
Why do you think you are sane?
@remarkable Someone like you could never make me delete anything.
@Beowulf I have found support to be extremely inconsistent, to almost troll-like levels.
Anyway, yeah, so, basically what happened was that Khan really changed me into a dominant “take no shit” from anyone attitude and my dad tried his hardest to ‘put me back in my place’ per-say, and that caused me to be always super drained because supposedly I was going against Khan’s scripting by trying to be humble. But I learned my lesson, and the lesson was to stay calm under pressure and not get angry, if I stay calm, it doesn’t matter HOW much they protest; I’ll come out victorious. I’ll have MY way SOMEHOW.
I’m going to hard commit to Khan. Though sometimes, I wonder how “broad” Khan is versus something like Emperor. Sure, Khan is more dominant than Emperor, as it has the dominance scripting turned to max, but just how broad is it? On Emperor you build empires. And on Khan… you bring empires to their knees as is advertised on its page, sounds beautiful but is that a big focus in Khan or just “something to say”, I’m not saying it’s a market gimmick, what I’m saying is if it’s really a focal point of Khan, as is building Empires is of Emperor?
Does Khan truly have the potential to turn you into Genghis Khan or is it JUST geared towards making you a super dominant male? This is my question. @Fire @SaintSovereign
Post number 23 of this thread is a reply from me where I direct quoted you.
The direct quote no longer exists which is checkable by highlighting the little downward arrow which gives a little bin icon.
You DID delete a post AFTER I pointed out it was your ego and not pride.
So, if it wasn’t my response that made you delete it explain why you deleted the post?
However, when you say;
We all understand why you deleted your post.
Your ego got in the way because you are new to the feeling of becoming more dominant, you over compensated because your ego got in the way.
So when I said it wasn’t pride but your ego I was right, twice.
Ok, why did this happen?
What it boils down to is that you haven’t thought about these things to any extent.
There are other posters here who want a Cassanova stack or a Great Gatsby stack which show the same phenomena and no I will not except that these are just archetypes as the reality is that the use of these is merely sloppy thinking.
The reality is that the dashing ladies man was a degenerate who once beat a prostitute (to death) so as not to have to pay her, who preyed on poor families to have sex with their 13 year old daughter and who was buggered by his Turkish friend whilst watching someone else getting raped. These and other salacious details are all available from his copious diaries but I guess nobody wants to do the actual work and read them. But to be fair, the diaries are badly written and tedious and include the sex offenders mantra that the 13 year old was gagging for it and grateful to him etc.
The glittering rich man trope is only a criminal with oneitis, hardly something to aspire to. The book overplays the use of the narrator character and hardly offers anything new to the social commentary of the nature of that era.
But no, thinking is hard, isn’t it.
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I’m not reading that. If it isn’t already blatantly obvious you are very rude and it’s really overbearing. I don’t care what you have to say.
A good rule of thumb is that all forums have 90% lurkers to 10% posters.
I am not writing for you benefit.
Even though you would benefit if you did read it and also thought about it.
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Not reading it.
Welcome to the forum!
Regarding @remarkable. (I’m talking here in general, not about you @Mourn)
There is a lot of wisdom in many of his posts.
Yes, I know his style of writing might many times feel like an attack against you.
In my honest opinion, it’s a blessing in disguise.
Part of the so called Alphaness everyone seems to be searching here on the forum, is non-reactiveness. If you have your shit together, you will just shrug your shoulders when you read the “offensive” parts, because those parts should not be able to affect you. At all. If you are affected by those parts, you still have to build a better foundation.
It’s kind of a milestone on your way to being an Alpha.
So, read his posts and find the wisdom in them. It will help you reach your goals.
Also tagging @pacman as you have been asking a lot about the Alpha topic.
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No. He’s annoying.
His message has no substance to it. Mere assumptious passive aggression guised as “helpful advice”; what it really is, is him trying to get you to eat out of his hand.
His “advice” is littered with banal PUA truisms.
You might very well be correct. I’m not familiar with PUA.
Still, the part I mentioned about non-reactiveness holds true.
Why not just ignore him, if he is annoying? Is there any reason to react to some random dude on some forum giving “helpful advice”?
If you do not see any value in his posts, just skip them.
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This is something I don’t mind discussing. (Talking about the reactivity thing)
But IRL I’m perfectly calm, merely pointing out his clear blatant disrespect.
This is something that energizes me.
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Yeah, it’s a bit difficult to gauge the real reactions over text, without seeing the real reaction.
Glad I cleared it up.