@mecharc apologies i was making fun and it was not warranted. It was a knee jerk reaction. Hope yoh get to the bottom of this issue.
Ql might help a bit especially in the rewiring of your brain to hows its meant to be. But I’m thinking its mostly a sexual stuff if that be the case maybe khan, diamond, sexual mastery e. t.c could as well help. I’m talking based on personal experience.
Congratulations mech. Happy for you. 
Hope the business is doing well too.
Does a handjob from the wife work for you?
Because if it does, then you may be dealing with the death grip & moistness issue.
(Your penis is accustomed to a level of pressure & roughness – significantly higher than a vagina provides.)
If you completely stop rubbing it with your own hands, this should fix itself over a few weeks.
(Note: Let go of the pressure to reach orgasm/ejaculation. Just be present to sensing the pleasure.)
Beyond that, I don’t know. Talk to a local sexologist.
Until then, stack up Sex Mastery for both of ya… so your technique satisfies her immensely.
And maybe … her technique will accelerate your access to full body pleasure as well.
(SMX also contains scripts for sexual healing.)
Best wishes to the young couple. 
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Holy shit!!! Thanks for this insight man!
Oh really!! That’s interesting!!
Thanks a bunch stack guru!
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Strong Erections
Great orgasm’s at the other end
But still not the slightest sensation for my little friend and consequently no orgasm for me
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This. Patience. Self-acceptance regardless of the outcome.
It can be very easy to want to “fix” the issue of a sexual dysfunction and convince yourself that only that can make you happy. But that’s a lot of psychological pressure… which normally is good… except that psychological pressure is a massive part of what makes mini-mech malfunction.
I had/have intense bouts of PE and I used to think that the only way to have satisfying sex would have been to last longer in bed.
Maybe this metaphor is different for you because your issue is DIRECTLY pleasure/sensation… but the principle still applies.
For me, I didn’t ever fix my PE until I reframed the issue.
Instead of thinking about how to last longer, I started thinking about how to enjoy the sex I’m already having MORE, considering the circumstances, without trying to change the circumstances.
How can I love my sex life even though a gust in the wind can make me cum? was essentially the question.
Then I discovered techniques that would help me enjoy myself… special positions that help over-sensitive members. I realized going extremely slow would be helpful. Communicating with my partner is HUGE… if I don’t tell her EXACTLY how sensitive I am that day and whether it’s an “in control” or “no control” kind of day, I’m going to have very bad sex.
So that’s one thing to consider… when you have sex with your partner, do you fake it and pretend you’re getting sensations when you’re actually not? Because that’s a LOT of psychological pressure, which is fritzing mini-mech’s wiring…
And in as many other ways as you can, try and ask yourself what enjoyable sex would look like, giving your current conditions. Maybe your member doesn’t feel sensations during sex, but, if she very slowly and lovingly gave you a handjob, would that be different? If you used more lube, would that be different? If you pleased her sexually and she pleased you by pleasuring parts of your body other than your member, would that help? Could she play with the surrounding areas?
I recently requested a Q module that would heal sexual trauma, and I thought about how we could have stacks that heal sexual trauma based on current major programs available… that’s when I realized REBIRTH is an UBER-IMPORTANT sexual healing sub, although I haven’t tested this out yet.
Rebirth is necessary to rapidly remove any old programming porn might have ingrained in your subconscious. It’ll also help with emotional healing related to sexual shame. It’ll also be a results-enhancer for the effects of Diamond.
I would highly recommend stacking Diamond with Rebirth and experimenting with that.
If you want a third sub that controls an aspect of your personality, improves your sex life, and makes life overall enjoyable without distracting from your sex goals, Emperor would be your best bet.
Like I said, communication is everything when you’re trying to make the most out of a sexual dysfunction… and Emperor makes communicating your true desires without shame feel effortless. And it has SMX in it. And it has general confidence in it. So in and out of the bedroom you’ll be getting benefits.
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Stop. Watching. Porn. Ya’ll.
It messes with the reward and pleasure pathways in your mind and desensitizes you to sexual interaction with a real woman. Diamond’s doing what it can, but it looks like you’ve got a bit more rewriting to do. If you can feel pleasure if your partner uses their hand, but not with actual penetration, that’s exactly what this is.
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I’m happy for you! Congratulations on the marriage, if that’s a recent thing. Do what you can to stay away from toxic eroticity and take time to enjoy the sensations of your physical interaction with your wife, especially intimacy. As someone who has actually kicked a long porn addiction for the most part, I can say this helped me.
Good for you, man.
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In Sha Allah, Never watching that disgusting stuff again for sure.
Does that imply “Stick to diamond longer”. I’ve been on diamond for over 6 months. But been on diamond plus real intimacy for 2 weeks.and off of porn for 4 weeks.
Strangely, I feel very light sensation if I drift out of the present and focus on some fantasies in my head and pretend I’m having them in real. I came like this twice. But I’m avoiding doing that.
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Why are you avoiding that?
You are re-training your body this way…
You are teaching yourself to cum during real-life sex instead of in front of a computer, which is entirely what your goal is!
Good job!
Keep doing that…
And once it’s normal for you to cum during sex with your partner, THAT’S when you can start trying to cum while in the present moment with her.
Forcing yourself to cum only in one very specific way is psychological pressure… you want to let your body do what it is telling you it wants to do. Right now it is telling you it still wants visual stimulation.
For now, just trick your body into realizing it’s normal to cum during physical intercourse by visualizing, and worry about the rest later. Needing to fantasize to cum is still a crutch, but it’s better than needing porn to cum!
This is really not a long time. Being off porn for 4 weeks is only the beginning of the journey. You’re not inputting any new programming now, sure, but it’ll take time to re-wire what was already programmed. That’s why I recommended Rebirth, to speed up that process.
That’s not very long either. Give yourself time now that you’re taking action. Sure, you were listening to Diamond for 6 months, but you were only listening to it without watching porn for 4 weeks, and only listening to it while having sex for 2 weeks.
Keep on finding other non-subliminal ways to approach this problem, too. Maybe certain supplements or techniques.
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This is generally speaking an article about libido. Higher libido generally equates to higher pleasure during sex. Check it out
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I hope and pray that your request gets approved!!!
Thanks for the article. I will go through it
Because it involves other women who re not there
Oh shit! Didn’t think like that
Thanks bro! That’s some really great advice
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I agree with @Billions.
Recently I have come to learn that it isn’t masturbation which is the problem for most people (unless one does it too many times per day). The much bigger danger is porn which simulates a virtuel reality that you are having sex with loads of women when in reality you aren’t and hence simply end up masturbating too many times looking at porn. A waste of time too since we all end up looking for the “right video” to do the deed with.
Porn changes what we are turned on by when we masturbate using porn. Using your imagination of women you meet in real life is an altogether different matter though.
Another difference is that when we use imagination, we imagine ourselves as “part of the act of sex”. But in porn, we are the “voyeur” and “cuck”.
Yes, we can say that we watch only POV or women solo porn but even that has the element of voyeurism and the fact that the women many times are exaggerated versions of real life women. Which is why our arousal decreases in real life when we have used porn for a long time.
I once watched a YouTube video where the guy advised to NOT practice nofap or semen retenfion. I must admit I was a bit offended by that suggestion. But his logic went this way. Men naturally build up sexual energy when they retain. And that peaks at around 7 to 10 days (also depends on the age of the man). The first time we retain for a long time, we end up having a wet dream. Which is the body’s natural way to expend excessive sexual energy.
In the same way, when we are too horny after a couple of days of saving, it is okay to go to the rest room, imagine a woman in your life that you like, and rub one out.
I did this 2 or 3 times over the course of the last month and found that I had no urge at all to look at porn. The frequency of masturbation also stopped and surprisingly am not even thinking about it. Which is a big relief.
Why this works is because since ancient times, it was normal for men to rub it out if they were too high in sexual energy and didn’t have access to women. Women weren’t very easy to access too during those days.
High speed Internet porn is a very recent invention which is why our body made out of millions of years of evolution is crashing with the use of this “virus”.
Maybe this practice along with a “longer” use of DIAMOND ZP (pun intended) will help.
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Have you explored other sexual positions other then the standard me on top of her. I discovered through experimentation that the “tight squeeze” is one of my favourite positions, for me it feels like i am asserting my dominance over my partner and it really turns me on it feels very dirty and i like that.
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An important distinction I realized in my old NoFap journeys, and it took awhile.
It isn’t masturbation that is the problem. It’s what you’re using to masturbate with that causes masturbation to become an issue.
Even edging to porn is pretty troubling for the involved brain centers
A difficult but very useful tip I once read had to do with masturbating with the awareness focused solely on the physical sensations one is experiencing - no matter how minimal they may be - while avoiding fantasizing about anything whatsoever.
It helped me a few years ago. Now, I rarely masturbate. If I do, it’s usually edging and not necessarily to porn.
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Exactly. I thought I was masturbating too much because masturbation itself was an issue. I was wrong. I was masturbating too much because I was watching too much porn!!!
When I stopped watching porn, I allowed myself to masturbate imagining a girl who I had slept with earlier. It actually felt good and guilt free. That surprised me. And like I mentioned before, I did that 2 more times in the course of a month when I felt really horny or when I wanted to watch porn. But I avoided porn and just masturbated. That too wasn’t bad.
After that, I realised I wasn’t even feeling the need to watch porn or even masturabate as much. Which was a big relief. I feel like I attained freedom by doing something so simple that it is a miracle.
So my advice for those who are addicted to porn and masturbation is, when you feel the urge to watch porn, go masturbate without porn. Think of an attractive girl you have met in your life if you want that arousal. Don’t think of girls in porn else it will tempt you to look at your phone. Do this a few times and you will realise that the masturbation addiction is because of your sexual energy being taken advantage of by porn rather than anything bad about masturbation in itself.
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The closest thing we have right now is adding Rebirth to your stack!
this is a problem i have had my entire life.
in fact, believe it or not…i have literally NEVER had an orgasm from real sex
its actually a pretty big problem that i wish i had taken more seriously years ago
I went to see an expert and he has prescribed 5mg daily cialis which is supposed to make it easier to stay hard during real sex and im doing my best to completelly stop all masturbation and porn so my brain only gets used to experiencing pleasure from real sex.
my advice to you is do not be an idiot like i was where i kind of ignored this problem…go see an expert and actively start working on this NOW…make it one of your top 2 priorities in life
i always laugh when i see guys complain about finishing too fast during sex…not being able to finish at all is 100 times worst.
after my washout i plan to really attack this problem during the next 3 week cycle.
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