Question from @themadsexyscientist (original post):
@qOS could wanted and WDB work well in a stack complementing each other’s style Would Wanted bring the high value sexual magnetism, while wbd would bring safety and connection when things get slow and you get to know the person and be able to connect with them on a deeper level I ask because when I run wanted I get the attention but it doesn’t move to anything substantial, when I run wbd, I get women opening up to me but no interest in wanting to sexually escalate I’m looking for a holistic vibe I do have become the prize essence in my stack as a name embed with GLM but the features like the wanted reality bubble, echoes of fulfillment, I’m sure aren’t included in the essence, so I’m wondering how a stack would work if I had Wanted and GLM as the cores…what modules would compliment the social side of wanted, becoming the life of the party, being able to talk to everyone, make everyone seen and heard, all without coming off like a social aloof, I struggle big time with socializing with multiple women at the same time, sometimes one on one unless I’ve known her for a long time its the feeling like not socially being inept to keep a conversation going, though with guys its easy and we can talk for hours and hours without a second thought so wondering what social modules would bolster my custom so socializing with women is no longer an issue when it comes down to it
Summary
@themadsexyscientist — yes, WANTED and Wanted: Dream Boy complement each other well, and the split you describe is close to how they differ. WANTED supplies the tension and the escalation. Dream Boy supplies the depth, the safety and the slower connection.
Why each one stalls on its own
WANTED is built around being pursued. The WANTED State helps you drop into playful push and pull, teasing and escalation, and The Sexual Core puts masculinity and sexual appeal into how you move and hold space. Most of the openings that come with WANTED and its Reality Bubble are subtle rather than direct: someone lingering near you, a look, closeness. Turning attention into something substantial depends on noticing those as openings and acting on them. Freedom to Flow is there to ease the hesitation before you do.
Dream Boy is deliberately slow-burn. Lips Before They Touch helps you stop treating the kiss or the escalation as the goal and stay comfortable in the moment before it. That fits what you noticed: conversations go deep, and the escalation is left to you. Dream Boy Dialogue and To Feel Alive in Your Arms are where its depth and sense of safety come from.
Run together, WANTED adds the charge that Dream Boy leaves out. Dream Boy adds a deeper connection for that charge to sit inside. Dream Boy belongs to the WANTED line, so the two sit together naturally.
Your ESSENCE and the WANTED Core
ESSENCE: To Become The Prize is the whole of WANTED distilled into one module, so the Reality Bubble and the rest of the title are in it, in condensed form. Because it is distilled, it has less room for each feature than the full title does. Echoes of Fulfillment was mined from the WANTED script, so its concept is already part of WANTED. Adding the module beside the title pronounces that feature.
If you move to WANTED Core with Godlike Masculinity Core, take To Become The Prize out, since it would repeat the core. Godlike Masculinity sits well beside WANTED: WANTED’s emotional-mastery feature, Stormless Depths, was built with technology from the new Godlike Masculinity. For Dream Boy’s side in the same custom, ESSENCE: To Dream of Me is the whole of Dream Boy distilled into one module.
Social modules for the custom
You already talk with men for hours without effort, so the skill is there. The work is carrying that same ease into conversations with women, one to one and in groups. WANTED already carries The Living Pulse, which brings ease and fun into how you socialise. These modules add the most on top of it:
- True Social Core is the strongest fit for what you describe. It carries Daredevil: True Social, which reads group dynamics, helps you slip into a circle without friction, and helps you make sure everyone in the group is seen and heard. Its Mastering Social Momentum helps you build on a shared laugh or an insight so a conversation keeps flowing instead of fizzling out.
- ESSENCE: To Dream of Me brings Dream Boy’s unhurried presence, conversation style and sense of safety into the build in condensed form.
- Charisma & Flirting Automatic Mentor-Improver works as an inner coach for flirting. It guides you toward the right actions, helps you notice your mistakes and leads you to material worth learning from.
- ESSENCE: Magnetic Social Flow works on the move from forced small talk to genuine conversation, and brings social anxiety and fear of rejection into focus so they can ease.
- Story Teller helps you tell engaging stories, which gives a conversation something to run on.
- Approachability Aura adds an open, approachable presence beside WANTED’s mystery, so the mystery does not tip into aloofness.
That gives a build of WANTED Core, Godlike Masculinity Core, ESSENCE: To Dream of Me, True Social Core, Charisma & Flirting Automatic Mentor-Improver, ESSENCE: Magnetic Social Flow, Story Teller and Approachability Aura, with Echoes of Fulfillment if you want that feature pronounced. Customs have a 20-module cap, so if your current build is close to it, swap modules out rather than adding.
Next step: rebuild around WANTED Core and Godlike Masculinity Core with To Become The Prize removed, and put True Social Core first among the social modules. Listening guidance is in the official instructions: https://instructions.subliminalclub.com