Oh I understand, I just fundamentally disagreed with it is all. Of course, it’s up to each person to make their decisions and learn from their own life’s experiences. Though I am not the de facto authority on the subject matter, I just wanted to express my thoughts on that. Almost felt obligated to. I have seen that scenario of ‘trying to win back’ play out many times in my life and others’ lives. Whether it works or not in the short-term, I don’t believe it’s healthy or sustainable. imo. And I personally believe this is all directly correlated with self-worth, self-esteem, and self-respect. If I’m wrong, I’m wrong. But I want to encourage him to atleast be honest and introspective with himself. Of course it is up to @ichigo to decide what he wants to do. We’re all just trying to help him
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No disrespect to you of course. This forum should always be a place where we can challenge each other’s ideas. In a civil, respectful way of course. My ideas too. sometimes I may sound too dogmatic